Any recommandations for a good CIM ?

[oparala 544]

My girlfriend refuses to do 'cim' and i miss it so much !

any of you gents know any good looking sps who offer a good cim ?

thanks

[Tiffany Amber 7031]

I think that question should be asked between you and the lady that you are interested in seeing. One may provide a service for one person but not for another, you may also need to build a rapor with a lady before she feels comfortable doing something like that.

 

Or maybe doing some research on the ladies, we do have a recommendation section with many informative reviews.

[Andee 220524]

I agree with Tiffany. BBBJ is personal enough, but CIM, I believe is stretching it and not something I believe any lady offering it might want to openly advertise. Just my opinion.

[Guest Ou**or**n]

I think if this board can discuss ghosts (which don't exist), then at least we can discuss CIM which does indeed exist as a service provided by some ladies. It is one of those services which used to be fairly rare but is becoming more common. Trends and services change. Once upon a time GFE was uncommon.

 

I recently have seen a few ads where this was openly advertised by the lady. It is not on the toggle list of services in the recommendation section and the trend in recommendations lately has been to leave out most explicit details.

 

My best suggestion is to check out various advertisements or discuss this with an agency. Like any service however be prepared for YMMV.

[stevecurious 42059]

Mmm I believe that CIM is becoming more common than one might think. Since June I have seen three...sorry four different ladies who all offer CIM as either part of there service or as an extra. All of these ladies clearly and concisely communicated that CIM was indeed on the menu when we talked. For that matter three of the four had it listed on their website as an available activity. Of course YMMV but that is true of almost all things...

[Guest o*****a*****r]

I've found it very common although some agency ladies do charge extra for this service... Indys I've met always have this included in there rates...shouldn't be hard to find a sp who provides this service.

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[whatsup 11893]

The service has become more readily available, but will always remain a YMMV activity. It is so erotic when you can share the experience. :mrgreen:

[bucky501 923]

Far be it from to suugest anyone

 

Tiffany is right...-might take time to build the rapor

 

Goes both ways here

[Parker 19761]

Aside from the previous complications mentioned...

 

Another thing is you don't know if you're getting the truth, or if the guy is trying to build himself up by saying he received a service that he never actually got... which is what happened to me.

 

I was put on some CIM list and had people coming to see me looking for a service that I didn't even and had never offered... I was quite annoyed when I found out that no one had even asked me before adding me to some stupid "specific service" list...

 

Just be straightforward and either seek out ladies who do mention or advertise they offer it or privately (and politely) ask a couple ladies you're interested in.

 

 

 

 

My girlfriend refuses to do 'cim' and i miss it so much !

any of you gents know any good looking sps who offer a good cim ?

thanks

[MiaBella 10988]

I agree that bbbj and cim are all things better discussed in person and YMMV, as many services All Of Us Offer.

What I don't understand is why advertising openly that you offer it is something that is "stretching it". Not to be taken the wrong way, but we openly offer Greek, Fetish, and all other types of Sexual Experiences for money. Why would this be frowned upon? Are we suddenly Prudes?

We list it on our websites, PM, and even posts, why is this any different?:???:

 

I agree with Tiffany. BBBJ is personal enough, but CIM, I believe is stretching it and not something I believe any lady offering it might want to openly advertise. Just my opinion.

[nutty 153]

I love you MiaBella. I couldn't have said it better. I'm going to stay out of this one, but to be honest I don't see a problem with someone asking this question.

[VedaSloan 119179]

As others have stated, just ask the provider you're interested in seeing.

 

And don't go by tags on reviews either. My reviews have "cim" as one of the tags, and as others have stated, it's totally a YMMV thing.

[Guest f***2f***]

I agree that bbbj and cim are all things better discussed in person and YMMV, as many services All Of Us Offer.

What I don't understand is why advertising openly that you offer it is something that is "stretching it". Not to be taken the wrong way, but we openly offer Greek, Fetish, and all other types of Sexual Experiences for money. Why would this be frowned upon? Are we suddenly Prudes?

We list it on our websites, PM, and even posts, why is this any different?:???:

 

Well said...there are a few too many judgments going on in these threads for my liking these days!

[explorer69 3513]

sincindy

adorablechloe

most of the T2T sps Listed on their website

christina visiting with GOE (listed on their website)

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

What I don't understand is why advertising openly that you offer it is something that is "stretching it".

Here is my interpretation of "stretching it". There is one well-known agency that advertises PSE, CIM, COF, Greek, etc. for the majority of their providers. Frequently, due to the YMMV thing, the providers don't offer this even though it was advertised. That is well within their right and I respect that, but it leaves clients dissapointed and it puts to the provider in a difficult position where she may feel pressured.

 

The other agency in my mind advertises GFE only, but reportedly many of the providers also offer PSE services and I've read reviews on other boards of clients being pleasantly surprised.

 

So I do think it's stretching it a bit to advertise things that are clearly a YMMV thing as it can lead to bad experiences for both the provider being pressured, and the client who doesn't get what he wants. I think it's better to do it the way the 2nd agency mentioned does where the provider commits only to GFE and then her clients get a "pleasant surprise." Everyone leaves happen.

 

I would say advertising CIM is "stretching it" and I don't think it's prudish at all. Perhaps it would be better to advertise CIM YMMV, unless there are providers here where that is not a YMMV option, which I don't think there are.

[moonshadow 369]

Have to agree with you MiaBella.

 

The question that the OP had is a very personal one. But the hobby and the business that we are all in here is very personal as well.

[tiimde71 176]

I have to wonder why us guys have such a hard time listening to the ladies here. They give great advice. Look at the recommendations contact the lady in question and see what her limits are.

 

I guess men don't like doing homework but it works. Before I started on CERB and took the advice of fine ladies like Megan my experiences were hit and miss. Adverts that were warm and open only to meet a woman that didn't want to do anything that was advertised.

 

Now I read the reviews then pm the lady in question have a bit of a conversation and if there is a click. I also read the posts of the ladies and wow charming and funny. It works :). Thanks ladies.

 

If you are interested in a particular service find interesting ladies as them about the service and see if they provide. If you take the time and find the right ladies you will get more than you expected not less.

 

This has been my experience.

[Guest Ou**or**n]

I have to wonder why us guys have such a hard time listening to the ladies here.

 

I don't think any of 'us guys' are having a hard time listening to the ladies here. The op was simply asking a question. Sometimes people ask questions as part of doing their homework as opposed to their asking a question somehow meaning they are not doing their homework.

 

The rest of the thread is an interesting discussion as to whether advertising CIM is 'stretching it'. To me given almost all services are YMMV I don't think a lady is pushing it by advertising it. If the logic was followed then no lady should advertise any service.

[rickoshadows 937]

I think there are a couple of factors at play here. I do think some ladies do not advertise a service that they may routinely provide on a YMMV basis so they are not obligated when the client is as clean as they might like. They might also not want to risk inimity from other ladies who do not provide this service.

I saw this effect on the west coast with respect to BBBJs.If any lady advertised this service, or a client said he recieved it on anyone of the boards. They would both be castigated and may even be blacklisted by all the other members. In fact, BBBJ was routinely available to any of us who could be trusted to keep it to ourselves from most of the girls, including those who were publicly opposed.

 

We think of ourselves as an openminded community but if you really check the posts, there are many here who think that their particular kink is fine and should be accepted by all, but themselves are unwilling to be as accepting of other's eccentricities.

[Andee 220524]

I agree that bbbj and cim are all things better discussed in person and YMMV, as many services All Of Us Offer.

What I don't understand is why advertising openly that you offer it is something that is "stretching it". Not to be taken the wrong way, but we openly offer Greek, Fetish, and all other types of Sexual Experiences for money. Why would this be frowned upon? Are we suddenly Prudes?

We list it on our websites, PM, and even posts, why is this any different?:???:

 

Because most ladies I know who offer bbbj are like me, they say at their discretion. For CIM, even more so. So if you openly advertise it, but don't allow it with everybody, it's kind of like false advertising. That's all I meant. I wasn't being prudish.

[BownChickaBown 4829]

To the OP: Karine19 openly advertises this service which I would recommend. She has a long list of satisfied clients here in Ottawa and Montreal, if not elsewhere too.

 

She advertises this the same way other workers here on CERB openly advertise their MILF status or that they are only a masseuse whom does this or does that, or not, or whatever the case may be. Despite some objections to you starting this thread/the subject matter, I have yet to see a valid argument to why this thread is not appropriate for an Escort Recommendation Board.

 

I find it rich and quit unfortunate that on a Escort Recommendation board when someone asks for a Reco for an Escort, the thread and the hobby/business/industry gets attacked by others in the same hobby/business/industry. :S I don't think I am the only one whom finds this odd - no?

 

If someone doesn't like the channel/job/hobby, then they can change it - but, imho, whining and discriminating in jumping someones thread never makes things better.

 

Sometimes the best help some people can give others in their request/threads is just Not to say anything at all.

 

Best of Luck and Success in All Your Endeavours!

[tiimde71 176]

I don't see any problem with people offering an alternative approach for the OP to find the best experience possible.

 

What was said by the ladies offering a different approach is that if you just blindly follow an ad or someones rec then you might be disappointed because the services one person receives may not be offered to another. So another approach is to find a sp who is recommended contact them and discuss the services requested. Then enjoy.

 

I have noticed when lady makes this kind of suggestion some feel the need to fire back as if the suggestion is somehow an attack or inappropriate. This is the only reason I say some of us don't listen. If that is wrong sorry.

 

I have tried just going by ads and rec and have been disappointed. When I have exchanged a few pm's first I have had better experiences.

 

These discussions are good as in most cases debate leads to the best answers. Thanks for the suggestions ladies and gentlemen.

[loneskater 25635]

First I like to say this is one of the most interesting thread I have read in a long time as everyone has brought up some interesting points. To answer the original comment, just do your homework. Read ads/website from ladies and you will find ladies who offer that service, a few have been mentioned already and some in their ads hint to asking with comments such as: "and more..."

