OceanMassage

On 11/20/2018 at 8:07 AM, Ice4fun said:

 That said this does seem like something you would expect from a sub on Criminal Minds.

Or a frat house trophy board 

On 11/20/2018 at 10:18 PM, Ice4fun said:

I have normally booked longer appointment and repeated with ladies over time because some of the best elements of sex is all the elements leading up to the actual sex.... 

I include in that the chat with the lady before the actual meeting... the buildup of that sexual tension and excitement as a result of the anticipation... the learning what make your partners heart start to race... where to touch... where to lick the devil of great sex like most things is in the details.  

I have found that booking 2hr appointments when I can is spectacular because it give you tile to chat ... to touch ... to take the time to breath her in as you hug and kiss her neck... you can have a drink and learn about each other... one of my best sessions was with a lady when we met at a rented condo with a deck and cooked together... BBQed Tenderloin and grilled vegetables...  we ate on the deck then went inside and sat by the fire for some amazing foreplay... followed by an hour of fun in the bedroom... spectactular.

Sex acts are of course great fun... but when you get fucked mentally before your have sex... Wow

Just my Opinion

Sounds so lovely! 

For that very reason, I like when I am booked ahead of time so I can fantasize and look forward to our time together. 

I am especially turned on by a ladies' beautiful breasts or a gentleman's powerful thick girth penis.  I love to feel the body respond to my massage while the person remains docile yet alert on the table, without expectations and without grabbing.  I like the person to come with no other expectation than a great massage.  Ymmv and without the pressure of expectations, I can thoroughly enjoy myself which leads to some fantastic experience for both.  

Do you.  

I concur. Clean and tidy is a must. SOS pads not.   

I tried to find the rec I received through searches on my name nothing came up.  I finally dug it out on page 50 or something! Nobody in their right mind would flip 50 pages to find a rec for a lady!  Plus my select patrons are very discreet and don't post rec (and i don't ask them to) so the likelihood of my rec ever receiving stars (as per the new system) is very low which means I will never get the extra exposure on the featured top rec'd.  Not nice 

I was puzzled by the op because of the contradiction in the statement: "what is a deal breaker with a SP? For me...

(...) lots of DFK, BBBJ with CIM

sounds as if a SP who provides those is a big no no

which would make sense 

but that "must allow DATY" let us understand that op was just too lazy to type a proper statement with the appropriate negative at the proper place.  

I compare this  aesthetic site to a young body perfect young inexperienced sp whereas the old one was the mature experienced one ymmv.😝

I lost all of my following and followers but I am still registered in tons of clubs I no longer participate in. I looked into de-membering (lol that sounds painful!) myself from them but couldn't figure out how to do it.

Also, I was trying to curate my album and every time I delete a photo, I get booted out from the album and land in the Gallery. Is there any way to delete a photo that doesn't do that?

After a long hiatus, I am going to take new clients again starting in July. I should update the pics which are 2 years back.. Will take a few new one in my next sun vacation in a few weeks!

I feel 32, look barely 40 but did blow my 48 candles this past March...

Mature Angela is over 50 and I recommend her for sure, however, she is rarely in town. If you see her ad in town, go.

 

I would love to get an update on ladies over 45 that are currently around.

 

I have yet to see Alex Grenyait but I should resolve that shortly :)

47, I have been very quiet on the boards but still around :-)

What doesn't help is people like Sue McGarvie and her "Ducklings" group. She presents herself as a world renown sex therapist but to a crowd of more than hundreds, she completely dismissed the seriousness of STI! She's like: ok, for the paranoia surrounding swinging and open relationships: there's only 79 cases of Syphilis (or similar figures) per year, so your chances to catch it are what, Ottawa's population is almost a million now so... And if you had it, its super easy to treat.

Talk about disinformation and creating reckless beliefs!

And that obviates chlamydia which often goes without symptoms but has terrible consequences on reproduction health. Or herpes which is uncurable, painful loaded with stigma. Ok controlable in many cases but still a gift one could do without.

Unfortunately, many people think that because their house was never flooded, they should not take the insurance option and lament they are ruined when it rains for 10 days straight and sewer backup fload their basement.

You could ask, while you're face down, something like:

"I really appreciate your massages. They are really (soothing, relaxing, energizing, destressing ...) and satisfying. That being said, do you always do strictly therapeutic relaxation massages?

Wait for answer: if yes: say Thank you for clarifying. No harm done and she should feel safe.

If answer is a question such as "what do you mean", you may ask "well are you open to add on a more sensual or erotic note?" (I would love that a lot more than Do you do extra !)

If answer is no, I do other stuff too or the like, then go with the flow!

I love strip clubs. I love using the champagne room. I love making such an impression on a dancer that she wants to give me her number or email.

I mean, I'm not really into talking with some rando about the intricacies of server maintenance when I'm at home. I won't send you pics of my machines, either. That's just weird. Don't ask again, you weirdo.

But, I would love to see your machine!

A very needed vacation to Cuba : leaving Saturday February 4

This is a beautiful thread i will get back to when I can read all the contributions on a bigger screen than my iPhone but one thing I always say to people who sacrifice themselves for their kids or their loved ones: be happy. Do everything in your power to do the things that make you happy. We do not always "feel " happy but if we think we are and make it our project to think that we are and find ways to nurture it.

This is important because we are better spouses or parents when we are happy. We teach our kids to love themselves in a non egoistic way when we truly are happy.

A big element that brings happiness is growing. In your actual situation, you feel stuck. So you don't feel progress, growth.

Your wife certainly can feel that you lost your sparkle. She seems a beautiful and intuitive being. Her "permission" to you is the only way she can feel that she's giving you of herself on that plane. If you don't make it your point to be happy, she wont feel she can make you happy and it will damper her own sense of accomplishment and growth.

My happiness project by Gretchen Rubin is a great essay full of facts, research and common sense about becoming skilled at being happy.

Mia Jovovich submit to his copulative experiments

I am terribly allergic to latex, elastane, etc. So I can't wear bras. I used to have an amazing collection of lingerie (some women are shoes, others are purses, I am lingerie!) until from intolerant I became allergic. I have bought these ugly shapeless cotton bras from cottonique but they die after 2 washes!

To make the matter worse, the pressure on the rib cage and the vertebrae causes a sharp pain that extends across the chest and give me stomach burns! Guess why i love to live naked!

So I like this article very much because it is giving me hope! I will write them to find out if they have latex free ones or consider offering the specialty..

Thanks for sharing Kilt Boy!

If you're a big girl and you really need that extra support, this article may be of interest to you.

It doesn't matter if your titties are real or bolted on, it amounts to the same thing to your back.

 

http://www.core77.com/posts/57618/Bras-Inspired-by-Architecture-Provide-True-Support-for-Women

 

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I need to do a little more research to see if they use flying buttresses.

 

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determination to haunt until sewed back together

Brushing off their negativity, Ph Dion objects

Wow thats a lot! Bravo!

Easter Island

Fiji or Tahiti

New Guinea Australia

Terre de Feu

Antartica

Mars and the Moon

My problem is that my force of personality and charisma is so strong that if I stare at her too long, she is immediately pregnant with my child.

 

Hey, it happens.

Quite a skill; think you could achieve that on a 46 y.o. woman?

None of this changes the fact that there are women out there that find this old geezer attractive and intriguing. Sorry? LOL

Heck, Sean Connery is twice my age and I find him all of that!

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And if the woman does not look you in the eye's and is staring away from you. Then you know that there is no chemistry or connection and you are probably not going to have a great time.

I have to disagree here... I look away when the intensity of chemistry and connection is strong. Call it lack of self assurance, fear to loose control, fear of my own power, I simply don't know what to do and how to handle this.

People can litterally read me through my eyes. I feel vulnerable showing a stranger he has that effect/power over me. I look away to severe the link. Or when I am scared it would not be reciprocated and I would end up making a fool of myself.

Off the camera, the woman on that picture could not have sustained a glance 26 years ago, and still can't.

To 8 more :-)

I really enjoy massaging feet however I find most people don't take proper care of them. Especially men. They don't seem to realize how gross thick fungi infested untrimmed nails are. I can count on one hand the men whose feet were appetizing enough for me to enjoy a spontaneous loving nibbling and suckling spree.