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5 hours ago, BenDover78 said:

I just had the opposite, provided the deposit and have the provider cancel on me 3 times. 

Only simps and morons do that. At the end of the day, its business if you are not comfortable not sending deposits or your personal id then don't do it. There's literally hundred other options to choose from and majority of times even better. The entitlement is crazy. I do hear SPs point of view as well but just coz u have heard stories or burnt once doesn't mean you are going to treat every customer like shit. We don't deserve that. Its hard earned money i aint paying anyone a single penny up front even if i am richest man alive. Its about using common sense and having morals. You can be trusting anyone these days.

And for SPs if you don't feel comfortable taking clients without deposits and ID, go ahead don't accept any clients without it. I am pretty sure there are bunch of lonely weirdo simps who would willing give you everything. but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to, we cant be seen with any kind of evidence doing the deed. 

For customers, DONT EVER SEND DEPOSIT OR ID, 

For SPs, DONT ACCEPT CLIENTS IF YOU ARE NOT OK WIHTOUT DEPSOITS, its simply aint that hard.

There's always dozens of travelling SPs coming around, simps who want to give their personal identity and stay with local Sp, more power to them. But majority would prefer anonymity and privacy, and they indeed make more money offering that.

 

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6 minutes ago, stevenwilson said:

Only simps and morons do that. At the end of the day, its business if you are not comfortable not sending deposits or your personal id then don't do it. There's literally hundred other options to choose from and majority of times even better. The entitlement is crazy. I do hear SPs point of view as well but just coz u have heard stories or burnt once doesn't mean you are going to treat every customer like shit. We don't deserve that. Its hard earned money i aint paying anyone a single penny up front even if i am richest man alive. Its about using common sense and having morals. You can be trusting anyone these days.

And for SPs if you don't feel comfortable taking clients without deposits and ID, go ahead don't accept any clients without it. I am pretty sure there are bunch of lonely weirdo simps who would willing give you everything. but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to, we cant be seen with any kind of evidence doing the deed. 

For customers, DONT EVER SEND DEPOSIT OR ID, 

For SPs, DONT ACCEPT CLIENTS IF YOU ARE NOT OK WIHTOUT DEPSOITS, its simply aint that hard.

There's always dozens of travelling SPs coming around, simps who want to give their personal identity and stay with local Sp, more power to them. But majority would prefer anonymity and privacy, and they indeed make more money offering that.

 

Thank goodness this guy doesn't dictate the norms and standards omg 🤦

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41 minutes ago, stevenwilson said:

but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to

Perhaps we would do well to remember companions are somebody's daughter, sister, and in many cases mother, in short,  they too have families. 

 

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5 minutes ago, LadiesFirst said:

Perhaps we would do well to remember companions are somebody's daughter, sister, and in many cases mother, in short,  they too have families. 

 

He sees us like the cops do

Nhi

No human involved 🤦

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1 hour ago, stevenwilson said:

Only simps and morons do that. At the end of the day, its business if you are not comfortable not sending deposits or your personal id then don't do it. There's literally hundred other options to choose from and majority of times even better. The entitlement is crazy. I do hear SPs point of view as well but just coz u have heard stories or burnt once doesn't mean you are going to treat every customer like shit. We don't deserve that. Its hard earned money i aint paying anyone a single penny up front even if i am richest man alive. Its about using common sense and having morals. You can be trusting anyone these days.

And for SPs if you don't feel comfortable taking clients without deposits and ID, go ahead don't accept any clients without it. I am pretty sure there are bunch of lonely weirdo simps who would willing give you everything. but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to, we cant be seen with any kind of evidence doing the deed. 

For customers, DONT EVER SEND DEPOSIT OR ID, 

For SPs, DONT ACCEPT CLIENTS IF YOU ARE NOT OK WIHTOUT DEPSOITS, its simply aint that hard.

There's always dozens of travelling SPs coming around, simps who want to give their personal identity and stay with local Sp, more power to them. But majority would prefer anonymity and privacy, and they indeed make more money offering that.

 

Who hurt you?

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1 hour ago, stevenwilson said:

Only simps and morons do that. At the end of the day, its business if you are not comfortable not sending deposits or your personal id then don't do it. There's literally hundred other options to choose from and majority of times even better. The entitlement is crazy. I do hear SPs point of view as well but just coz u have heard stories or burnt once doesn't mean you are going to treat every customer like shit. We don't deserve that. Its hard earned money i aint paying anyone a single penny up front even if i am richest man alive. Its about using common sense and having morals. You can be trusting anyone these days.

And for SPs if you don't feel comfortable taking clients without deposits and ID, go ahead don't accept any clients without it. I am pretty sure there are bunch of lonely weirdo simps who would willing give you everything. but us regular people, people who work in reputable companies and having family to back to, we cant be seen with any kind of evidence doing the deed. 

For customers, DONT EVER SEND DEPOSIT OR ID, 

For SPs, DONT ACCEPT CLIENTS IF YOU ARE NOT OK WIHTOUT DEPSOITS, its simply aint that hard.

There's always dozens of travelling SPs coming around, simps who want to give their personal identity and stay with local Sp, more power to them. But majority would prefer anonymity and privacy, and they indeed make more money offering that.

 

 

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No one is entitled to a SWER’s time. If someone isn’t comfortable with an escort who screens, has clear boundaries and remains selective, then they were simply never her target client. And just because you consider yourself a good client doesn’t necessarily mean you are a good client for her. A good client for her is someone who does not question her limits or her screening process.

 

Not all money is good money, and I think it’s positive to see more and more SWERs able to prioritize their safety and their standards. Being selective is a luxury and unfortunately it’s not a reality for everyone in this industry. But those who can do it are also helping normalize healthier boundaries.

 

I also think it’s powerful to see women able to choose, to be free in how they work and to decide what is right for them. Our freedom and autonomy should never be negotiable. No one has control over our choices, our limits or how we choose to manage our careers.

 

We also shouldn’t be afraid to be firm in our boundaries out of fear of blackmail, pressure or fake bad reviews. Setting clear limits from the start isn’t being difficult, it’s simply respecting yourself and protecting your safety.

 

The more we normalize screening, freedom of choice and respect for boundaries, the healthier this industry becomes for everyone.

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11 hours ago, BenDover78 said:

I just had the opposite, provided the deposit and have the provider cancel on me 3 times. 

But how did it end? Did you eventually have your deposit applied and eventually were able to book? 

 

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