 

I also wanted to comment specifically on Megan's post because I summarized it as providing "honest advertising" As she mentioned in her last para most services are YMMV with obvious reasons such as personal Hygiene etc... Isn't it frustrating to read an ad in any business and find out half of it is bullshit. You get to a store or a hotel and find out your not getting what was written in the ad. As Megan brought up seems some agencies who advertise a lot on the Board/net advertise same services for all the ladies when it's well known on this board that is not the case. At least many here know that not all agency girls offer the same services as not all indy girls do. But to many newbies that want to get into hobbying they sometimes believe all they read and thing they will get what is in the ad. What a shock they get when they meet the agency girl at her room and she tells them she doesn't offer BBBJ or whatever the other service was advertise by the agancy. Poor fellow is put in a bad situation does he leave and the lady looses and he probably wonders if he does leave will there be some tugs waiting for him outside??? Not sure he stays pay for the time without getting exactly what he wanted. Then they write a bad review/comment on other places that allow it. Next thing you know the agency cries foul cause they had a bad review and gets on the Board looking for support to eliminate the bad review blaming it on the client. Here is a good reason agencies here in OT have a bad rep and i stay away from them due to this false advertising.

 

So again there are many views on how much should be advertise. First i would say be honest in what you do write. Personally as was mentioned I see nothing wrong in advertising CIM. One thing to keep in mind, is the less you put in your ad adn suggest to PM or e-mail to find out, the more curious questions you might receive and could be overwhelming. There are more then 20 thousand CERB members so imagine if half of them send you a PM or e-mail to inquire about which services you provide????

 

Proper advertising is extremely important and some ladies obviously spend time preparing their ads which I think is very professional! To me this is an indication of seriousness, attitude and commitment to their work. I would rather see a lady with a great personality that has less available services then one who offers everything but her conversation is limited to: "your hour is up"

 

Here is my interpretation of "stretching it". There is one well-known agency that advertises PSE' date=' CIM, COF, Greek, etc. for the majority of their providers. Frequently, due to the YMMV thing, the providers don't offer this even though it was advertised. That is well within their right and I respect that, but it leaves clients dissapointed and it puts to the provider in a difficult position where she may feel pressured.

 

The other agency in my mind advertises GFE only, but reportedly many of the providers also offer PSE services and I've read reviews on other boards of clients being pleasantly surprised.

 

So I do think it's stretching it a bit to advertise things that are clearly a YMMV thing as it can lead to bad experiences for both the provider being pressured, and the client who doesn't get what he wants. I think it's better to do it the way the 2nd agency mentioned does where the provider commits only to GFE and then her clients get a "pleasant surprise." Everyone leaves happen.

 

I would say advertising CIM is "stretching it" and I don't think it's prudish at all. Perhaps it would be better to advertise CIM YMMV, unless there are providers here where that is not a YMMV option, which I don't think there are.[/quote']

[hunknhot 1067]

After reading all these replies.. I guess the lesson learned may just be..

 

Proposed new titile

"If any SPs are willing to provide CIM service or provide this service on a ymmv basis, please pm me"

 

but if you are usnsure and want to meet a specific SP.. just ask before hand.. you are not to first to ask and definately not the last..

[Guest *o****ea****t]

if nothing else we are reminded often that most (if not all) services are ymmv. cim, cof, greek, daty, bbbj, kissing.......i've seen these listed with the ymmv disclaimer. is that really false advertising? if a lady listed a service & didn't provide that to some i wouldn't consider it false advertising at all. i know there are several factors that can be involved if that happens. if on the other hand a service is advertised and it isn't provided to anybody then yes that is false advertising. how would we know if that is the case or if it is ymmv? we research by checking profiles, websites, recos, past posts, we ask questions, exchange pm's & we may or may not find the information we are seeking. is this not a reason for having a discussion forum? to help find the answers? otherwise why even have cerb? why not stick with cl? sheesh what a sad state of affairs that would be. imo if a lady is ready, willing & able to provide a service & does so when the circumstances are right then she can advertise any way she sees fit. and that depends on if she wants her phone to ring more, less, is happy with the clientele she has, is looking to expand, whatever. life is full of surprises but when money is involved it changes things. i would like to limit the unpleasant surprises & get the most 'bang for my buck'. just an expression folks, i'm not trying to disparage anybody. only trying to say that i wouldn't want an encounter to end up being so restricted it turns into a wife experience. who knows, by not listing all that can be provided we could both miss out on an opportunity. maybe there is a fine line between putting all the info out there or holding back some. i have no idea but i guess either way could result in more or fewer calls. not to say it is always about money but lets not kid anybody, that is a motivation for some. all that to say i don't see a problem with posing questions in an open forum to encourage an exchange of information & the ladies are free to advertise however they decide best fits their circumstances, truthfully of course. one reason for me being a part of cerb is to enhance my encounters by benefitting from the experiences, good or bad, of fellow members & hopefully i can return the favour. i haven't been involved with cerb very long to know the repercussions & i don't get into the politics of things but if a lie is told, put it out there & let the community decide their fate. i think it can't help but improve the community.