What makes you want to click?

[CristyCurves 169032]

To answer a question that was asked in this thread and as someone who writes explicit ads I will attest naughtier doesn't always get more business nor does a high volume of clicks. Some of my most viewed ads got no appointments and some of my less viewed ads got lots, go figure. I post my ads with my mood at the moment, the hornier I am the more graphic my ad. Sometimes I'll take a few moments to think of something more creative but most times I'm just posting how I feel at the moment which is how I feel most comfortable, some will like others won't. C'est La Vie:)

[roamingguy 300291]

To answer a question that was asked in this thread and as someone who writes explicit ads I will attest naughtier doesn't always get more business nor does a high volume of clicks. Some of my most viewed ads got no appointments and some of my less viewed ads got lots, go figure. I post my ads with my mood at the moment, the hornier I am the more graphic my ad. Sometimes I'll take a few moments to think of something more creative but most times I'm just posting how I feel at the moment which is how I feel most comfortable, some will like others won't. C'est La Vie:)

 

But for me at least Cristy, the ad isn't the only thing I look at when considering a companion to see. A lady's posts mean a lot more. For me an encounter is much more than just sex. If only sex, a half hour is all I'd need, and I like booking multi hour encounters. BTW If I lived in the Maritimes or you lived in Ontario, I'd give you a call ;-)

And just a general question out there to the ladies, if a guy contacted a lady for an encounter and was very graphic with what he wanted from an encounter, equally graphic as a lady is in her ads, how many ladies would reply to his email. Just wondering and that question just popped into my head

A rambling

RG

[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

I am so much into the highly suggestive and sensual ads. For some reason it gets my motor going and gets me going. Cristy you are so hot and if I ever get down East you will be hearing from me!

[Guest]

Please do not direct this thread towards me because I don't want to be advertising outside of the advertising section. I just want to start a conversation about adds and what attracts you lovely cerb gentlemen to the adds. I'm more interested on your opinions about adds in general.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Please, do not hesitate to send me a pm or email if you would like to give me advice and or talk to me about this.

 

The last part is key - you really have to know what's unique about you, what you like to do, and who you want to see, then write ads with that in mind. The clearer your ads speak to who you want to see/who you appeal to, the more they will work for you. With so much to offer, you shouldn't have a problem. ;)

 

This is truly great advice. I always try to learn more, try to hear what my clients want. Since I know what type of escort I am and what type of service I provide, I just wanted to get some idea of what clients enjoy when they read the ads. I don't really need advice per say. I'm mostly curious to read what you gentlemen enjoy about ads and general opinions about ads, what makes you click the ads, is it a catchy title, song, explicit wording, ect.

 

I have always been an advocator of self confidence and presenting your true self. I love being Peachy/Val and wouldn't want it any other way. However, it's always nice to hear what you guys like and want and I think many confident businesses do fieldwork/surveys to see what brings people to their store so they know that they need to improve on things or keep things the same.

 

Personally I like to try new things, ask a lot of questions and interact with people. Being able to be creative is my favorite part of the job. I can add or take away whatever I want and I like it that way.

 

So back to the question what makes you click....

[Ironsman1 1461]

For me I don't think it really matters since I usually do my research and look at the recommendations before seeing someone. I always appreciate straight forward ads that list the services provided and availability. I am not really one to look at long detailed ads, since that's what the recos are for. It's always good to have an ad that is grammatically correct and free of typos though.

 

You are pretty well recommended so I am sure you can put Purple Monkey Dishwasher in your ad and it will still be fine :)

[livefast1098 2151]

I would tend to agree with Ironsman but don't mind when a touch of humor or cleverness is thrown in as a bonus ... You're pretty good at this by the way! ... What's important to me is to get the lady's accurate description of her physical appearance, maybe get a few pics in there, and what services she provides.

 

As one poster also mentioned, a long list of "I don't do that" comes off as a turn off to me. Not because a certain service I might want is listed but because it makes the SP sound negative and "difficult". I'd rather read: "all services provided are SAFE GFE" than read "I don't do bbbj so don't ask for it"!! Just a question of presentation!

