quick25 137 Report post Posted February 4, 2011 This is a idea that came from a post I had just read. I know that this forum is about being positive and is about recco's. But something I have been thinking about is, what are we supposed to do, if we have a bad experience with a sp, or on the other side of the argument, a client. I'm sure this is not that place to put it, but there are times I wonder how many bad experiences don't get reported (not saying there is any at all). Putting it out there I had a few times where I had drove to an appointment, and something had happened and the appointment did not happen. Could it have been a accident or was it someone just not answering, we're all human and they are some questions that I'm sure we all ask. I'm sure this is true from a sp or a client point of view. I just think that if something happens either side should be contacted to let them know what is happening. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quester 149 Report post Posted February 4, 2011 There is a way. When a hobbiest asks about a specific SP, and a member posts something like PM me for details. That usually means to me that something didn't go well. As well I believe that all the SP's have their own section that they may comment on about us hobbiests. just my 2 cents worth Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest m*r***o***48 Report post Posted February 5, 2011 I am far from being an expert but when you do an escort search and there isn't much comments, then you can "read between the lines"....probably not good. There is an escort in Halifax who has approximately 40 comments and all positive. Another search reviews an escort with only 4 comments. Maybe the escort with 4 comments is better than the one with 40? I would trust the ratings from other guys but be wary..........if you are not into dominatrix stuff then don't pick a companion that is highly rated for this; or if you are 60 then you probably don't want a 20 year old escort. Ratings have proven that Japanese cars as a whole (Toyota, Honda, etc) are beyond a doubt more reliable and cheaper to maintain. The perfect combination is a woman that matches your needs at the time. Everyone is different. They are not perfect every time; neither are you. Enjoy each one; treat them good and they will do the same to you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quick25 137 Report post Posted February 5, 2011 ya thanks for the info. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
superjackjujitsu 140 Report post Posted February 5, 2011 People read between the lines, things like "PM for details" usually means not that great experience. Reviews are good way to find out about SPs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
namssa 562 Report post Posted February 5, 2011 Interesting post quick25, If a guy has a not good experience with an SP, there are ways to let other's know, and vice versa. CERB is indeed a "Recommendation Board" and negative postings are not welcome here. There are other boards out there besides CERB, that you can post regarding a bad experience if that is your desire. As stated previously, a "PM me for details" is often a clue that there is more to be said about an SP than was posted. Sometimes it is "not what is said", but "what is not said" that is important. However, I feel that the number of comments to a recommendation is not an indicator of a good/bad experience with an SP. I have posted a number of reviews on CERB with some truly remarkable SP's that do not have many comments. This does not make any of these girls less of the wonderful experience that they were for me. Pretty much any of the girls I have reviewed here I would recommend to anyone seeking a great experience. Most boards have something to the effect of an "SP Lounge" where the ladies can discuss any number of things. This would include an area that there would be discussions or information provided regarding client's that there are concerns about. This way, the ladies can check to see if a client's handle on a board is the subject of any issues. Something for gentlemen new to boards to be aware of and perhaps he may be more inclined to be on his best behaviour with the ladies. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted February 5, 2011 It is true that in order to keep Cerb civil negative comments, reviews, etc. are not allowed. When I first joined Cerb I too was wondering how am I going to know the "good" ladies from the "bad" ladies. It didn't take long for me to figure out the answer to that question. As in our real lives a lot can be determined from a conversation (Private Message) either the flow of the conversation, what is said/not said and even the tone of the message. Trust in your basic people skills, use your head (Your BIG head), do your research and if all else fails contact another Cerb member who you have a friendship with and politely inquire of that member if he has seen the lady you ask about. As others have said "PM me for details" is a good indication of how things may have gone for that particular hobbyist. Keep in mind that not all our tastes are the same and what one hobbyist considers a great date another would consider a poor date. There is no substitute for experiencing something for yourself. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spud271 47779 Report post Posted February 5, 2011 There is a way. When a hobbiest asks about a specific SP, and a member posts something like PM me for details. That usually means to me that something didn't go well. As well I believe that all the SP's have their own section that they may comment on about us hobbiests. just my 2 cents worth You are very correct quester. That is usually the indication that it was not worth seeing the SP in question. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted February 5, 2011 Lets be a little careful here guys ... although I agree that "PM me for details" is not a hugely positive sign, there may be something particular about the SP that the "PM me" poster wants to explain. I only say this because if someone reads this thread, especially a newer member, they may automatically assume that "PM me for details" means a negative review, and that's not necessarily true. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quick25 137 Report post Posted February 5, 2011 Yes, I mean if you put that down... I think it's just the same as saying she is someone you don't want to see. But I have got some messages saying that the sp was one of the best they had ever seen. Also the ammount of reco's a sp gets, shouldn't say how good she is, I know this has already been discussed but some people might not have the time to write reco's, so I don't really hold a sp on what someone else has written about them. Lets be a little careful here guys ... although I agree that "PM me for details" is not a hugely positive sign, there may be something particular about the SP that the "PM me" poster wants to explain. I only say this because if someone reads this thread, especially a newer member, they may automatically assume that "PM me for details" means a negative review, and that's not necessarily true. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gentleman11 10508 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Well said as a mid fifties newbie hobyiest.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
