fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted January 21, 2010 No to the original scenario. Yes to a doctor checkup. The sleeping alot is the meds, and depression, as is the apathy, not laziness, so that's why I say doctor checkup. Yes to set up with a job -- the guy can volunteer and help others if nothing paying comes up. Makes it easier to have references and experiences for a paying job too. If, at the end of that, you still want to inspire him sexually, I would suggest a straight up approach, probably at a massage place where you can both go and fs is not on the menu. Since we are not sure what he can or cannot do due to the meds, etc, then going into a full on fs is a mistake, whether he knows it is an sp or not. The stress to perform, if unable, is not going to make him a happy camper. :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
