Lephturn

I was trying to find someone new to see and have found a gorgeous lady that was posting for that day. I send her a text describing myself and what I was looking for as availability, she replied and told me all was fine and gave me the address and then I did not get anything else until I showed up and texted her. She is now asking for a deposit to secure our time, I tell her that I'm in the lobby and I'm ready. She says not before I give her the deposit. So i ask her if she is available or not, she says that she is, so what is the problem here?

She says she will not book me until I send her money, I told her to give me the room # and I would give the money in her hand if she wants(I had the money in an envelope). After she started to argue with me I simply wished her a good rest of the day and weekend. I'm always nervous to give out money over the internet without having proof of what I will get in return(or not get for that matter)

Another reason I do not wish to give out money that way is a paper trail(proof) and that my wife would find out and ask the W5.

Well that was a pretty big red flag if the deposit thing suddenly popped up at the last second.I wonder if it was a straight scam or she double-booked or something?

Agreed about the paper trail. It would be good if there was a good anonymous crypto-currency but BitCoin is too hard for both sides to use and leaves a trail of it's own.

If you find this thread interesting I'd suggest reading this:

https://percieblakeney.com/2017/04/28/loving-an-escort/

Percie is an Aussie client and this article is an interesting examination of connection/love/intimacy and how to manage it without falling too far. As a gentleman who is new as a client I found this very interesting and it helps me be aware of these emotions and prepare myself or just be more self-aware.

Some will say that "love" is the wrong word, and maybe it is, but to me these emotions are all on the same spectrum - the key is to find the right level and stay there, without falling too far.

Lephturn @OttawaErotica

Why thank you! I mean, I would hope an OB has a highly in-depth and medical knowledge of vaginas, uteri and forth LOL, but I do have a very different perspective that I would say is equally beneficial. Thank you for taking the time to read and respond! xo

They have what I would call technical knowledge - book learning. OBs are surgeons so most of them have the "man with a hammer" syndrome. They only have one solution to every issue - surgery. I spent most of my time defending against unnecessary interventions during the birth of my 3 little ones. We got lucky and had a progressive OB, but wow did we have to work to have a natural birth with no drugs despite there being no issues. Every intervention slammed the brakes on - even the Pitocin shot meant to kick things into gear. Laying her down on her back in a bed slammed the brakes on the process.

If I knew then what I know now I'd go home birth.

It's not the doc's fault, it's the systems problem - when the male medical establishment took over the birthing process and pushed out the midwives a tremendous amount of knowledge was lost. Much of the modern medical "knowledge" is filtered through the lens of men and seems designed more for their convenience than the way women's bodies actually work. Women like you are helping to reclaim some of that critical female knowledge and it is very valuable for women, families, and society. Thank you.

I suspect that the a/v aspects keep people out of the chat. I know you don't have to turn that on, but it pushed me out of it the first time. The pop-ups asking for microphone and camera access.... woah woah... DO NOT WANT.

Just a plain old text chat would I think get much more action. Every time I've dropped into Chat Room it's been empty so...

Great post Lilith! :)

It is really weird how people don't see the connection. It's like they think we are all clones or something. Almost all of us are here because two people fucked and had a good time doing it. I think your focus on both sex and birth makes you more knowledgeable and better at both with more complete knowledge even of the anatomy of a woman. I'd bet you know more about vulvas and vaginas than any OB.

Oh one more question about Nuden...

One dancer I was with in the CR mentioned a "special" VIP area "upstairs" from the CR I was in. I didn't partake (I had spent plenty in the regular one) but has anyone made that move? What kinda donation are we talking about for that? What is it and why should I or shouldn't I try it? PM me if that's appropriate.

Thanks,

Sean

On the other hand. I have seen gentleman who said, "I want to write a recommendation but if I do you will be busy. I want you for myself." That is 1) A bit creepy as I am not available to anyone 24/7, other than my fur-son, 2) It is rude to say that because they know they enjoyed themselves and wants to keep me their "kept secret" (whatever that means).

I do understand the emotion behind that, but it's not realistic. I want the ladies I see who take me to heaven to do very well and stay in the business. I want them to make good money and see them succeed in their business and in life. The emotion that we all naturally feel is jealousy and Shakespeare said it best in Othello:

O, beware, my lord, of jealousy;

It is the green-ey'd monster, which doth mock

The meat it feeds on. That cuckold lives in bliss,

Who, certain of his fate, loves not his wronger:

But O, what damnèd minutes tells he o'er

Who dotes, yet doubts, suspects, yet strongly loves!

Jealousy is natural to feel yet irrational in this situation and destructive always. A gentleman must overrule this base instinct with higher reasoning and act accordingly, but not all clients have that level of self-awareness.

I find the recommendations are worthwhile and I write them when I have a great time with a lady. I write quite lengthy ones and try to convey how that lady made me feel.

Why do I do it? I want other gents to know this lady is worth seeing. I want the lady's business to increase - I want her to be successful so I can see her more in the future. If I don't have a good time... well I don't recommend that lady.

Now I'm strictly working with MAs so far in my career, but that may change. I do read recommendations and I can often find value in them. I too need intimacy foremost - so I'm looking for that in the reviews.

Why have I written several glowing recommendations? Because I've had wonderful amazing sessions with beautiful ladies that have far exceeded my expectations for intimacy, sensuality, and down right fun. I try to convey how they made me feel and why I think it was so good. I do note the things I can't speak to. For example some gents might want a really good massage and body slides - but I don't. I specifically note in my recos that it wasn't part of my session so I can't speak to it.

Spent Saturday night at Nuden with a buddy. It seemed very busy - it was hopping by say 9 or 10 PM.

My first time - I liked that it was big and open, and seemed up-scale compared to the fax.

Dancers that stood out...

Eva - tall german with red hair and braces.

Veronica - long dark curly hair, beautiful face, very sexy - I'll go back looking for her.

Oh sweet Winnie - why did I wait so long to spend time with you? I didn't know what I was missing - you gentlemen reading this have the benefit of learning from my ignorance.

I first met Winnie while enjoying a cold beer at the bar at Brass after a session. Winnie is a dark haired - dark eyed petite beauty with a quick wit and a mischievous gleam in her eye. She is well spoken and intelligent and we shared stories and dreams of travel. Winnie comes across as more mature than might expect for a 21 year old woman and I found her very engaging and great to talk to. I was able to keep a little bit of connection with her on Twitter https://twitter.com/winniebrass and remind myself of her beauty through the pictures she posts.

Well it took quite a few weeks before our schedules lined up and I was able to book time with the lovely Winnie. I arrived a few minutes early and was greeted by the lovely Jessica and said hello to a few of the other ladies that were on the big couches near the bar. I grabbed a beer for me Winnie appeared in a sexy peach bra and panty set with a black silk short robe over the top. She greeted me with a warm hug and kiss and my heart rate increased dramatically. I got her a GnT and she sat with me at the bar and chatted before our session.

The time soon came and we took our drinks and moved back to one of the nicely appointed rooms at Brass Club. The door closed behind us and we embraced warmly. I love to pick up a lady embrace her, and with Winnie at 5'2" and 100 lbs you don't have to be a power lifter to accomplish that. Winnie is petite but not skinny, she is fit with the most fantastic bum and wonderful perky natural breasts. Her soft white skin contrasts with her dark hair and eyes wonderfully. Our time together began with a tender embrace that turned into... well more embracing. :) There was no rush and no agenda, we naturally transitioned to the massage table eventually. I enjoy massaging the lady, and Winnie was receptive - even appreciative of my efforts. Things moved on from there - Winnie is amazing, responsive, and at times vocal - something I very much enjoy. I teased Winnie substantially early in the session and I should have known I would be payed back in kind later on. That gleam in her eye and the up turned half-smile has her quick wit and a bit of kink behind it.

Eventually we switched places and it was her turn to tease me relentlessly - and she is very adept at it. I have an image burned into my memory: Looking down at Winnie who is kneeling up on the massage table beside me, I can see her in profile, her amazing bum and perky breasts are the things dreams are made of. The light in the room back-lights her and the impression is of a silhouette of passion. Her hair is pulled back and her gaze alternates between the focus of her attention and looking in my eyes. She is a sexy vision of classic beauty that will return to me in my dreams. Only when we neared the end of our session did she well... end me. :) Le petit mort indeed - the best end to a session I have experienced. We finished up with a nice hot soapy shower with more tender kisses.

Now I can't tell you about Winnie's massage or body slides, I was much too busy enjoying her for that. ;) She is fit and strong and can hold a plank for 4 minutes - I"m sure she can deliver both aptly but you'll need to see for yourself.

Gentlemen I highly recommend Winnie.

New Nicole at Brass. WOW

https://twitter.com/nicolebcxo

Curly/wavy or straight? Doesn't matter? Asian?

Lots to choose from. I will add that Brass has a membership fee but it's $5 so not a big deal.

Lovehoney doesn't seem to have them.

Good old Amazon.ca has them. http://a.co/bKNmsWS

I suppose you could always ask a provider if they are open to using them and then bring some of your own? They're pretty expensive, but can be obtained for free from some places (I could provide suggestions for Winnipeg but I'm not familiar with other cities.)

