Pamela Luscious

That's totally fine! If a woman standing her ground and supporting women with respect offends you, then I'm clearly not for you. And gladly, if other hobbyists on here can’t handle that either, I’m not for them, too. But do remember, many real men love a woman with a backbone and care for her community. If you think a woman calmly defending her position is 'arguing,' maybe it’s time to ask why my tone bothers you more than the disrespect I’m responding to. I speak up not to please everyone, but because I care. If that makes me ‘too vocal’ for some, I’m okay with that. Swer forums need to set the bar for respect higher, and I’ll always be on the side that pushes it upward. Funny how degrading women gets a pass around here… but the moment one stands up for herself, that’s what people find offensive. Priorities say a lot.

This is my job. I have all day, every day, to be on forums. If you're willing to show your true colors, I'll gladly help you expose them. I honestly don’t care if you’re not reading as a client because it was never meant for you.

How about you leave since you can't follow the thread. I am on topic.

Calling a respectful discussion about women’s value and autonomy ‘drivel’ just proves why it needed to happen. I stood up for respect, if that makes some people uncomfortable, so be it. I’ve said what I had to say.

As if I was supposed to stay quiet while someone makes a whole thread questioning whether a woman is “worth it” because she charges more or calls herself elite? She could call herself a goddess, a queen, a unicorn, and charge $100K if she wants. Who TF are we to tell her she’s not “worth” that? It’s her body. Her time. Her brand. Her rules. No one’s forcing anyone to book her. But the moment you start publicly debating if her rate is “justified” just because you personally wouldn’t pay it, that’s not a discussion. That’s entitlement, ego, and internalized misogyny. This isn’t about arguing. This is about defending the basic right every woman has to set her value without being picked apart like she’s on sale. If that makes some of you uncomfortable, good. That means it needed to be said.

I will never be told to stay quiet when it comes to respect for women in this industry. I will always speak up when someone degrades us, because our safety, dignity, and autonomy are non-negotiable. This isn’t about “arguing.” This is about calling out behavior that puts women down and encourages others to do the same. If that makes people uncomfortable, good. It means the conversation is needed. Open your eyes to the bigger picture.

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You’ve now shifted the conversation from rates and value to tax IDs and terminology. Not because you’re making a point, but because you’re grasping for control after your own words betrayed your mindset. For the record, “service model” vs. “business model” is a distinction without a difference in this context. Anything that involves compensation for time, energy, and skill is a business, whether independent or agency-supported. Sex work doesn’t lose legitimacy because it’s often labeled as a “service.” It still involves boundaries, strategy, marketing, client relations, and yes, business decisions. But none of this sidesteps what’s been at the center of this the entire time. You exposed how you truly view providers. Reduced a human being to a transactional product, and everything since then has been an attempt to backpedal and reframe. You’re not asking for clarity. You’re dodging accountability. You don’t need a GST number to respect someone’s boundaries. And you certainly don’t need to redefine vocabulary to justify a post that, at its core, questioned whether women are “worth it” for charging more. Each response you’ve posted has only confirmed what was obvious from the start.

This isn’t Walmart. The customer isn’t always right. Obviously it’s a business, anything generating revenue and paying taxes operates under a business model. That doesn’t mean you get to treat people like products or assume every experience should be “worth it” by your standards. Common sense really isn’t that common, clearly.

I’ve already explained it clearly. I’m not going to repeat myself for the fourth time. Stop saying I’m putting words in your mouth when everyone here can literally read what you wrote. That tactic doesn’t work. At this point, it’s not a lack of explanation, it’s a lack of understanding. I can explain it to you, but I can’t make you understand it. And I’m not going to waste more energy trying. You’ve told on yourself, and that’s on you for exposing yourself publicly. “I’m paying for a service, not you” tells me everything I need to know. That one sentence proves exactly the point I’ve been making this entire time. You don’t see the provider as a person offering an experience. You see her as a product you pay for, which is exactly why your question came across as dehumanizing from the start. You can say you “respect women’s choices” all you want, but the language you keep using contradicts that completely.

You're still contradicting yourself, you’re literally asking, “Why pay the elite rate instead of the regular rate?” That’s the woman’s choice. No one is being shackled or forced into a category. She decides what to charge, and that’s it. What you’re implying is: why pay more if you can get the same for less? And yes, that is dehumanizing. These are not factory-line products. Each woman has her own energy, her own personality, her own preferences. You’re not going to have chemistry with every single person, and you’re certainly not going to get the same experience with every provider, even if they offer a similar service label. Two providers may both offer GFE, but one might be soft-spoken and nurturing, while another is bold and flirty. That difference alone can completely change the experience, because the service is rendered by a human being, not a template. And no, you're not experiencing the service “through the eyes of hobbyists.” You’re experiencing your own booking, with your own expectations, preferences, and connection. Asking hobbyists if someone is “worth it” based on a label makes zero sense, because chemistry, connection, and enjoyment are all subjective. You want to know if she is worth it to you? Book her. That’s how this works. You asked, “Why are they classified into two categories?” again, that’s their choice. Some ladies charge more because they want exclusivity, fewer clients, and longer dates. Others may charge less and prefer shorter dates or more volume. Both are valid. That’s a business model, not a value judgment. Same with agencies, some women prefer to manage everything themselves, others would rather let someone else handle screening, marketing, and logistics so they can focus on their clients. It’s a personal business decision. And finally, stop crying about your “right to ask questions.” You do have that right. And I have every right to challenge what you're saying if I believe it's rooted in a problematic mindset. You don’t get to post on a public forum and then get upset when someone disagrees with you. That’s how discussions work. I don’t need to work for an agency to have an opinion when men start talking about whether women who charge more are “worth it.” You either book her, experience what she offers, and leave a review, or don’t book and move on. But constantly questioning why someone charges more, or calling the “elite” label into doubt like it’s a scam, is not curiosity, it’s entitlement. If it’s not for you, move on. Simple.

