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    so is it illegal now contacting escorts in backpage/cerb? sorry tried to read all the comment on this thread but I still don't understand.

     

    I have been doing this for sometimes but the last time I went to see an escort there were a police car waiting outside her apartment so I'm a bit worried now. Good thing nothing happened to me.

     

    btw does this bill apply to all of Canada? or just in particular province?

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    Yeah for me its all about her body, if she met my ideal height and weight then it wouldn't matter for me how she look. So pictures aren't really that important for me since most woman won't show their face anyway. You may find it weird but this is my preference

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    Hi, I'm looking for an hotel in downtown Ottawa that would let SP/escort to visit me in my room and so that she can go through to the lobby/front desk discreetly. It would be great too if the elatvator does not require you to use a room key access. I have seen this previous thread related to this but don't know if these hotels are still the same because I think Minto is no longer an hotel.

    https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=39726

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    I'm glad many of you answered my thread and from this I have learned something. However this discussion seems to start to grow towards another topics which I have no interested in it(black's willy, white privilege, stereotype, etc). But if some of you wondering what I have decided then I'll say that I would prefer to mention them in advance that I'm black. (if not interested, skip it)

     

    My reason is, if I don't say this in advanced than I'm already not a respectful person, regardless how much I treat her with respect or having a good times together. And it would be too naive to say(or assume) she had no problem, or enjoy it during our time together even though I didn't mention my skin color because most of providers started do this kind of job because they have no options. So they are already in uncomfortable situation which something I think it is needed to be respected and understand, especially for her spending some time with a strangers that have different culture and perspective that some providers have no experienced in it. And so for those ads that has "no black gents" in it then I would assume they are just beginners/amateurs. For those ads that put me on the dark, then I should always ask whether they can see me or not. I have also seen some ads that says all race/nationality/color is welcome, black gents welcome, accept black gents, even black gents above +30/40, (which nowadays I used to search)has showed me that stereotypes, discrimination or privilege isn't the main factor.

     

    I believe we all have preferences and this is one of the reason why man choose to look for providers because of the diversity of choices that is available and so women should have theirs choice who they want to be with, no matter who they are.

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    Hi, I'm a black gents. I never had an appointment with an escort from any sites like bp, scarlet, etc (Usually I go to Asian agency escort). But Im currently looking for one but some adds has this 'no black gents' restriction so I stay away from them. But there are some that don't have it, so would it still be okay to make an appointment without telling you are black?

     

    This is not a complain or whatever because I understand these ladies has its own reasons. I just wanna know the appropriate way that will not hurt them or drama-situation to happen during my visits.

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