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Ever have a favorite sp or client who you have enjoyed many soft, sensual and connecting moments with but have a burning desire to just grab her/him hard and go at it like animals but weren't sure if that style is acceptable to your temporary partner?

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Guest N***he**Ont**y

I believe your best bet would be to tell your partner what you propose before your encounter so that you are on the same wave length thus avoiding an embarrassing situation or worse they might tell you not to call back.

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Ever have a favorite sp or client who you have enjoyed many soft, sensual and connecting moments with but have a burning desire to just grab her/him hard and go at it like animals but weren't sure if that style is acceptable to your temporary partner?

 

I say go for it - as long as you're not being forceful, your partner can let you know if that type of advance isn't welcomed.

 

But I think it's fairly easy to see the signs...when giving her a passionate kiss, put your hand on the back of her head, and pull her hair a little...I know I've had moments like these, and when my partner has pulled my head back like this, he can see that naughty sparkle in my eyes which means... GO ON. Take me, hard.

 

It's not always the right moment...but when it is, who DOESN'T like a good, hard, fuck?

 

You can also just walk in and say it - "You're gorgeous, and I want to jump on you like an animal and fuck". See what she says :D

 

 

(Hahaha I'm turning myself on here, can you tell I've been off all weekend?!)

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I realize that women have a much stronger position to make this happen but I know exactly how you feel! I have a guest who came to see me a couple of times and the visits were wonderful. Great couch time, amazing foreplay and spectacular finishes but I genuinely wanted to skip the couch time with him. Our playtime was too short and I always wanted more when he left. So one night when I opened the door, I just inhaled him right there. Clothes flew and we barely made it to the playroom. Since then, we no longer have couch time, our chemistry is so intense that it isn't necessary for either of us. Lead your lady to it, get her in the mood by teasing. Take your time for a couple of visits and seduce her, it worked with me...

 

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I believe your best bet would be to tell your partner what you propose before your encounter so that you are on the same wave length thus avoiding an embarrassing situation or worse they might tell you not to call back.

 

Planning it isn't the same.

 

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I say go for it - as long as you're not being forceful, your partner can let you know if that type of advance isn't welcomed.

 

But I think it's fairly easy to see the signs...when giving her a passionate kiss, put your hand on the back of her head, and pull her hair a little...I know I've had moments like these, and when my partner has pulled my head back like this, he can see that naughty sparkle in my eyes which means... GO ON. Take me, hard.

 

It's not always the right moment...but when it is, who DOESN'T like a good, hard, fuck?

 

You can also just walk in and say it - "You're gorgeous, and I want to jump on you like an animal and fuck". See what she says :D

 

 

(Hahaha I'm turning myself on here, can you tell I've been off all weekend?!)

 

Oh boy...you're turning me on too...no-one's eyes sparkle like yours...

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Great thread....I am horny and taking notes here....my shorthand though

 

No plan, knock knock, your gorgeous, look in eyes, kiss, no couch time not psychiatrist, chemistry, lose clothes, jump like animal, that's silly, jump HER like animal, pull hair, devour, and fuck hard .... Check ;)

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This is a excellent thread i have always wanted to do this mmmmmm i wonder....:biggrin:

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Let it happen naturally and playfully so it doesn't look scripted. Alot of SPs don't like guys going from one type of mood and throw her off guard with another. And especially with porn star type bullshit fake talk. When guys start acting like that, it's a turnoff and makes me think they want to be a macho type in the sack. Start slow and work up. Add lots of dirty talk with words that aren't offensive and follow her lead. If the chemistry is right and things are going well then tell her and it should be well received.

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Sometimes you just want to step in the door, lock eyes, passionate dfk, tear off the clothes and bend her over right there in the entry way and just give it...just sayin...

 

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I realize that women have a much stronger position to make this happen but I know exactly how you feel! I have a guest who came to see me a couple of times and the visits were wonderful. Great couch time, amazing foreplay and spectacular finishes but I genuinely wanted to skip the couch time with him. Our playtime was too short and I always wanted more when he left. So one night when I opened the door, I just inhaled him right there. Clothes flew and we barely made it to the playroom. Since then, we no longer have couch time, our chemistry is so intense that it isn't necessary for either of us. Lead your lady to it, get her in the mood by teasing. Take your time for a couple of visits and seduce her, it worked with me...

 

cat

 

THAT is what I am talking about. ;-)

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Or it can also come from pms, txts or other type of conversation..., some pre teasing..., just before the encounter.., but most likely this will happen with someone you have met previously and you have built some sort of a comfort zone....

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Or it can also come from pms, txts or other type of conversation..., some pre teasing..., just before the encounter.., but most likely this will happen with someone you have met previously and you have built some sort of a comfort zone....

 

Completely agreed...too bad for the MA and/or spa limits. ;-)

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It takes two to tangle. When on the dance floor, one takes the lead. If your partner is unable to follow, you'll know and don't pressure her.

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Spontaneous is so fun but I feel u need that sign or sense that it is ok and avoid an embarrassing,awkward moment. Casually bring it up in conversation, a little fun teasing,share some stories or experiences. U both want it to be somewhat comfortable with each other before u pounce. Its real offputting when there isn't some sort of ok go for it.

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