 

Though they are better once you've had some time to experiment and get used to them, so I could understand not wanting to try them for the first time with someone who is also trying them for the first time, particularly with an average length session.

The expense is not an issue, but as a general rule I want a lady to feel completely safe and comfortable and bringing my own might not make her feel safe. That said, if I discussed it with her first, she wanted to try them, and I could bring an unopened package it might work.

Sweet Lilith is an amazing lady and highly recommended.

I too was captivated by Lilith while having a drink at the bar at Brass Club. I tend to book sessions just before lunch and then enjoy lunch and a couple of beers afterwards while talking with many of the lovely ladies. On the day I met Lilith talked with at least 10 gorgeous women while I was there. Lilith stood out. First let me say this lady has the most amazing sexy smile. I think that was what got my attention initially. We are talking Angelina Jolie smile/lips, and when she smiles at you it's like sunlight breaking through the clouds to shine just on you. She has beautiful cream colored skin with just a hint of coffee and the most wonderful curves complemented by long black hair and big brown eyes you could fall into. Those eyes have a sparkle and twinkle that goes with her smile and let's you know that intelligence and humor are just below the surface. We started talking before you know it I was demonstrating yoga positions and she was suggesting music I might like. And she was right, I very much enjoy what she recommended. After talking with her, basking in her smile, and looking into those deep dark eyes, I knew I needed to spend some quality time with Lilith.

Well it took some time, it was 2 weeks before I was able to arrange time with Lilith. We exchanged a few messages and both of us savored the anticipation. I was connected to Lilith on twitter https://twitter.com/lilithbrass and communicated with her there as well. I shared some of the fantasies I wanted to explore and she enthusiastically agreed. We cranked up the intensity so that by the time we met... well I'm jumping ahead. :)

I found parking without any problem across the street and went up to the club a few minutes early. I was greeted warmly as usual by the beautiful Jessica and offered a hot or cold beverage - water for me, I was going to need it! Lilith came out to meet me shortly and greeted me with a warm hug and one of her dazzling smiles. Let me tell you gentlemen, anticipation can be a very good thing because Lilith was glowing and excited for our session. We were shown to a nice big room with a double table and a huge shower with shower heads everywhere. When the door closed it was obvious how excited we both were. Let's just say it was at least 15 minutes of kissing and more before we actually made it to the massage table. I won't go into the details, but our time together blew my fantasy out of the water. We took our time together teasing and exploring and before long it was time to have a hot shower together and get cleaned up and we tried to be brief but even at the end we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. Lilith is intoxicating, sensual and intimate. I can't wait to see her again.

Lephturn @OttawaErotica

I'm about done with financial services unfairly penalizing sex workers. What a bunch of BS. I already avoid using PayPal for just this reason. The latest one I heard causing a problem is Stripe - which sucks. They are all down with sex workers when they are new and growing, but as soon as they get big they cut them off. It's BS.

"Wow - you you have some god damned SKILLS! I'm going to need a minute to just lay here and quiver before I can stand up."

Skyns are great. Polyisoprene is nicer than latex.

 

FC2 female/internal condoms are also fantastic once you get used to them.

Hmmm, I've heard female condoms mentioned but never experienced it. For those that have - what do you think? Ladies, what are the plusses and minuses for you?

Curious about these. Options are good!

I'd start by going to see somebody like Sandy (linked in the other thread). Some MAs will work with you and if you book an hour they can expertly help you including multiple finishes. Start with someone like Sandy who's an expert about what you want, I guarantee there are lots of ladies that can help - and they enjoy it. Women don't often get to feel powerful, especially in the realm of sex, but some ladies really enjoy the power they have over a man when they know what they are doing.

Right on the money ZugZug, I had a similar experience.

This is what I like about Twitter, CMJ parties, and having lunch at the bar at Brass after a session. All are ways of meeting and connecting with these wonderful ladies and you'll soon see who you feel a little spark with.

Case in point today - lunch at Brass after my session (mind blowing duo with Chloe and Ren) and I got chatting with Holly and Lilith. Lilith and I were swapping music recommendations and then in chatting the topic of running and yoga came up - and I wind up on the floor with Lilith showing her pigeon pose (my fave, so good on the glutes). So we are both there stretching, looking into each other's eyes and smiling. It was a silly little thing yet so intimate. I feel like we have a great connection and I am looking forward to a session with her as soon as it's feasible for me.

With sweet Lola that connection started on Twitter. With the amazing Mya it was Twitter as well. Interact with these wonderful women any way you can, you will soon get a sense of who you have a connection with. :)

I was lucky to meet with Mya today at Brass Club and wow, this lady is sensational!