[CristyCurves 169032]

But for me at least Cristy, the ad isn't the only thing I look at when considering a companion to see. A lady's posts mean a lot more. For me an encounter is much more than just sex. If only sex, a half hour is all I'd need, and I like booking multi hour encounters. BTW If I lived in the Maritimes or you lived in Ontario, I'd give you a call ;-)

And just a general question out there to the ladies, if a guy contacted a lady for an encounter and was very graphic with what he wanted from an encounter, equally graphic as a lady is in her ads, how many ladies would reply to his email. Just wondering and that question just popped into my head

A rambling

RG

Thank you RG and I can answer your question honestly, when men have emailed me with explicit details but also with complete info about themselves, I've responded. Professionalism +dirty details is sexy, imo. They caught my interest and made me want to see them, however if I just got an email form a random anonymous man with a bunch of explicit talk I would just ignore it. I like sessions where I can talk, get to know the man as well, it makes all the rest that much more exciting;)

 

Additional Comments:

I am so much into the highly suggestive and sensual ads. For some reason it gets my motor going and gets me going. Cristy you are so hot and if I ever get down East you will be hearing from me!

 

Well thank you! I think we would have a lot of fun, take a trip then I could take you for a long, slow ride;)

 

My suggestion to anyone writing ads, let your personality shine through, if you are a dirty talker and love it, say it;) if you are romantic, display it. If you are other or both don't be shy give it all a try:)

[Cute0aza0Button 21399]

i have noticed that the more blunt my ads are (and theyre never really all that blunt lol) the more ... the more pms i get that are obviously guys fishing. they want dity talk that they can use later lol that was tough to word

[Tsukiyo_Chevalier 3242]

To me i have always liked adds that let me know more about the person on the other side. i have never liked adds that just say 2 words followed but a bunch of group of letters that i have to look up the meaning of :)

To me an encounter is more then just what will happen in the end, i like to talk a little and at least make the lady feel that she is important and a friend at least of the few moments we are together. for this i like to feel what the lady personality is so longer adds that let me see that, help me feel more comfortable and when i email them i can to the same.

 

In the end thou at least for me, if she talks the time to do a great add it means she cares about what she is doing. and i will pm to find out more about he.

 

That being said i should say that i never base my final choice on just the add. if you like someone just talk to them to see if you will hit if off and have a good time, remember as i said the ladies are more them just and add :)

 

Have a great day all

[Guest Ot**w***og****n]

I've always found Peachy's ads to be fun, cute and tasteful. Personally, I am not a big fan of graphic ads as I enjoy subtle innuendo and being tastefully teased...just my preference.

[igab 5629]

I like a funny catch line...Emily J always posts something catchy for example but then I need the info....how to contact (including website URL)...services offered and donation required. I don't usually bother with contacting someone who looks hot but gives no info in the ad.

[andflemcol 3975]

For me, the dirty talk, blunt type ad does not do much for me. That is because I usually seek a romantic intimate gfe type session. The blunt ad suggests more of a wham bam thank you man type session. An ad that is a bit more on the conservative side is a bit more intriguing for me than an ad that says something like, "I want to fuck you till you die".

 

Having said that, I would like to receive a pm or email that will go into detail about what an sp is going to do to me once a repeat session has been arranged.

 

BTW, I am too young to die.

[Hyperion 270]

I guess one thing that needs to be considered is whether clicks are an accurate indication of potential contacts. A "hey do you want to (insert whatever here - pun intended)" might entice me to click only to see what would follow, but as others have said I am only interested in meeting someone if they can express themselves well. A smart add with some wit will make me want to click because I am interested in connecting, not just curious about how explicit the add can be.

[steveyK 4311]

I like ads that kind of stand out from the rest. As any consumer of goods would know, impulse buying is the target of ad agencies, and this board is no different. There is a product offered, and if the advertisement doesn't jump out and slap your mind, you don't click on it! So keep it up ladies, I enjoy getting mind-slapped....

[Guest c**io**m7]

For me, it depends on my mood. We are all in this to satisfy the fantasy of the day. There are days when I want a soft, sensual and passionate gfe. Those days, I research a lot of recos and, subsequently, the tone and feel of the ads. Then, there are days when I am in the mood to feel like I am starring in my own porn flick. Those days, the "come F*ck me" ads stand out.

 

That being said, more often than not, I am after the sensual experience where I feel like the sexiest and most amazing lover in the world...the centre of my chosen lady's sexual world, even if for only an hour or two. An ad that makes me believe this will be the case gets my call most often.

