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Meaghan McLeod

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    Super easy and no sure way she has stolen the "verified" pics from someone else. I've even seen verified providers use fake pics from other sites that look nothing like the verified pictures.

     

    They do claim to be beefing up the verification process, but scammers will always find a way. You still need to do your research.

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    I have traveled into these areas. However, had issues with no shows, low ballers and time wasters. Lots of money spent on my end with no return, not even breaking even. So, I required a deposit to ensure the gent was serious, and then I get the whole "I don't know....." So, I stopped travelling to these areas.

     

    It's a shame as the drive is beautiful and a great way to get out for the day.

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    You made it public, you brought it here. You don't want to have a discussion? There's a very simple action you can take then, don't respond.

     

    Now addressing your point which I completely disagree with. I don't pay for someone's time, I have friends and family for that. When I agree to pay for a service, I carefully define what I expect from the service provider, while respecting their consent and boundaries. If they agree to something, and then don't provide it, that's not acceptable to me. It would be like you coming to my shop to get a tire change and a tuneup, and me telling you that we only offer time here, after you've already paid me! Some providers make it clear that they guarantee nothing more than time, which saves me time. I appreciate their honesty, and I simply move onto to someone who is more willing to discuss terms of service.

     

    In any case, I really don't care that much what you do to go above and beyond expectations, so long as it doesn't become a widespread expectation among service providers in the industry. I'm sure there will remain a market for guys who want to make it rain just as much as there will remain a market for guys who spend more conservatively. Perhaps I was a little too quick to judge your actions, you do you bro. Again though, if you don't want a friendly discussion to take place, don't engage in one. I won't be offended if you choose not to reply to my critique, just conduct yourself like an adult, take some responsibility for your own engagement in a discussion/debate.

     

    I think you are missing the point. Long time regular relationships go beyond the "service me now" mentality. This is not a case of a provider promising something and not delivering. This is a case of a regular showing his appreciation for the many sessions he has had with his provider.

     

    I understand your cave men mentality that as a "service provider" in a mechanic setting is the same as being an escort. As we both drain the pipes, I can see how you think you are the same. However, I doubt you truly understand what happens when 2 people who see each other for a length of time develop a deeper connection. This is what this discussion is about.

     

    If you don't like it, I respectfully ask you stay out of the discussion, as that is not what the op was asking. Feel free to start your own discussion.

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    Everybody has their own comfort level in this industry.

     

    A few points to consider:

     

    Set up a hobby email account/phone.

     

    Ask the questions you feel are needed to get an idea if the two of you are a match.

     

    Once you have a good idea you are interested in seeing the provider, then go forward. If you are not comfortable with her screening, move on. If you are comfortable with her screening, move forward.

     

    A simple rule I follow, if he doesn't trust me, I won't trust him. Those that try to skirt my basic screening, have always turned into nightmares. So, if they don't like it, I move on. I personally will never give into their demands. My body, my rules.

     

    James Qwerty:

     

    As far as being coerced by police. That's a laugh in and of itself. I've dealt with the police and have always been truthful in what I do. They have never been interested in my client details. Just the details of the guy who tried to kill me, the guy who assaulted me. They never once tried to get details of my other clients. To suggest that this is the case is just a fear tactic, and probably a way to try to avoid screening.

     

    Screening is up to the provider to keep her safe.

     

    I don't know, where do you draw the hard line at well established? Who's to say it would always be the providers choice/fault if our personal information is used against us? What if she were coerced into cooperating with law enforcement in a new form of sting operation. I know it's something we don't like to think about, but it's very much a possibility.

     

     

     

    No, I don't think you're being naive, but they can't do anything with information they don't have.

     

     

     

    To each their own, at this point I have enough tools in my belt to feel safe regardless. It's also a matter of convenience and principle. You want me to believe that someone who collects my personal info, in a time where all the legal responsibility lies on me, has my best interests at heart? No, heavy screening is there to protect the provider, it has little bearing on the client aside from increased risk. I've seen plenty of established providers without being expected to fork over id, and certainly never my place of work. In my experience, rates tend to be higher for heavy screeners as well, and I find the quality of service perfectly acceptable either way.

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  13. Posted

    The legality issue boils down to whether or not you are asking for sexual services or not. As I assume you are looking for a dancer to come out to entertain, there would not be an issue as you are not soliciting a sexual service.

     

    Remember, you cannot solicit a sexual service anywhere in Canada. However, providers are allowed to sell their services. So, as long as you are not asking for specific services, you are not in violation of the current laws.

     

    Hope you find someone and everyone has fun.

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    Not reading the replies I send to an inquiry. Then getting all hissy on me when I point blank tell him to read my replies I've already told him.

     

    Yea right, like I really want to spend intimate times with someone who gets mad at me because I won't answer his million one line questions and doesn't read what I do say.

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  16. Posted

    Gents who introduce themselves, tell me a little bit about themselves and inquire if I'm available during a period of time. Turns out, he was a young man celebrating his birthday and had never been with a woman before.

     

    We both had a great time and I was so thrilled he was so spectacular in his initial greeting. Such a refreshing difference from those that just send a one line sentence.

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  18. Posted

    I hope your tour is fabulous and successful.

     

    I'm not sure of the things you enjoy doing, but if nature is your thing, NB has everything from ocean to forests to lakes and rivers.

     

    Saint john has the Irving nature park. If you like hiking, great trails where you can see some wildlife. Or you can drive the route and stop at some of the spots that have lookouts. They even have gas bar b que's you can feel free to have a picnic.

     

    The city market is a nice opportunity to walk around after doing the area to see the old buildings uptown. Pick up some fresh fruit, sit in kings square and watch the world go by.

     

    Of course the reversing falls is neat to see. At high tide, the ocean pushes back the Saint john river creating rapids to kyak or try the zip line over the area.

     

    If you need any assistance, feel free to pm me. Enjoy!

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  19. Posted

    I'm still weighing the scale as to being verified. I have in the past been verified, but verification involves sending your passport, along with recent face / body pictures. However, you own your photo's. It's an agreement., and known worldwide. I just wonder if they have rights to the pictures..??

     

    No passport or face pictures are required for leolist.

     

    My view is Being verified means very little. I see one who is verified, however her non verified picture look so different from her verified pics. So, it appears her "incredible body" pictures could be stolen from someone else, she sends in some pics to be verified and somehow leolist has not caught the obvious difference in body structure. Guys, you still need to do research as being verified on that site is still open to being tweeked.

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  22. Posted

    My 2 cents based on my personal feelings. First of all, when BP went down, my phone blew up. I even wished at one point I could clone myself. Getting new pics, holding a sign up with their website on it means I need someone to take the actual pictures. So, being the lazy advertiser I am, I put it off till things quieted down for me.

     

    There is a benefit for providers to get verified. Discounts on ads rates, standing out from others and option to post more pictures.

     

    However, being verified on lyla to me is more significant as it's more then just holding up a sign. So, if guys would continue seeking out lyla providers, let non lyla providers know of this site, it will eventually work itself out.

     

    Leolist is slowly raising their rates, so at some point the scammers and frauds will have no choice but to go away. If everyone reported the fraudulent posters to leolist, it would stop alot of it.

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