Sonia DuBois 1200 Report post Posted Thursday at 08:00 PM (edited) Just writing this preemptively, a man from this forum contacted to book in Toronto from Moncton and my assisant told him repeatedly to leave me alone, he decided to wtite degrading and rude emails threaten and stalk after she said the deposit would be returned, repeatedly said he would continue to show up to the appointment, and as I already dealt with a Halifax harasser on the last tour and suspect it is the same person, I decided to just go back to Vancouver for part of the tour if not the full tour as I did not feel comfortable at the incall. I am writing this in case he decides to write a bad review, because he seems to not understand when someone says No, I will send you your deposit back and she doesn't want to have sex with you, stop harassing or we call police, you cannot just repeatedly say you are going to show up to an incall. That is stalking. and rape??? Fucking unhinged narcissist trying to get a reaction who will probably write bad review which is why I am writing this now. Also the guy wrote he was looking for "one on one sex" in the email. LOL incel, what else would it be. Edited Thursday at 08:11 PM by Sonia DuBois 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sonia DuBois 1200 Report post Posted 7 hours ago (edited) he keeps harassing me demanding his $100 back even though I offered to give it back before I decided to cancel and he refused to cancel, 3 times, he said he was going to show up anyway, so I left. I said multiple times I didnt want to sleep with him and that I would call the police, before he decided apparently to go to the location, he texted me saying he was at the location looking for the unit number, and then repeatedly now he is demanding why I ghosted him and asking for his money back. He had the opportunity to get his money back when I offered it, the amount of stress I've had to deal with and LOST money due to him, this narcissist cannot comprehend. I have contacted the police and even told him I was going to do that before he decided to apparently come by and incessently text and email. So he was given a warning, and decided to apparently come by anyway and write non-stop. Now do you guys understand why we ask for identification? And he is doing this under his real name???? we have all your fucked up social media posts, employer information, real name under caller ID...multiple photos... You have committed several crimes here - stalking, harassment, and the initial crime of doing this in the first place. we get the ID because worst case scenario, we deal with someone...like this! So we can go to the police, file a report, and STOP predators from targeting other women that they see as vulnerable He made me lose -clients -incall fees -flights -taxis .... up my screening process... deal with traumatic experience.... Let me remind you that you answered an ad because you wanted to have sex. An ad on the internet contacting a total stranger. You are not entitled to have sex with me. You are obsessed and an energy vampire fixating on me for some reason. Just contact someone else to have sex with and move on with your life. I am ignoring all calls, emails, and adding them to the pile of growing evidence I have here on you. And if you write a bad review that's stupid because I can always refer back to this very public post outlining your behaviour. I cancelled because you were rude, pushy, mocking, and demanding - and have continued this behaviour, and wondering why women don't want to spend time with you, because you have an entitled, degrading rapist mentality, that has no power in life, so you have to try to punch down and make an escort, a highly stigmatized individual, feel afraid, because you think we won't do anything about it - when we can just go to the police because stalking and harassment especially gender based and dealing with sexual contexts as a motivation, are crimes, meant to make a person feel unsafe. women don't need to justify why we want to cancel a date. We can cancel for any reason if we feel uncomfortable and offer the deposit back. And then you take the deposit back and move on. You absolutely do not refuse to take the deposit back and then proceed to apparently show up and then continue to harass saying I ghosted you and why did I do that and now why am I refusing to pay you back. You don't think all this bullshit took time and energy from me? I am not paying you back. So now do you guys see the delusion behind someone writing a bad review to try to ruin my business? And he found me on Lyla, so I have to write this here. So now do you all understand why we ask for verification? Edited 5 hours ago by Sonia DuBois Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites