How do you feel about porn?

[Guest webothscore]

Well, only because I saw the thread, I am in the mood. Thx a lot shaved ;)

[roamingguy 300292]

If I'm seeing a lady, we should be focused (and are ;-) ) on each other not on a porn movie. I know I want to be looking and interacting with the lady (a real three dimensional lady) that came to visit me, not some ladies on tv that are two dimensional.

But that's me

 

RG

[Brad 49548]

Now, what works for everyone will of course be different, but I continue to be surprised by the tone of some of the posts that imply porn can surely only take away from the interaction and experience with the lady in the room.

 

Try thinking of it this way...

 

If a lady is wearing sexy lingerie, would you feel that you're distracted by it and worry all your attention would somehow only be on the clothes and not the person?

 

What about drinking wine? Playing sensual music playing in the background? Lighting candles? Would you say that spending a moment savoring the taste, listening to the melody, or watching the flickering glow take your senses away from the lady?

 

I'm guessing instead you are thinking that such things in fact can help enhance the experience, offer a type of connection, or accentuate the lady rather than distract from her. You can look at underwear, drink wine, listen to music, or light candles on your own, but are they not a different experience when shared or made part of an experience?

 

Now, what works for each person will of course be different. Obviously for many the idea of watching something erotic with a partner or just having it play in the background takes away from the experience and mood they wish to have. Let me be clear that I'm not trying to change anyone's mind on what they like or don't like.

 

What I am hoping to suggest here is that you can at least see the other point of view, and recognize how for some the idea can be fun, sexy, and in the right circumstances potentially add to the experience with the lady, not distract from it. That it can work or not work just like any other sensual aid or toy is either enjoyed or not enjoyed depending on the person or the mood.

[roamingguy 300292]

Now, what works for everyone will of course be different, but I continue to be surprised by the tone of some of the posts that imply porn can surely only take away from the interaction and experience with the lady in the room.

 

Try thinking of it this way...

 

If a lady is wearing sexy lingerie, would you feel that you're distracted by it and worry all your attention would somehow only be on the clothes and not the person?

 

What about drinking wine? Playing sensual music playing in the background? Lighting candles? Would you say that spending a moment savoring the taste, listening to the melody, or watching the flickering glow take your senses away from the lady?

 

I'm guessing instead you are thinking that such things in fact can help enhance the experience, offer a type of connection, or accentuate the lady rather than distract from her. You can look at underwear, drink wine, listen to music, or light candles on your own, but are they not a different experience when shared or made part of an experience?

 

Now, what works for each person will of course be different. Obviously for many the idea of watching something erotic with a partner or just having it play in the background takes away from the experience and mood they wish to have. Let me be clear that I'm not trying to change anyone's mind on what they like or don't like.

 

What I am hoping to suggest here is that you can at least see the other point of view, and recognize how for some the idea can be fun, sexy, and in the right circumstances potentially add to the experience with the lady, not distract from it. That it can work or not work just like any other sensual aid or toy is either enjoyed or not enjoyed depending on the person or the mood.

 

I don't think it's a case of anyone saying what is right or wrong. Each person is sharing what is right for him/her. That doesn't mean they (me included) are saying watching porn is wrong, just that it's not right for me

 

RG

[Guest *Ste***cque**]

Yeah, I was kinda sensing a slight undertone of disapproval with using porn to heighten things during a session in a number of posts. Not all... cristy's post comes to mind. Naughty girl. ;)

 

Good points, Brad. How is porn quietly playing in the background different from mood lighting, mood music, erotic lingerie and high heels. All are good to stimulate the senses. Porn seems to be thought of differently. I'm still curious about that.

 

I don't want to change anyone's opinion either. No ones preference is wrong, or should I say not right? To each their own.