You're contradicting yourself. You literally asked if it’s “worth it” to book an elite provider when “all YFL girls are equally beautiful and offer the same service.” That is questioning a woman's worth, whether you want to admit it or not. I didn’t redirect the topic, I quoted your own words. Just because these women work under the same agency doesn’t mean they’re clones. They’re all human, each with their own personality, energy, boundaries, and vibe. By questioning the idea that they’re unique, you're basically telling on yourself, you’re viewing them as interchangeable objects instead of individuals. You need to realize it’s a personal choice how someone advertises herself, her photos, her rates, her availability, and how she defines her experience. No one owes you a breakdown or justification. Rates are based on what she feels her time, energy, and presence are worth, not what you think they “should” be based on other women in the same agency. The only way to know if it’s “worth it” to you is to book and experience what she uniquely offers. As a client, you're not just paying for a standard service, you’re paying for an experience with a real human being. If it’s not in your budget, that’s totally fine, but move on respectfully without reducing women to categories and price points to make sense of what you don’t understand.

Questioning the worth of a woman because you believe they're "all equally beautiful and offer the same standard GFE service" is exactly the issue here. You’re not booking a copy-paste product. you're engaging with a real human being who shares her time, energy, and intimacy with you. A provider’s rate reflects far more than appearance or a service label, it includes her boundaries, experience, emotional labor, safety, and how she chooses to value herself. Every woman is unique, even if you think the service is "the same." That mindset is disrespectful and dehumanizing. Respect the individuality and autonomy of every provider

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A quick PSA: Please make sure the ads you're viewing are verified. Always double-check that the phone number and email match the provider’s official website. Scammers are stealing pictures and entire brands, then changing the contact details to trick you into reaching out to them instead. I recently reported a fake ad in PEI that was using my photos and branding. My ads are always verified, and I always use the same phone number listed on my website. Stay alert and protect yourself, don't get scammed.

A quick PSA: Please make sure the ads you're viewing are verified. Always double-check that the phone number and email match the provider’s official website. Scammers are stealing pictures and entire brands, then changing the contact details to trick you into reaching out to them instead. I recently reported a fake ad in PEI that was using my photos and branding. My ads are always verified, and I always use the same phone number listed on my website. Stay alert and protect yourself, don't get scammed.

Thank you louismario! xox

I'm in town this week 🩷

My schedule is flexible, please ask me if you're looking for a different day, i may be able to accommodate. If your city isn't listed, DMTY is available for 4hour bookings only. Campbellton May 28-June 4 Bathurst june 5-6 Moncton June 7-9 Fredericton June 10-13 Fill this booking form to book. Name:__ | Age:__ | City:__ | Day:__ | Time:__ | How long:__ | gfe/pse:__ | Incall/outcall:__

Oh fun! Too bad it's not aligned with my schedule. Hopefully i get an invite next time I'm around 🤭

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I understand that health is a valid concern, but asking a provider if they’re “clean” is inappropriate and shows a lack of self-accountability. Anyone can lie, which is why you are responsible for your own health. Practice safe sex, get tested every 3 months, and follow proper timelines after potential exposure: • Gonorrhea & Chlamydia – test after 2 weeks • HIV & Syphilis – test again at 3 months (to account for full incubation periods) Most well-established providers already take their health seriously. it’s part of our professionalism. You can usually tell by reading their ads, websites, and how they conduct themselves. Use judgment, do your screening, and if you don’t feel safe, don’t book. We shouldn’t have to defend our integrity or prove ourselves to strangers who don’t trust us in the first place. If you feel the need to interrogate someone, they’re probably not the right provider for you. Choose someone whose professionalism speaks for itself. But please stop asking providers to “prove” their cleanliness, it’s rude, mistrustful, and unnecessary if you’re choosing quality, vetted companions.

My schedule is flexible, please ask me if you're looking for a different day, i may be able to accommodate. If your city isn't listed, DMTY is available for 4hour bookings only. Campbellton May 28-June 4 Bathurst june 5-6 Moncton June 7-9 Fredericton June 10-12 Fill this booking form to book. Name:__ | Age:__ | City:__ | Day:__ | Time:__ | How long:__ | gfe/pse:__ | Incall/outcall:__

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