How should I ask an SP about MSOG?

[Boku27 1483]

Hello good people

 

I am somewhat new to this and am looking for

some advice.

 

I am looking for an SP in my area that provides MSOG.

This is important to me and perhaps a deal breaker if not

offered.

Having said that, what is the best way to bring up this subject?

 

Do i just straight out ask on the phone when booking an

appointment or wait until appointment?

Ideally i would like to know before.

 

Like I said...im a little new to this and just want to

do things politely and with the correct etiquette.

 

Thanks for any insights.

[NotchJohnson 214069]

Many ladies advertise MSOG on here or their website but if she does not I would simply ask her by text or phone which ever way she likes to be contacted. That is not a scary question to ask compared to other things that are.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Approach her by asking her if you can speak to her on the phone or whatever method they feel comfortable with. When it's done in a respectful manner, you will have more success as opposed to asking if something is available in text using acronyms. When men approach me using acronyms, it makes me think of a menu.

[capitalCforcougar 16766]

I often inquire with a person writing to me, whether they are one who can... or not... so *I* am aware right away...(whether or not to keep them on that incredible razor's-edge.. or let it go again and again hehe)

*and perrrrhaps it may be a good idea that not everyone is familiar with all the acronyms out there, so plain, polite English should do wonderfully well <grin>

 

As far as I know.. not many providers would chastise you for mentioning that you can... and also asking if they stop everything once you do...just so you both are on the same page, I'd say would be a definite plan ;)