 

Additional Comments:

To answer a question that was asked in this thread and as someone who writes explicit ads I will attest naughtier doesn't always get more business nor does a high volume of clicks. Some of my most viewed ads got no appointments and some of my less viewed ads got lots, go figure. I post my ads with my mood at the moment, the hornier I am the more graphic my ad. Sometimes I'll take a few moments to think of something more creative but most times I'm just posting how I feel at the moment which is how I feel most comfortable, some will like others won't. C'est La Vie:)

 

 

And, dear Cristy, don't ever change...your ads tell me that you will focus on me as the epitome of passion and sensuality and, as we grow closer within the session, we will mutually turn on a dime and have a thunderous turn-about into a ravenous, animalistic display of pure "come f*ck me lust" that ends with the need for an oxygen tank and a fire hose to help battle the flames.

[Guest]

BTW, I am too young to die.

Are you sick, Hun? If so I hope you get better. Or am I misunderstanding what you are saying. Either way I hope all is well and that you are enjoying this sunny day.

[Luckyme 41401]

I think andflemcol is joking because in his post he says " An ad that is a bit more on the conservative side is a bit more intriguing for me than an ad that says something like, "I want to fuck you till you die".

 

Obviously, he doesn't want to be F*..ed by a SP till he dies, lol.

[Guest]

Lmfao, I get it now. Peachy, slaps head. I didn't know why he was saying he was too young to die. Thanks, lucky me for explaining it to me. I was really worried that he was sick, lol.

 

Can you imagine, death by pussy. I have all kinds of death by pussy images in my head now, the possibilities, he, he, he.

 

[castle 38816]

I see a lot of guys here are going for the politically correct answer....but if I'm going to be honest....typically, yeah, the explicit ad headers will catch my eye more. And I'll be more likely to click on those. But that's me. I'm really into dirty talk so those types of ads are a turn on for me. And my not-so-subconscious "perv eye" will automatically gravitate towards certain "dirty" words.

 

That being said, I won't book with an SP just based on the ad though. I'm really picky when it comes to the ladies I spend time with. I check numerous recommendations/reviews (both here and on "other" sites). I also check other posts by the lady on a variety of topics to try and get a good idea of her personality and see if we would mesh well or not. Also will check her website (if she has one) to see what kind of services she provides. Just because she uses dirty words and terms in her ads doesn't mean she's into the same kinds of services I am. (I have a penchant for the dirtier "PSE" types of encounters).

 

All that being said, I can literally count on one hand the number of times a year I usually see a SP. And I typically always see the same 2 or 3 SP's. So really....at this point I pretty much just check the other ads more out of boredom or habit than anything else.

 

My long winded way of explaining that yes, the explicit ads may get more views, but that doesn't necessarily mean that the ladies are getting more calls. If you're style of ad is more reserved and discreet, and if that's what you are comfortable with and if that's what is working for you so far....then I say don't change. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

 

It's completely up to you how you want to portray yourself, and you shouldn't let others' ads or how many views they have influence you in any way. Best thing you can do is try and portray yourself as honestly as possible (as much as you can in this lifestyle anyway lol). Potential clients will pick up on the authenticity of your ad and will respond to that.

[andflemcol 3975]

Lmfao, I get it now. Peachy, slaps head. I didn't know why he was saying he was too young to die. Thanks, lucky me for explaining it to me. I was really worried that he was sick, lol.

 

Can you imagine, death by pussy. I have all kinds of death by pussy images in my head now, the possibilities, he, he, he.

 

Thanks Luckyme for setting the record straight. Yes, my comment about being too young to die was my attempt at humour.

 

Thanks also to Peachy for showing concern for my well being. I am doing well.

 

Hmmmm "death by pussy" .... Not a bad way to go out when your time is up I say.

 

Cheers to all.

[Guest]

Thanks Luckyme for setting the record straight. Yes, my comment about being too young to die was my attempt at humour.

 

Thanks also to Peachy for showing concern for my well being. I am doing well.

 

Hmmmm "death by pussy" .... Not a bad way to go out when your time is up I say.

 

Cheers to all.

 

That was an extra special Peachy moment for sure.

 

Let's celebrate more blonde moments with a video.

 

Now that I know that no one's dyeing. What makes you want to click, lol.

[JackShagsJill 225]

Well, most guys would say sense of humour, but I have to be honest and say...

 

Tits!! ...and Ass!! ...and Services!! :-P hehe

 

(Oh, and yeah - humour doesn't hurt either I guess ;-) )

[HobbyistinOttawa69 100]

Pictures are generally what makes me click on them but equally true are the words or abreviations such as bbbj, LFK, and PSE that i like for service.