How many times does your SP orgasm?

[AttilaTheHun 356]

In my case unless the lady is able to purposely dilate her pupils, sweat profusely, get flushed and have her pussy and sphincter muscles contract uncontrollably then she is really having a orgasm. I love making a woman come but if she doesn't come at least once with me then I'm not turning her on or there may be some other underlying problem she is dealing with. But some women are just not multiple orgasmic and I'm OK with that too. Some have one or two incredible releases while others have multiple (5-10) mini orgasms. For me it's not about the number but the quality of time spent together. I feel it more of a spiritual journey that with some ladies it really clicks and with others it doesn't.

 

The Hun

[spud271 47779]

I'm with you 100% on this one Cap. There is no bigger turn off than a woman faking it.

 

Ya, this poll needs to have a zero. I'm with Youngstud, there's nothing worse than a real fake orgasm. If you're not going to orgasm it's understandable as perhaps I'm not the best lover in the world or maybe you've seen a few guys that day or week and you're just tired out. A few ohhs and ahhs will help me achieve some pleasure, but a real big fake orgasm will just turn me off and potentially prevent me from getting off.....and repeating with you for that matter!

[capitalman 3861]

Maybe it should be "How many times do you THINK your SP orgasmed?"

[Annessa 22743]

Maybe it should be "How many times do you THINK your SP orgasmed?"

 

everyone says "why would guy fake it?....he can't" I say the same goes for proper SPs. I know myself, and I know it sometimes takes me a bit to climax. in that case however, I wont fake it, I will just say something to the liking of "I want you to get your's more than anything, babe." and turn my talents on him if I feel I'm eating too much of his proper paid time on MY orgasm. I never want to feel selfish. however I *have* had instances where I've been flipped on my back and got amazing DATY after stating the above and been told that my pleasure was their's and not to worry.

 

main point however: I love my job and would never deny myself of it's perks (ie. a true awesome orgasm) why fake it when you could enjoy it

 

also...hobbiests aren't stupid....seriously

[Guest gagagaga]

this is a good thread...

 

I know for sure some of my sp's have faked, and some haven't cum at all. The ones that do honestly cum become my faves...it's an ego thing. If I want sex with someone who isn't into it, I'll go to my SO. lol

[capitalman 3861]

If you read some literature on the female orgasm you'll learn some things. I don't remember all the details, but some girls experience orgasm as one big rise and climax, kinda like a guy. Others experience more up and downs and ride the wave for a long time.

 

I know a girl that was frigid and didn't know it, until she had an affair with a guy and she had a mind blowing orgasm. She told me at that moment she knew her relationship with her husband was over because she now realized that she had never had an orgasm until then, but didn't know it. I suppose she wrongly was blaming her husband (her O's are HER responsibility, sorry) but whatever. I'm just saying you might think you've orgasmed but maybe there's more inside you don't know about?

 

I've read lots of stories about girls with Sybians experiencing that too.

[spud271 47779]

Hahahaha........ Very true!

 

 

Maybe it should be "How many times do you THINK your SP orgasmed?"

[Ariane Valmont 332]

Ya, this poll needs to have a zero.

 

I agree with this.

 

I personaly know some escorts who rarely (if ever) cum with clients and I would think they represent the majority. The fact is that the female body is complex and it is not easy for most women to cum with a new partner.

 

As far as I am concerned, I usually take matters into my own hands, i.e. I like to make myself cum with the help of my partner (there are many things you guys can do to assist! hihi). First, because this way, I am sure to orgasm and second, because I think it is very sexy to caress myself in front of a man (or a woman! ;)).

 

It did happen a couple of times that a gentleman made me cum on his own but this is rare. And for the record, I don't think I am "frigid", far from it. :boobies:

[coachg 388]

I truly love to make the women climax as many times as possible while I myself enjoy an incredible time....I like to be with SP's who truly love sex and get right into our encounters and after years of experience I like to be able to think that I can recognize the ladies who truly enjoy sex from the ones who are don't so much. I will only usually repeat with the SP's who enjoy it has much as I do. My current favorite SP has around 10 "O"'s every time we get together....it's totally friggin incredible!!

[buggernot 588]

I've seen some fairly decent fake orgasms in my time, and I really have no use for them. Especially if it's a big production followed by some pleasant albeit hollow comment regarding my 'phenomenal' prowess. I love seeing a woman cum, it's my favourite thing - but only if it's real.

 

The over the top screaming is a bit of a turn off actually, but again if it's real that's OK. Hearing a girl quietly panting with her breaths getting shorter and shorter until that moment when her whole face clenches up and there's that brief second of silence, where her whole body is tensed up until that exclamation exhale comes out. It's almost a look of surprise even though she knew it was coming. Followed by the tremors that leave her seeming totally helpless for those few seconds. THAT is so much better than screeching out platitudes you know are bullshit. Shit, I just gave myself a woody from writing that...

 

I don't blame a girl for trying though, and some guys may prefer the more pornographic experience even though it's fake. I try my best to get whoever I'm with to cum, and sometimes I wish they would coerce me to finish them off and be a bit selfish. Doubt that would go over well with everybody ;)

[SamanthaEvans 166768]

I reach orgasm easily, but I actually prefer to wait for it a lot of the time. I can have an easy one, soon, but if things are right, I'll have a good, hard one if I can keep getting close, backing off, a little closer, slow down, just a bit more... you get the picture.

 

I never fake them because I don't have trouble having them. Situations where I might be tempted to fake an orgasm are with guys who really don't care whether I have one or not. No need to fake it with them!

[MandalayBay 575]

I truly love to make the women climax as many times as possible while I myself enjoy an incredible time....I like to be with SP's who truly love sex and get right into our encounters and after years of experience I like to be able to think that I can recognize the ladies who truly enjoy sex from the ones who are don't so much. I will only usually repeat with the SP's who enjoy it has much as I do. My current favorite SP has around 10 "O"'s every time we get together....it's totally friggin incredible!!

 

It is very easy to have 10 orgasms with a lover like you!

[coachg 388]

It is very easy to have 10 orgasms with a lover like you!

You are the one who stokes the fires baby....once you get me going (and you do!!) it is very hard to stop. Next time we get together, I am going to make it a personal goal of mine to try and set a new orgasmic record for us....shall we shoot for 15>

[MandalayBay 575]

You are the one who stokes the fires baby....once you get me going (and you do!!) it is very hard to stop. Next time we get together, I am going to make it a personal goal of mine to try and set a new orgasmic record for us....shall we shoot for 15>

 

If it is physically possible for me to have 15 orgasms, it will be with you. You are so fucking sexy and every escort's fantasy!!!

[antlerman 17064]

now that is the best challange I have ever seen........talk about 2 winners there........

[Emma Alexandra 123368]

now that is the best challange I have ever seen........talk about 2 winners there........

 

i'm still cumming since i seen you last....hahaha

[a******s.m*****e 187]

The over the top screaming is a bit of a turn off actually, but again if it's real that's OK. Hearing a girl quietly panting with her breaths getting shorter and shorter until that moment when her whole face clenches up and there's that brief second of silence, where her whole body is tensed up until that exclamation exhale comes out. It's almost a look of surprise even though she knew it was coming. Followed by the tremors that leave her seeming totally helpless for those few seconds. THAT is so much better than screeching out platitudes you know are bullshit. Shit, I just gave myself a woody from writing that...

 

 

Congrats buggernot,

 

Having seen so many porn movies with obvious fakes, and having heard guys describing fake orgasms they have mistaken for real, I must say, you just described the REAL one. :)

 

Yes, when a woman gets closer to an orgasm, her body and face tenses up. Most guys mistaken this for passivity or they think they are doing something wrong and change the pace. Don't! You are just about to experience the real thing!

 

Female orgasm is not always pretty, but it feels wonderful. You can recognize a fake by the fact that a woman has control over her facial expressions and her body is not tensed up. Of course, there is no involuntary contractions, but that, too, can be faked.

 

I, personally, never experienced more than three, and that was 20 years ago. I am not really interested. After one orgasm I get that wonderful, peaceful feeling, where all I want is to cuddle and dream, even touching of the genital area is uncomfortable.

 

I have for a long time thought that multi-orgasmic women are faking it, but I have seen a few videos and they looked pretty real, so I guess, it does exist. Everybody is different.

[a******s.m*****e 187]

Just in case you are interested in my humble opinion....;)

 

If you want to bring a woman to orgasm, the surest way is (after of course you've played around a little or a lot) to let her do what she wants.

