tiger232 100 Report post Posted September 6, 2009 I just got back from Barefax, my first time at a strip club ever. I enjoyed myself, lots of beautiful ladies! I had lap dances from two different women - Megan (I think that was her name. Had a tattoo: "Sarah," her daughter's name, on her back) and Amber. I was happy with what I got, so I left them each a $5 tip. Do people usually tip? Megan is beautiful, particularly considering she has had a kid! We had a pleasant talk, and she certainly made my first lap dance a good one. Amber has a spectacular body, toned and tight. She would probably be considered a spinner. She gave me a look that just about made me melt. I'll certainly be going back to see both of these girls. Not terribly descriptive, I know, but it's almost 3am so give me a break :p Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
curious2 323 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 I've had dancers at bars in Montreal "suggest" very forcefully that I tip them above the regular $20/dance, but not here. I don't tip my lawyer, and he makes less money per hour than a girl who dances continuously! :) I like to tip the waitresses extravagently, and I rarely keep dancers for just one dance, but it seems to me that the concept of "tipping" doesn't really make sense in the case of dancers. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rick_falcon 911 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 I agree with Curious2. At $20 for 3 minutes, she has to be pretty exceptional to receive a tip. If there is one I really like, she will get multiple dances and I might then give her a tip for her to have a drink ($10 or so). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tiger232 100 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 Good points, thanks guys! I'll keep that in mind next time. I guess I was just too overwhelmed :grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JuliaOttawa 131 Report post Posted September 9, 2009 A $5 tip always makes my day just because the guy is being so thoughful. It's especially nice since I tip my DJ and bouncers, and I never have bills less than a 20 unless a guy tips me. It's certainly not obligated or the norm, but always appreciated! The only time I'd lean towards tipping being "necessary" is maybe if you kept her for just one dance. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
curious2 323 Report post Posted September 9, 2009 The only time I'd lean towards tipping being "necessary" is maybe if you kept her for just one dance. For me, if I keep a girl for just one dance, it means that I didn't like it much at all and the $20 is just the price of escaping! :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JuliaOttawa 131 Report post Posted September 9, 2009 For me, if I keep a girl for just one dance, it means that I didn't like it much at all and the $20 is just the price of escaping! :) LOL. You shouldn't take a girl for a dance if you don't like her, sweetie!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
trucido peritus lingua 2699 Report post Posted September 9, 2009 Dancers are like books. The cover may be very appealing, but only after peeling the cover do you really find out if you want to continue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
curious2 323 Report post Posted September 9, 2009 Dancers are like books. The cover may be very appealing, but only after peeling the cover do you really find out if you want to continue. Very true--combined with the fact that some people are total pushovers when it comes to pretty girls. Not that I'd know anybody with that problem personally... :-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
super hiro 100 Report post Posted September 9, 2009 I thought Megan and Amber were 2 of the 3 best looking dancers at Barefax this past weekend. You have good taste. As for tipping? I do it for exceptional service and/or the dancer has spent some time with me before or after the dances. Usually tip $10-20 and a few drinks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted September 10, 2009 It's certainly not obligated or the norm, but always appreciated! The only time I'd lean towards tipping being "necessary" is maybe if you kept her for just one dance. Gotta agree with the others. If I only keep a girl for one dance it's because I didn't think she was worth $20 for that one. I'm sure you're aware some girls don't live up to their advance billing ...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JuliaOttawa 131 Report post Posted September 10, 2009 Gotta agree with the others. If I only keep a girl for one dance it's because I didn't think she was worth $20 for that one. I'm sure you're aware some girls don't live up to their advance billing ...... Oh yes, but my comment was specifically to curious2 who I've known in real life for a year and a half :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted September 10, 2009 Oh yes, but my comment was specifically to curious2 who I've known in real life for a year and a half :) Well.... we were lovers in my dreams the other nite ......... (you and I, not c2 LOL) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
curious2 323 Report post Posted September 10, 2009 Well.... we were lovers in my dreams the other nite ......... (you and I, not c2 LOL) If it was about me I'd have to charge you! :butt: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted September 10, 2009 If it was about me I'd have to charge you! :butt: and I know that price would be steep!!! :bowdown: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bylogger 136 Report post Posted September 10, 2009 On the other hand (always a dangerous phrase on this list), if she exceeds your expectations, why not say it with a tip? Gotta agree with the others. If I only keep a girl for one dance it's because I didn't think she was worth $20 for that one. I'm sure you're aware some girls don't live up to their advance billing ...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexnonstop724 1727 Report post Posted September 10, 2009 If I take a girl to the CR, I usually like to have a quick chat especially if we are half way thru a song. I usually keep a loose count on how many dances the lady had done, but I always respect them and ask for their count. If the company was enjoyable and they kept exact or sometime lucky, lower count, I will make it up to them. The only time I don't tip is if they try to cheat, I will also ask half way after 4-5 song just to check. In the pass 10 years, I was lucky that I was always happy to tip. I have one time left a $40 dollar tip because the dancer herself counted wrong. And I have dancers who would sit and chat with me sitting on my lap without counting the songs. They usually get a big tip. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tiger232 100 Report post Posted September 11, 2009 I thought Megan and Amber were 2 of the 3 best looking dancers at Barefax this past weekend. You have good taste. As for tipping? I do it for exceptional service and/or the dancer has spent some time with me before or after the dances. Usually tip $10-20 and a few drinks. Who was the third that I missed? The short spinner brunette? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
E.D. man 691 Report post Posted September 17, 2009 To me if the dancer is aloof and her personality sucks and she dances far away, she gets 2 dances and no tips, If she dances close even sort of cuddles with me she'ii make atleast 200 with me plus a 20 tip and if she kisses me she'll get more. I usually determine after 2 dances if I will get more dances.:D:cool::) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted September 18, 2009 On the other hand (always a dangerous phrase on this list), if she exceeds your expectations, why not say it with a tip? That's a given or so I thought ... guess i should have said it tho. I have tipped way more often than not but a tip isn't earned by just showing up. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted September 18, 2009 I prefer to slide it all the way in, but sometimes I only give them the tip...it depends how bad they want it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pjrd 324 Report post Posted September 18, 2009 I prefer to slide it all the way in, but sometimes I only give them the tip...it depends how bad they want it. hahaha that bit of humour just made my day. thanks:sm185: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Salicia23 101 Report post Posted September 28, 2009 I love when guys leave tips, we get anywhere from $5-$40 sometimes and it's very much appreciated. I understand you guys not wanting to tip above the regular dance price, especially if you didn't connect with the dancer at all or enjoy yourself. But a tip is very classy and a way to show your appreciation for our hard work. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ye****y1*3 Report post Posted September 29, 2009 i tip sometimes when the girl seems genuine and gives a good dance and doesn't moan and groan like she is auditioning for a porno. i also dont tip when i say i need to quit and then the girl immediately gets all sucky....and not sucky in a good way as in sucky sucky :exagerefesses: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted September 29, 2009 seriously...if i get extras, i tip...if not, i don't Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