I was browsing twitter earlier this week and saw that @TheBrassClub had retweeted a new lady named Mya. The post is linked above.

Book me @TheBrassClub tonight until 10pm - call 613-508-1100 or TXT me @ 613-800-6619 #gfe #intimate #sensual #hotmassage #bodyslides

The picture showed a stunning young brunette with a smile that reminds me of Elizabeth Hurley. (It's the hella-cute dimples) Browsing her profile she mentioned #gfe and #sensual which is just what I have been looking for. I'm looking for kissing and intimacy, I'm looking to be able to massage the lady and enjoy her amazing body and I hoped to find that with Mya. I took a chance based on this and booked her for the full hour.

I am new so was not set up to book online yet - so I emailed and Jessica responded and confirmed my booking for Friday. I was nervous, could a woman that looked so stunning provide the level of intimacy I crave? (YES, yes she does!) Parking is convenient (across the street) and the location is very discreet. I buzzed in and was greeted warmly and offered a hot or cold beverage. After grabbing a water I was shown to a well appointed and large room with a double sized massage table and a great shower with a lot of shower heads. I made myself comfortable and within a minute Mya knocked and entered the room. WOW. Her pictures don't do her justice. She was wearing a sexy black lacy bra and panties that highlight her wonderful figure. Her sexy petite body is only exceeded by her beautiful face. Drop dead gorgeous.

Mya provides a true GFE (within MA limits of course) with lots of intimate kissing, nuzzling, and touching. After a slippery delightful shower where I explored her amazing curves, we snuggled and kissed for a while before moving to the large double table for some slippery fun. She allowed me to gently massage her wonderful body front and back, interspersed with kissing and some friendly conversation. She's intelligent and genuine, her mind and personality even more beautiful than her body. We both enjoyed our turns being massaged, and I left a very happy and stress-free man.

We had a wonderful time together. I'm going to have a nap now. :D If you are looking for something much more sensual and intimate than just a typical massage Mya is highly recommended. Book her for a full hour gentlemen, but try to leave a few spots in her schedule for me! Treat her well.

Well gents I had a repeat visit with the lovely Mya at Brass.

This being our second meeting I was giddy with anticpation. After a warm welcome from Jessica, the lovely Mya entered the room and I had to take a step back and admire her beauty. She wore a sexy black bra and panty set that enhanced her curves. She greeted me warmly, like a lover, and instantly put me at ease. We enjoyed what I hesitate to call cuddling - it was much more passionate than that.

There was much kissing and cuddling, with no rush or agenda. She let the hour just flow and happen naturally. Particularly memorable was our soapy shower fun and exploring each other on the massage table.

If you are looking for more than just a massage, if you want a truly intimate experience with an wonderful lady Mya is just what you need. Highly recommended.

Well I had my 3rd session with Mya - I'm hooked.

Brass Club is great as usual - parking can be tricky but other than that it's great. I was welcomed by the beautiful Jessica and shortly after Mya retrieved me and we went to one of the rooms with the double massage table. Mya was wearing a red tartan short skirt with a sexy black thong and a tight white top leaving her perfect midriff exposed. This sexy school girl outfit had me wound up immediately. Mya is beautiful and petite, and the short skirt shows off her incredible behind.

I love sessions with Mya -no rush, no plan - she just lets the session flow. We started on the comfortable black leather couch getting re-acquainted with lots of cuddles and kisses mixed with some small talk. She crawled up on my lap which allowed me to explore her amazing body and shower her with kisses. She has the most flawless and soft white skin that looks amazing but feels even better to the touch. We eventually made our way to the table where we played and teased each other repeatedly until we both built to a wonderful conclusion. After a very enjoyable time we finished with a hot shower and more kissing and cuddles.

Mya flat rocks my world. It is intimacy I crave and this lady over-delivers. We have good chemistry and she is so sweet that I will continue to repeat with Mya. I only see Mya for an hour - but for that hour she makes me feel like the center of the universe.

I know there are quite a few. I'm sure some will be along shortly.

I have not been yet... but http://www.exclusivelymia.com/welcome/ advertises this. I've spoken to her on twitter and she seems to be a real gem - smart, funny, and sexy in mind as well as body.

Yes there are reasons why deposits won't work. I like the suggestions of a One strike rule, no show once and deposit required if you want to book again. That or pay cancellation fee to get off the list.

Agreed that the goal is to protect these wonderful ladies so they can have a safe and viable business.

Maybe a deposit is the way to go. It's only fair - it's not like you can get that time back.

I know some guys would freak at the thought, but I think it's reasonable.