sinvx 113 Report post Posted Saturday at 10:07 PM 1 hour ago, LadiesFirst said: I’m sorry I am missing your point and yet still remain perplexed after your clarification. Do some people enjoy bear spray and muggings ? Why would you avoid reputable and professional unless you’ve burnt all your bridges? Are you just incapable of reading? Majority of reputable providers don't fit my tastes. I have also never burned any bridges. Wasted money 12 years ago on a 50 minute yap session with 10 minute massage on a reputable provider, even though all expectations were discussed and covered beforehand but not met. The last reputable SP i contacted was MsManda in September last year after a 8 year break, never met with her, but inquired about something, which she wasn't interested in. So unless she says the bridge was burned, no bridges were burned. I have obviously had more successful encounters with non reputable providers, then unsuccessful encounters, and obviously there will always be a risk. My favorite SP is sadly no longer around, which is why I took a long break from this. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadiesFirst 891 Report post Posted Saturday at 11:14 PM 1 hour ago, sinvx said: Are you just incapable of reading? Majority of reputable providers don't fit my tastes. I have also never burned any bridges. Wasted money 12 years ago on a 50 minute yap session with 10 minute massage on a reputable provider, even though all expectations were discussed and covered beforehand but not met. The last reputable SP i contacted was MsManda in September last year after a 8 year break, never met with her, but inquired about something, which she wasn't interested in. So unless she says the bridge was burned, no bridges were burned. I have obviously had more successful encounters with non reputable providers, then unsuccessful encounters, and obviously there will always be a risk. My favorite SP is sadly no longer around, which is why I took a long break from this. Well well, sinvx, I have feelings you know and I think your trying to hurt them. Sure, my reading and comprehension skills could be sharper and I do try to read daily to improve them. I can imagine how an encounter with you could possibly turn into a yap session, not totally the providers fault, my guess? Also, I actually greatly and I emphasize greatly enjoy the discussion aspect of the rendezvous. Time can really get away from you here I'm sorry that you are not a fan of the dialog portion of the encounter. To me it makes the experience even greater, that's the part that helps build the connection. Trying to develop a connection is the part I love. Prefer not to preplan all the ins and outs of the date and just let it flow. I'm glad for you, sorry, I should say it's blinding obvious that you have had many many successful encounters, I mean with how nice your being- who wouldn't love you? Also, this (Lyla) is a great place to share such experiences and would invite you to share. Imo though you are the epitome of a living advertisement for screening, a walking billboard if you will. Finally, to all the wonderful ladies who do this for a living I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I always supposed that you had to put up with a lot of shit and shenanigans with potential clients and booking inquiries-after today- I may have grossly misrepresented in my mind how bad it is... Warm regards , Still perplexed 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 446 Report post Posted yesterday at 01:59 AM The ones constantly complaining about rates and screening are usually the same ones complaining about the experience and treating SPs like rental blow-up dolls. Gentlemen who see us as humans and want the real SP experience don't complain about rates or screening. The pattern is pretty obvious if you’ve been around long enough. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted yesterday at 03:47 AM 4 hours ago, LadiesFirst said: Well well, sinvx, I have feelings you know and I think your trying to hurt them. Sure, my reading and comprehension skills could be sharper and I do try to read daily to improve them. I can imagine how an encounter with you could possibly turn into a yap session, not totally the providers fault, my guess? Also, I actually greatly and I emphasize greatly enjoy the discussion aspect of the rendezvous. Time can really get away from you here I'm sorry that you are not a fan of the dialog portion of the encounter. To me it makes the experience even greater, that's the part that helps build the connection. Trying to develop a connection is the part I love. Prefer not to preplan all the ins and outs of the date and just let it flow. I'm glad for you, sorry, I should say it's blinding obvious that you have had many many successful encounters, I mean with how nice your being- who wouldn't love you? Also, this (Lyla) is a great place to share such experiences and would invite you to share. Imo though you are the epitome of a living advertisement for screening, a walking billboard if you will. Finally, to all the wonderful ladies who do this for a living I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I always supposed that you had to put up with a lot of shit and shenanigans with potential clients and booking inquiries-after today- I may have grossly misrepresented in my mind how bad it is... Warm regards , Still perplexed Yes, you could