What made you take the plunge?

[Guest **g*or***]

Hey Rag,

 

Interesting, detailed, no BS contribution. I enjoyed reading it.

 

Thanks for the compliment and the nomination. Wasn't sure if it qualified as good reading or an overshare. :mrgreen:

[Belleville69 100]

I decided to take the plunge after being in a marriage that was gonna end. Had always been curious anyway, god, how can ya not be! SO many hot, tasty, interesting providers out there. Seemed like such a good way to have some fun.

First time(about 5 yrs ago) was not good, and almost made me quit before I started. Was in T.O on bussiness, called an agency. Girl that showed up looked good, but as things progressed........there was an ......odor.........problem.:-x So I gave her the toss with partial payment. She wasn't happy, but too bad, if things arn't clean, I ain't gettin ANYWHERE close to it.

 

Second time was awhile after I had found the "other" board. After the first bad time, it was nice to poke around and read reviews. Second time was better. So while I'm not a huge hobbyist I do partake every once in awhile. And the boards are even better than they used to be. Nice to have all the providers participate so much, gives you a better idea of what they are like. I'm a real nervous person till I get to know someone, so nice to get an idea on here of what your in for.

[Carrie Moon 68826]

hmm. I almost forgot about my first attempt at escorting but a couple posters brought it up about a girl not being ready/right for the biz. I actually answered and ad for a guy looking for a mistress when I was in my early 20's and I was trying to figure out a way to pay for my post-grad education.

 

I met him in his fancy penthouse appt in Yorkville area and ended up giving him just a massage and he paid me. No sex. He was compassionate enough to realize I wasn't ready.. I was very nervous. Months or maybe a year later when I went for an interview with an escort agency they put me to work before I really had time to think about it.

 

I was very very nervous.. but after my first night and 3 appts later.. I was hooked. I obviously got less nervous as time went on.. then after some time the same guy who had had the mistress ad booked me and I was by then a pro.. we had a good laugh over the original time we met.

 

But yes.. what started me in the business was financial interest. I needed to pay for school. OSAP maxed and waitressing etc was too much for me. Escorting provided the perfect part-time job with a full-time income.

[MandalayBay 575]

I got into the industry after spending a weekend with a well-to-do American gentleman without any talk or thought of payment (or even my becoming an escort). He and I met on a "dating" website that had nothing to do with paying for sex in any capacity.

 

Had somebody told me a couple months ago I would be escorting, I would have guffawed.

 

Throughout the weekend, the American and I had a wonderful, romantic, erotic, beautiful time together. He had to leave the hotel before I did (for reasons related to his business) and I didn't need to leave the hotel for another couple hours after he left.

 

He told me he would leave cab fare on the end table. We had a passionate kiss and embrace before he left, and I crawled on the bed to watch TV for a while. About 1/2 hour later, I looked over at the end table and he had left me $1,000 U.S. My first thought was "holy crap!"

 

Escorting has allowed me to pay off bills and do things that would take me years to save up for doing my "non sexy" daytime business.

 

The American gentleman still calls and emails in an attempt to get together again. I've told him I met another man ... which is partially true. I have met many other men. :twisted:

[Sputy 128]

Fascinating and interesting thread. Thank you all for sharing.

 

It took me a long time to decide to do this. I had to make sure that I was completely comfortable and that the lady would be my type - I also had to do my research -- Thank you CERB and all of you who share (Anita you're story was especially touching, I wanted to give you a (non-sexual) hug) I will share my story in the near future! As a father and devoted son, the absolutely last, last, last, last thing that I had to overcome, and my greatest fear, was that I could not live with myself if the woman felt that I was using her. That's just me. Basically, I do not believe that any sex is NSA, but when the strings have $ attached, the perspective changes and I can indulge in fantasy, if only briefly.

 

One word for why I started: Mandalay

Two words for why I will continue: Emma Alexandra

[a******s.m*****e 187]

(Anita you're story was especially touching, I wanted to give you a (non-sexual) hug)

 

Thanks, Sputy,

 

"Right back ach ya" ;)

 

" As a father and devoted son, the absolutely last, last, last, last thing that I had to overcome, and my greatest fear, was that I could not live with myself if the woman felt that I was using her. That's just me.