 

Look at it this way: you supply the cock, she does with it what feels good to her. Let her sit on top, that is the easiest way for her to climax. Let her set the pace that she knows instinctively will get her off.

 

If you insist on your way, all you will achieve is that she will fake it, and because she doesn't actually have a climax with you, she will have a lot of headaches;)

 

Believe me, women know what feels good and will tell you if you listen. Just don't be a bonehead and don't insist on something, just because you've been told, saw it somewhere, or because other women achieved orgasm that way.

 

Don't ever patronize her if you want to have a good sex life. If you insist on your way every time and you can't make her orgasm it is YOU who is at fault, not her.

 

Where I come from we have a saying: "There are no frigid women, only clumsy men."

 

peace :)

[antlerman 17064]

......................

 

Female orgasm is not always pretty, but it feels wonderful. You can recognize a fake by the fact that a woman has control over her facial expressions and her body is not tensed up. Of course, there is no involuntary contractions, but that, too, can be faked. ...............

 

Men on the other hand......we apparently make the funniest and most odd faces around.......there is some movie that showed that once........

[buggernot 588]

Female orgasm is not always pretty...

 

I have to respectfully disagree with that ;) If I'm with someone it's because I'm attracted to them, and to make that person come is always the best part. Not out of ego, but benevolence and my personal arousal.

 

If I watch porn, it's mostly amateur stuff and I'm always looking for any clips that are as genuine as possible where the woman is reaching climax and physical appearance is a very minor consideration. Beautiful Agony was a favourite website of mine for awhile and you don't even see anything there except the person's face. Hell, I'll be watching a movie with a woman giving birth and since I know it's not real and some of the expressions are similar, sometimes that turns me on. And I must reiterate that I know it's not real!

 

It's always beautiful, I love it.

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

I have for a long time thought that multi-orgasmic women are faking it, but I have seen a few videos and they looked pretty real, so I guess, it does exist. Everybody is different.

 

Trust me... Multi-orgasmic women DO exist in real life too!

;)

 

xox

[YoungStud 468]

I have to respectfully disagree with that ;) If I'm with someone it's because I'm attracted to them, and to make that person come is always the best part. Not out of ego, but benevolence and my personal arousal.

 

If I watch porn, it's mostly amateur stuff and I'm always looking for any clips that are as genuine as possible where the woman is reaching climax and physical appearance is a very minor consideration. Beautiful Agony was a favourite website of mine for awhile and you don't even see anything there except the person's face. Hell, I'll be watching a movie with a woman giving birth and since I know it's not real and some of the expressions are similar, sometimes that turns me on. And I must reiterate that I know it's not real!

 

It's always beautiful, I love it.

 

Excellent post. I agree with a great deal of what you say.

 

But I'm not sure we "make" anybody cum. And if we do, I'm not sure "benevolence" is our motive. Bit too paternalistic and unrealistic for me.

 

In my view, and this is true of males or females, we facilitate our sex partners orgasms at the same time as we selfishly seek and allow and enjoy our own, and vice-versa. She makes me cum as much as I do her, and we're both as selfish - or selfless - as each other. Often both (ideally, I think) at the same time.

[coachg 388]

Great point YoungStud...I have to agree with you on all points.

[buggernot 588]

But I'm not sure we "make" anybody cum. And if we do, I'm not sure "benevolence" is our motive. Bit too paternalistic and unrealistic for me.

 

Good points, poor word choices on my part. Switch 'make' with assist or contribute or lucky to be a part of...something along those lines. And benevolent does create the impression that I would look upon myself as a philanthropist. Not quite...seeking mutual pleasure? Think I need to crack open a book for once and learn me some new words...

 

Orgasm is still the word of the day though!

[a******s.m*****e 187]

Trust me... Multi-orgasmic women DO exist in real life too!

;)

 

xox

 

I do believe you. I just don't understand why would I want a second one when the first one makes me feel so good.

It is like having a cake. I could have three more, but for what? ;)

 

OK, this is just me. I really do respect other people's preferences.

Having worked with men makes me realize that there are all kinds. Some wants one orgasm, but there are those who want a second and a third right away.

 

As I said, I did try it once and had three in a row. I was curious if it was possible. But I must say, I had to force myself.