definitely improve your reading comprehension. Because your take away from what I said is nonsense. You are making up scenarios to justify your argument and have been extremely passive aggressive in all your posts. So sorry if I am short with you, but I am a blunt person when it comes to passive aggressiveness. Just because I have no interest in seeing reputable SP's. Somehow I'm not a good person? Like what is wrong you? How do you even come to that conclusion? There is something actually seriously wrong with your mental state if your whole thought process is to come to the assumption im trying to hurt SP's based on what I've said. I never said anything violent, I never complained about screening, rates, or deposits. I simply said, people have their preferences. Some people have bad experiences, I gave an example. I get told it's my fault cause I didn't see a reputable SP. I say reputable SP's aren't my taste based on experience. And yet somehow you come to imagine me doing bad things to SP's? No. I say you're the living advertisement for screening, because of your hyper passive aggressiveness. Something tells me under that sweet facade, you're a dark and violent person. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted yesterday at 03:56 AM Heres an example that people change. I had an amazing experience with them, while others didn't. And a personal example I don't mind talking it up with SP's. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Incog 1213 Report post Posted 17 hours ago Anybody else waiting for the wrinkled & slightly whiskered old lunch lady to make here way over here to the monkey bars, pull these two kids apart, and send them to the office for calling each other names? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadiesFirst 891 Report post Posted 17 hours ago 9 hours ago, sinvx said: Yes, you could definitely improve your reading comprehension. Because your take away from what I said is nonsense. You are making up scenarios to justify your argument and have been extremely passive aggressive in all your posts. So sorry if I am short with you, but I am a blunt person when it comes to passive aggressiveness. Just because I have no interest in seeing reputable SP's. Somehow I'm not a good person? Like what is wrong you? How do you even come to that conclusion? There is something actually seriously wrong with your mental state if your whole thought process is to come to the assumption im trying to hurt SP's based on what I've said. I never said anything violent, I never complained about screening, rates, or deposits. I simply said, people have their preferences. Some people have bad experiences, I gave an example. I get told it's my fault cause I didn't see a reputable SP. I say reputable SP's aren't my taste based on experience. And yet somehow you come to imagine me doing bad things to SP's? No. I say you're the living advertisement for screening, because of your hyper passive aggressiveness. Something tells me under that sweet facade, you're a dark and violent person. I’ll apologize if I said you were violent or trying to physically hurt anyone, I did not mean that. I think people can be incompatible for many reasons other than threat of violence. That was my intent behind the screening comment. You say you have no interest in reputable , professional companions because you’ve had a sub par experience. That’s fine, I’m struggling to see the safe alternative, that is all. My interpretation is you don’t look for positive reviews or a web presence, something that would indicate things would go favourable for you. That is what my understanding of professional and reputable would be. There is a very large selection of what I would think are professional reputable providers both domiciled here and ladies that travel here. I wouldn’t think you would put them all in one basket. I’m all for everyone’s safety here, so when you say you prefer “non reputable” my mind goes to someone that has no reviews or website etc. To me that introduces a lot of risk and uncertainty, maybe that is the attraction…. The unknown, the thrill of seeking something new? This is where you lose me, I honestly don’t know. I actually, even after our exchanges, hope you don’t have any more run ins, or close calls, I don’t like to hear about them in the hobby. Sincerely the best to you and stay safe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31928 Report post Posted 16 hours ago 29 minutes ago, LadiesFirst said: I’ll apologize if I said you were violent or trying to physically hurt anyone, I did not mean that. I think people can be incompatible for many reasons other than threat of violence. That was my intent behind the screening comment. You say you have no interest in reputable , professional companions because you’ve had a sub par experience. That’s fine, I’m struggling to see the safe alternative, that is all. My interpretation is you don’t look for positive reviews or a web presence, something that would indicate things would go favourable for you. That is what my understanding of professional and reputable would be. There is a very large selection of what I would think are professional reputable providers both domiciled here and ladies that travel here. I wouldn’t think you would put them all in one basket. I’m all for everyone’s safety here, so when you say you prefer “non reputable” my mind goes to someone that has no reviews