Whats the deal?

[CrayonSnatcha 110]

New to the board and a little frustrated... Is this normal behaviour?

 

So whats the deal? Ive sent sooo many pm's and emails trying to set up an appointment with ANY sp for the past couple weeks and nothing! Whats a new guy to do? I dont want to name anybody but cmon I need some fun on a monthly basis! lol Ive tried a couple girls at PK that were pretty good but I need something new (awesome service btw). Any suggestions are extremely welcome. I also have good reviews I would like to share with you guys as soon as I accumulate a few more posts and visit a couple more girls.

 

Thanks to all the regulars that have been posting awesome reviews, it really helps out!

 

Crayon~

[Carole 214]

Here are couple of suggestions:

 

Maybe it's how you are contacting these girls that is putting them off.

 

Are you sending one or two line PMs? A PM or email saying "I wanna meet you now" or "lets hookup" is less likely to get a response from me than a lengthier note that says "Hi, how are you? I am _____ and my handle on CERB is CrayonSnatcha. I saw your ad there. I also checked out your website and I really think we'd get along great. You are exactly what I am looking for (and explain what you liked about her, her services, etc.) Tell her when you'd like to set up a date and for how long, incall or outcall, what area if outcall, and what you were thinking you'd like to do on your date with her. Give her an email address or a phone number to contact you outside the board. -- Basically give her an idea of the person you are and how you'd like the date to go. Right now you are a board newbie with only a few posts, she doesn't know you from a hole in the ground. Give her some info and make her feel confident and comfortable in meeting with you.

 

Are you trying to book for an appt. in 20 mins., for an hour from now, tomorrow or a few days in advance? Advance bookings get a better response because it gives her time to get the email or PM, decide whether she wants to contact you back based on the info you've already given her, or whether she'd like to send a few emails back and forth or talk to you on the phone for a bit before deciding that you'd make a good client or not.

 

I hope those help you out. Good luck!

 

Carole ;)

[CrayonSnatcha 110]

Good suggestion! Thanks Carole!

 

I allways did put in my contact info, how long id like to meet for type of thing. Sometimes I include what I like about their pictures and so on.. Maybe its because they are just not available for incalls...

 

I thought maybe putting too much would be a bad idea considering how busy the ladies must be but I will try and provide a bit more information next time I write.

 

I know im a good customer with great hygiene, a little young but that can't be bad... I allways connected the right way when I met someone in my opinion.

 

I give atleast a day in advance and usually pretty flexible for a few days of waiting time if the girl is busy, if there is some communication. The problem is I cant reach any of them or if I do they ditch. Maybe I just need to be more patient and hope for the best!

[Carole 214]

In my opinion, including more info in your initial contact is better than too little info. If the SP is pressed for time, she is more likely to respond to those guys that have given her enough info that she already feels comfortable in contacting them back and potentially meeting them. Makes sense, right?

 

More info is also better because it weeds out potentially bad dates faster. Neither of you wants to get into a date and then find out that you aren't compatible together for whatever reason. Not enough info exchanged before the session can be the cause of misunderstandings and unrealistic expectations.

 

I always suggest that you take a good look at an SP's website, if she has one, before trying to set up a date. It saves both of you time and potential aggravation if her ad looks great but her website goes into more detail and you decide that you'd be better off seeing someone else. Or from her website, you can tell that she offers exactly what you are looking for. Her website can also tell you more about her, what you can expect from her on a date and perhaps her expectations from you as well, rates, whether she does incall or outcall or both, and so on. Again, always check out her website before trying to set up a meeting.

 

Also some ladies won't see young guys. In my personal experience, they tend to be too immature, too rough. So that might be working against you.

 

Good spelling and grammar are good too. Signs of intelligence, good manners and humour are good too.

 

You sound like a good guy. I think you'll start having better luck with the ladies now. Good luck!

 

Carole ;)

[Mars_Bound 110]

Maybe you should try the escort ads directly, example you can try EC (escorts canada ) directly. Many of the sp's there come to share their views on the board. If you contacted them that way, they may be more likely to respond.

 

MB

[d*mm*y 887]

Also if you look on the service provider posting area out of town SP's and others post there availability if you book in the times they suggest with in the few hours of them posting you will usually get an appointment.

[Guest f***2f***]

It can be frustrating though I agree. I had a couple of no shows initially which really put me off. Not all SPs are realiable. I got to trust the reviews on here and forget the hype on the SPs website.

[loneskater 25635]

Also if you look on the service provider posting area out of town SP's and others post there availability if you book in the times they suggest with in the few hours of them posting you will usually get an appointment.

 

I agree with dummpy. I had better luck when I phoned or sent e-mails to SPs soon after they posted their availability.

[Guest f***2f***]

And Indies are the best. As some of them point out they have to make their own bookings and it's tough to do that and take care of business at the same time sometimes. One of the most reliable is Pretty Paige....Catherine St Claire is very prompt at replying too.

[Annessa 22743]

I realize this thread is old but I was searching one of the poster's post history and came upon it...

 

my advice is always..you can send as many emails as you like (the gent who I'm researching unfortunately asked for a very last minute and late encounter) but if you dont hear back you should pick up the phone and call them...it very easy to search contact info by using their SP name in a search and referencing their latest ad....as well as their availability.

 

thats not to say that if you send off a message that they may not be available...they might be! but you'll never know until you take the plunge and call....and leave a message about the nature of your call...maybe not your contact but perhaps she will get your message, like your (hopefully) polite tone on the other end and answer even if she has decided not to take more calls...you just never know.

 

but definitely say more than "are you available tonight?"...and definitely use the many means available for you to contact her.

[trout 1256]

Interesting thread, I've just checked the announcement section to see who's working and taken it from there. Sometimes the chat section can be helpful too!

[E.D. man 691]

Have you tried looking in the ad section here, that allows you to see who is working that day.

Do you go to their website and read it carefully, by the way do not negotiate they will not answer and nver put a dollar amount in your pm.

Read everything on their web site because eevery SP is different.

I fine using the scheduling section much better, as said previously. And call with an unblocked #. Phoning is much simlar, and more chance of a response.

As many ladies say they only check here once a week