 

Wow, nice to be on an escort board where hobbyists don't sound like immature selfish brats in a locker room :)

 

You guys on Cerb never cease to amaze me.

 

I wish you the best Sputy, your son won the father lottery :)

[A***** A***** 510]

The American gentleman still calls and emails in an attempt to get together again. I've told him I met another man ... which is partially true. I have met many other men. :twisted:

 

Right on, I Love it:razz: I have had the same happen with a regular of mine from back in the day. I know he would walk over broken glass to see me, but it's just not there anymore:shock:

[MandalayBay 575]

Right on, I Love it:razz: I have had the same happen with a regular of mine from back in the day. I know he would walk over broken glass to see me, but it's just not there anymore:shock:

 

Tee Hee!

 

That's too funny, Angel.

 

If the American had any idea I am doing what I am doing as a result of him leaving me the money after our "loving, passionate weekend", I think he would have a heart attack and die. He is the most wholesome man in all of America and thought he was doing me a once-in-a-lifetime favour. If he only knew!

[MandalayBay 575]

Thanks, Sputy,

"Right back ach ya" ;)

 

Wow, nice to be on an escort board where hobbyists don't sound like immature selfish brats in a locker room :)

You guys on Cerb never cease to amaze me.

I wish you the best Sputy, your son won the father lottery :)

 

Sputy is one of the most amazing men on the planet. It truly was my pleasure to have the opportunity to spend time with him.

 

Ladies ... if this gentleman ever expresses interest in seeing you ... you should truly feel honoured. He is a true gentleman, a hopeless romantic and one in a million. I am a better person for knowing him!

[Sputy 128]

Sputy is one of the most amazing men on the planet. It truly was my pleasure to have the opportunity to spend time with him.

 

Ladies ... if this gentleman ever expresses interest in seeing you ... you should truly feel honoured. He is a true gentleman, a hopeless romantic and one in a million. I am a better person for knowing him!

 

:oops:

And I burp, fart and cheat on my wife. :-P Thanks for not mentioning my hideous deformities and tiny penis.

[a******s.m*****e 187]

:oops:

And I burp, fart and cheat on my wife. :-P Thanks for not mentioning my hideous deformities and tiny penis.

 

And you are obviously uncomfortable receiving compliments:)

 

We still think you are fantastic and we are fortunate for having been allowed to walk on this Earth the same century as you ;)

 

Top this LOL

[MandalayBay 575]

:oops:

And I burp, fart and cheat on my wife. :-P Thanks for not mentioning my hideous deformities and tiny penis.

 

Ummmm ... never onced burped ... never once fartted ... large, beautiful penis ... no hideous deformities ... handsome face ... he's a gem and a very humble one at that!

[A***** A***** 510]

Ummmm ... never onced burped ... never once fartted ... large, beautiful penis ... no hideous deformities ... handsome face ... he's a gem and a very humble one at that!

 

Aww I get the warm fuzzies from reading it and hell I want to find out more too:twisted:

[MandalayBay 575]

Hee Hee ... if there was a section where SPs could write reviews on the gentlemen they see, I'd definitely write about SPUTY!

[Sputy 128]

... never once fartted ...

 

Confession time: Remember that hot tub? It didn't actually have any jets!:-P

 

Hee Hee ... if there was a section where SPs could write reviews on the gentlemen they see, I'd definitely write about SPUTY!

 

You are too kind. And to all those people gagging on this, saying 'for christsake get a room already'.... I have one thing to say to you: Great Idea!:idea:

[VedaSloan 119179]

Confession time: Remember that hot tub? It didn't actually have any jets!:-P

 

 

 

You are too kind. And to all those people gagging on this, saying 'for christsake get a room already'.... I have one thing to say to you: Great Idea!:idea:

 

 

Sputy, you crack me up! I love men who can make me laugh :)

[longschlong 100]

Why did I take the plunge? Simple. I was tired of being a 22-year-old virgin.