or website etc. To me that introduces a lot of risk and uncertainty, maybe that is the attraction…. The unknown, the thrill of seeking something new? This is where you lose me, I honestly don’t know. I actually, even after our exchanges, hope you don’t have any more run ins, or close calls, I don’t like to hear about them in the hobby. Sincerely the best to you and stay safe. You had nothing to apologize for, he said he doesn't like seeing reputable providers because i guess he didn't like the conversation lol but then complained about being robbed by another that wasn't reputable He clearly just wants to get laid and doesn't care about his safety so let him do it his way I did mention Tinder, I hear people meet up and F for free 😂🤣🤷♀️ 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cjthomas 1637 Report post Posted 16 hours ago (edited) 10 hours ago, sinvx said: Heres an example that people change. I had an amazing experience with them, while others didn't. And a personal example I don't mind talking it up with SP's. Didn’t want to keep this thread going but your response left me laughing. Can you not see the humour in your response? In one instance you complained that a reputable provider wasn’t to your liking because they charged you for your time and you chose to spend it talking. When the time expired she asked you to leave. In this instance you knowingly overstayed your time without paying just talking and smoking . So it’s not that talking is the problem it’s the paying for the talking and being asked to leave when the time expires you seem to take issue with. As I’ve said before this forum needs to be called Local Comedy not discussion. It never stops😂 Edited 15 hours ago by Cjthomas 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadiesFirst 891 Report post Posted 15 hours ago 46 minutes ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said: You had nothing to apologize for, he said he doesn't like seeing reputable providers because i guess he didn't like the conversation lol but then complained about being robbed by another that wasn't reputable He clearly just wants to get laid and doesn't care about his safety so let him do it his way I did mention Tinder, I hear people meet up and F for free 😂🤣🤷♀️ Appreciate you Danielle I was thinking perhaps I was being a little thick headed. The logic was and continues to escape me on many levels. If I had a bad experience at a highly regarded, health inspected restaurant is the answer to make gas station sushi my go to? If I had a bad experience with a licensed doctor would the logical thing be to seek out a medicine man in the back woods? He's right, my literary skills could be sharper but I'm curious by nature and was honest to God just trying wrap my head around it. I thought I was missing something. I do regret speaking in this thread in hindsight At some point, arguing with a fool only proves one thing- there are two. 😔 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted 9 hours ago 7 hours ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said: You had nothing to apologize for, he said he doesn't like seeing reputable providers because i guess he didn't like the conversation lol but then complained about being robbed by another that wasn't reputable He clearly just wants to get laid and doesn't care about his safety so let him do it his way I did mention Tinder, I hear people meet up and F for free 😂🤣🤷♀️ There was no complaining, I gave examples of people changing. Grow up. You're simply upset I have my preferences and you don't meet those preferences. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted 8 hours ago 7 hours ago, Cjthomas said: Didn’t want to keep this thread going but your response left me laughing. Can you not see the humour in your response? In one instance you complained that a reputable provider wasn’t to your liking because they charged you for your time and you chose to spend it talking. When the time expired she asked you to leave. In this instance you knowingly overstayed your time without paying just talking and smoking . So it’s not that talking is the problem it’s the paying for the talking and being asked to leave when the time expires you seem to take issue with. As I’ve said before this forum needs to be called Local Comedy not discussion. It never stops😂 What are you talking about? Okay so first person, spends 50 minutes talking, what am I suppose to do? Tell her shut up? Tell her what to do? No, i'm not going to do that. Also I never said talking was the problem, Ladiesfirst is the one who said I had a problem with the talking, I don't, but when talking takes up 90% of the session then promptly kicked, and im out $700, that is not a good experience, especially when expectations are discussed beforehand. 