Married Hobbyists and/or SPs

[Guest]

By all means wear your ring...I prefer meeting married gentleman anyway, less chance of getting a marriage proposal lol but I cannot say it is something I notice.

 

I will ask you to remove your watch sometime as it hurt but usually all jewellery is removed before we start playing, most ring do not catch so it is fine to wear.

 

Now I am much better as I put my jewellery in one pile,used to leave a trail of it and forgot a lot of very nice earnings etc over the years...

[brnelson 100]

I always take mine off but I can't wear it at work so I don't have a mark when it's not on. I think part of it is guilt but it's mostly that I don't want my SP to think less of me because I cheat on my wife with her even though she most likely wouldn't care.

[oliviaphan 1165]

In my opinion, the gent should leave it on his finger. It is something to remind you that you see me with no string attached and you love your wife. Some client told me that he is happy with his marriage but he chose to see an escort because he and his wife are too busy and tired after a long day taking care of their kids, do housework...and by the end of the day, they are exhausted to have sex. Another reason is because some gents are on business trip and feel lonely so they just need someone keep them company.

[mrgreen760 37785]

I'm not married but wear a ring on that finger as it's the one where my very unusual ring fits best. I also have a band shaped ring I wear on the right hand that looks more conventional and could be mistaken for a wedding band. The times when the ring comes up is people asking me what it is.

 

Peace

MG

[Ice4fun 78396]

I pretty much always wear my wedding ring and it has never been a problem. I don't see a need to hide th fact that I am married and frankly the indentation on my finger from wearing it for 30+ years would be pretty hard to hide and would quickly tell me lady that I was not honest. My general approach is to tell the truth with the ladies I meet and if its something personal that I would prefer to not share just tell the lady that... ladies working in this business are certainly going to understand the desire for discretion.

 

Now having said all that there have been a few times when I have taken my ring off and did not bring it when I met a lady and on those occasions it was usually my meeting a lady for the first time with less than what I would normally like to have done for homework. In those instances I will normally enter the room with no jewelry or valuables as a safety precaution. Now if the lady is on Lyla then these precautions are normally not needed.

 

Just my Opinion

[piano8950 32577]

 

What I'd like to know is of the married Hobbyists and SP's how many of you wear wedding rings to rendezvous? If so, why? If not, why not?

 

There is an SP that I've seen a few times. In one of those times, when I walked in, I noticed a very obvious looking engagement ring. We were talking about something, and I didn't mention it. The next time I saw her hand, there was no ring. Never saw it any subsequent visits, never asked.

 

 

Again to the same audience, do you mind, or more so do it like it, when an sp or a hobbyist meets you with a ring?

 

I'd like to say the ring didn't phase me at all, but it did. I still had an amazing time, I still repeated, it's not a deal killer by any means what her personal life status is. But there is this nagging feeling, something which is by no means justified, but yet still exists. I'm not even sure what this nagging feeling is actually. I don't have any romantic feelings for her, she is a conduit to some of what I've been yearning to explore, and a pleasant and fun person to spend a few hours with.

 

So the shortened version of a complicated answer, I think personally I'd prefer that an SP take of her ring, if it's that ring, but if she doesn't, it's okay too.