Going Flaccid When The Cover Goes On

[LickiLicki 116]

While it's only happened to me a few times, I've heard that many guys have a problem with keeping it hard when they have to break to put the cover on. Whether it's because of the lull in the time or because the condom is too tight, losing one's hardness can be a real drag. The following link has some great suggestions for keeping it hard while practicing safe sex:

 

http://www./forum/hobbyist-hangout/going-flaccid-when-the-cover-goes-on

[Guest i***k***]

One word.... "Viagra" :)

[RockinRick444 107]

cialis:-P:razz:

[Loki318 1631]

You could get really serious and use the "Porn Star" drug of choice ;)

A bi-mix of xx%Paparivine and x% Rogitine .....Injections the way a real man fixes the problem LOL

 

Loki318

[YoungStud 468]

I find just taking the condom off and cumming on her face usually works for me. 8)

 

You could get really serious and use the "Porn Star" drug of choice ;)

A bi-mix of xx%Paparivine and x% Rogitine .....Injections the way a real man fixes the problem LOL

 

Loki318

[Apex2006 1071]

I find it happens the most after the third time I blow a load! That's why I try and stick to two shots per visit! If I'm having a good day, I will get a 2hr visit and try to shoot for 4 shots on goal!

 

It's not easy! for me any way! It's not like when I was 16! lol

 

Apex

[spud271 47779]

Sorry boys, have never had any issue and most likely ever will. The caber is as solid as the rock of Gibraltar

[A***** A***** 510]

I have had that happen with my gentleman clients, and I have found it takes just a bit of mouth action down there and it's good to go:-D Often teasing helps, have to get creative sometimes. It's not a fun situation, but if both parties are open minded, and know that sometimes these things happen, I am sure things can and do get better.

[LickiLicki 116]

cialis:-P:razz:

 

I was referring to "natural" ways to deal with the problem. I'm also not really talking about guys with ED but more about guys not used to using condoms who get flaccid when it is put on.

[PistolPete 61421]

There is natural supplements just google and read up on it, there is also breathing excercise that you can do as well, through the nose and out the mouth, visit also tantric massage on google, it will give you hints on the breathing requirement, you will also last longer, alot of it is mind over matter.

 

Alot of foreplay at the begining at a session is also very beneficial, keeps you in the mood and rock hard until the jacket is applied, getting oral while it is applied will make you RISE to the OCCASSION:mrgreen:..best of luck what ever you may try.

[esoterica 624]

Alot of foreplay at the begining at a session is also very beneficial, keeps you in the mood and rock hard until the jacket is applied, getting oral while it is applied will make you RISE to the OCCASSION:mrgreen:..best of luck what ever you may try.

 

Or ask Mystique to do it. I was bound and blindfolded, and couldn't tell I was wearing one. I assumed I was wearing one because it was Mystique - if I can trust her to tie me up, that pretty much says it all about her.

[Loki318 1631]

Sorry boys, have never had any issue and most likely ever will. The caber is as solid as the rock of Gibraltar

Spud

Please take this in the best of humor but "Never" is a long long time ........

 

Loki318

[VedaSloan 119179]

Angela Aurora said it best: little mouth action and you're good to go.

 

I find that when I have gents who lose their erection, it's not the condom, it's usually them overthinking things and in that case, nothing I can do can fix it.

[esoterica 624]

I find that when I have gents who lose their erection, it's not the condom, it's usually them overthinking things and in that case, nothing I can do can fix it.

 

Not true! I've seen your pics.

 

Seriously, a little dirty talk or *gasp* a kiss seems to work for me.

[Guest f***2f***]

Yes some ladies have the skill to put it on without you even knowing it. Cat is one of those ladies and sounds like Mystique has the knack too.

[PistolPete 61421]

You are correct Boner, some SP's smile going down on ya, and behold, the condom is in their mouth, and rolling it on ya! (look ma no hands!) as we would roll our eyes and shudder with a grin:mrgreen:

[Missy Mariposa 234]

I know of men using L-arginine. It works wonders if you take it regularly. You get harder and get an improvement in sensation as well. Do your research on this before using it though - the results vary greatly. Some men only need small doses to feel the affects, some need larger. Caffeine negates the effects, so don't bother if you have a coffee or tea habit ;). Consult your doctor. DO NOT TAKE IT IF YOU HAVE ANY HEART PROBLEMS.

[o*****j***e 136]

I have had that happen with my gentleman clients, and I have found it takes just a bit of mouth action down there and it's good to go:-D Often teasing helps, have to get creative sometimes. It's not a fun situation, but if both parties are open minded, and know that sometimes these things happen, I am sure things can and do get better.

 

I agree. Unfortunately i had this experience before and none the less, a little tongue action with some teasing immediately cured it.

[spud271 47779]

Apparently it runs in the family...not worried about it ever happening! ;)

 

 

Spud

Please take this in the best of humor but "Never" is a long long time ........

 

Loki318

[A***** A***** 510]

I agree. Unfortunately i had this experience before and none the less, a little tongue action with some teasing immediately cured it.

 

And like the smiley states, I Just love doing that....

 

It often takes time and patience, and creativtiy. I can't imagine how it would feel for a gentleman not being able to perform, so I do my best to help him out.

 

Now only if I was in Ottawa, I am sure there would be a few beating a path to my room for some services xoxo

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

I have clients in their mid-60s and 70s who have this experience pretty often, sometimes even with Viagra, though it's usually just temporary then. Oral usually takes care of things. Adding a bit of prostate massage always works!

 

I was in a very playful mood with one client a few weeks ago. It was the first time he'd visited me, and so we had a nice long session with time to get comfortable together. But when the condom went on, he went soft very quickly. After a little bit of oral, he said something about condoms being too uncomfortable because they're never big enough and always too tight.

 

I don't know what possessed me to do it, but without thinking about it, I took the condom off and blew it up like a balloon, way beyond the size of any man I've ever seen. He started to laugh. By the time I'd tied a knot in the end of it, put it on the bedside table and got a fresh one, he was in stitches, laughing so hard. When he recovered, he asked if I knew any more tricks with condoms. I told him I could roll the fresh one over my fist and most of the way up my forearm--did he want to see that? He started laughing again, and then he was tickling me, and soon we were wrestling on the bed... No problem when the condom went on that time! (He's booked another meeting, too!)

 

So I recommend oral, prostate massage, and learning a few balloon tricks!

:-)

[Guest f***2f***]

Maybe make some balloon animals too eh? ha too funny that!!:boobies:

[PistolPete 61421]

Well ROTFLMAO..balloon animals..like the Captain Bud commercial for the dog the won't stop barking at the party, Captain Bud makes the dog a balloon dog...after some quick action for the real dog behind the couch, the balloon pops...too funny

[d*mm*y 887]

Yes the condom issue has always gone the opposite direction for me, why the hell do they need to be so big that you can put your fist in them? The tighter the better for me (but I don't have anything resembling a fist in my pants)

[capitalman 3861]

I think some rubbers might actually cause some kind of chemical reaction to me, like being allergic to them. Not the latex, but allergic by making me soft. I haven't completely studied this phenomenon yet, but Durex seems to be okay, Trojan are bad.

 

It also depends on the mood.....if it's not that great to start with, the rubber will just dampen the mood more. If the mood is great, a thousand rubbers won't matter, wood will be thriving!