2nd person, I didn't overstay, I tried to leave after the 20 minutes, but she had no other plans that night and we kept going and then hung out. But that wasn't the point of why I linked that. The point of me linking that was I had a great experience with her, while others did not, meaning the point was people change, going back to the SP I seen 10+ times, another time I see her I got jumped by 3 guys. For a place that is no judgement, you guys are incredibly judgy. Share an experience. "Stop complaining about rates" Never said anything about rates... "Stop complaining about screening" Never said anything about screening... "It's your fault" Sure... "Do better research" I do everything I need too, sometimes 1 out of 100 things go bad, such is life. "You must have tried to hurt them to get robbed" Yes... 1-4 guys randomly coming out demanding my money, phone, and wallet, clearly I must have done something, couldn't have just been a planned set up... It baffles me you can't accept what people say, if you actually read what I say, things happen, people have preferences, move on, there is no point arguing semantics, do what feels right for you. Instead i'm on here having to defend myself by grown ass people acting like children making every excuse to justify pointless arguing because they cannot accept they think differently. Learn to read you overgrown child. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31928 Report post Posted 8 hours ago 25 minutes ago, sinvx said: There was no complaining, I gave examples of people changing. Grow up. You're simply upset I have my preferences and you don't meet those preferences. Thank Fck I am not what you like I am not upset LMFAO I'll be okay I'm sure😘 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted 8 hours ago 7 hours ago, LadiesFirst said: Appreciate you Danielle I was thinking perhaps I was being a little thick headed. The logic was and continues to escape me on many levels. If I had a bad experience at a highly regarded, health inspected restaurant is the answer to make gas station sushi my go to? If I had a bad experience with a licensed doctor would the logical thing be to seek out a medicine man in the back woods? He's right, my literary skills could be sharper but I'm curious by nature and was honest to God just trying wrap my head around it. I thought I was missing something. I do regret speaking in this thread in hindsight At some point, arguing with a fool only proves one thing- there are two. 😔 You are not trying to wrap your head around something to understand it, you are just trying to judge me, and make me look bad. Nothing about your posts were genuine or actually understanding. They were filled with passive aggressive attacks and judgement. You made zero attempts at actually understanding, but every attempt to make an assumption why I had a few bad experience out of several good ones. If you were genuine about actually understanding, you would have taken the time to actually read what I said, and maybe ask genuine questions about it, instead of coming up with assumptions and judging me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted 8 hours ago Just now, Exotic Touch Danielle said: Thank Fck I am not what you like I am not upset LMFAO I'll be okay I'm sure😘 Glad to hear it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31928 Report post Posted 8 hours ago 4 minutes ago, sinvx said: Glad to hear it. Indeed! Stay safe out there! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted 8 hours ago Just now, Exotic Touch Danielle said: Indeed! Stay safe out there You as well. Wish you nothing but the best. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadiesFirst 891 Report post Posted 4 hours ago 4 hours ago, sinvx said: There was no complaining, I gave examples of people changing. Grow up. You're simply upset I have my preferences and you don't meet those preferences. There is a very special kind of small in a man/boy that publicly insults a woman then tells everyone else to grow up. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31928 Report post Posted 4 hours ago 1 hour ago, LadiesFirst said: There is a very special kind of small in a man/boy that publicly insults a woman then tells everyone else to grow Let him stick to what he's use to lol His character is shit I prefer gentlemen😌😏😘 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted 1 hour ago 2 hours ago, LadiesFirst said: There is a very special kind of small in a man/boy that publicly insults a woman then tells everyone else to grow up. What are you talking about? What insult did I say? Since when was saying someone isn't your preference an insult? This is exactly what I mean. You are making assumptions. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted 1 hour ago 2 hours ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said: Let him stick to what he's use to lol His character is shit I prefer gentlemen😌😏😘 And this why I said you need to grow up, and why you aren't my preference. You are very antagonizing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31928 Report post Posted 1 hour ago 16 minutes ago, sinvx said: And this why I said you need to grow up, and why you aren't my preference. You are very I'm not entertaining you anymore Moving on.................. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinvx 113 Report post Posted 52 minutes ago 41 minutes ago, Exotic Touch Danielle said: I'm not entertaining you anymore Moving on.................. Should of moved on awhile ago instead of antagonizing me every step of the way when I wasn't even talking to you or about you. You just couldn't control yourself not to stir the pot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31928 Report post Posted 11 minutes ago 43 minutes ago, sinvx said: Should of moved on awhile ago instead of antagonizing me every step of the way when I wasn't even talking to you or about you. You just couldn't control yourself not to stir the pot. 🥱 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites