Guest integrety Report post Posted February 22, 2007 I am a late thirty respectable Chinese male and i am worry about something.I didn't do anything wrong.I have met a girl in Ottawa and she don't want to see me anymore cause she say i have harasssed her.I have tried to see her to her place and after a battle she told me to go.Now i am worry i have paid her but she say i have raped her cause she say she did'nt want to see me.I'm affraid she call the police.I need help she does not replies my excuse.I even bought her a gift the same day i don't understand.She have been using me as a client for a while and now she don't want to see me anymore.What should i do?I want to have an explanation from her but i don't want to fight again cause i am tired and she she never reply to my email.I did'nt do anything wrong and i am sorry for the battle.What should i do?:mad: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted February 22, 2007 Maybe you should respect her wishes and don't bother her anymore! If you honestly did no wrong to her then you should leave her alone as per her wishes and break all contact! I am pretty sure she would drop the issue if she did not feel you were harassing her or pose any danger to her. If you go back or harass her I would expect this to escalate to a level that you would not want it to!! I assume you mean "Argument" when you say "Battle"? If you hurt her physically in any way you should go to jail. If you raped her or hit her I would hope she would call the police also! Just because you pay her it does not give you the right to have sex with her. If both people are not consenting then it is rape! If you had sex with her against her wishes then you raped her (Even if you left money!) I hope this is not the case but if it is then you should seek some help as you would be a sex offender and you should not contact any more escorts!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guy1961 358 Report post Posted February 22, 2007 Mod is correct... just chalk it up to a lesson learned and avoid any contact with this lady Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest strongman Report post Posted March 1, 2007 You'd better leave this poor girl alone. Any providers have the right to see the type of clients they want. I wil personally try to find out who is the provider and i hope for you it was not a physical battle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted March 1, 2007 I am glad to see people wanting to protect the ladies but lets not assume anything here. It could simply be broken English being the reason why his post sounds threatening and it could be the reason why the lady does not wish to see him any longer (We don't know the full story and we should not assume anything). If anyone knows any more details about this please feel free to PM me the details if you do not wish to post details here in public. If the person is physically abusive then you should consider that threatening someone that is potentially dangerous can escalate a problem further and in no way helps solve the problem. If someone actually physically hurt one of the ladies chances are that person is sick (Mental illness) and needs help. Threatening him does not accomplish anything or help anyone and can put the lady (or others) in potential harm. We know you mean well. Thanks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
