Specific male... Fetish??

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

With an increase in public awareness about the cuckold and "hotwife" lifestyles, I have seen an increased trend in men being aroused at the thought of either their wives having sex with other men -- or sleeping with them after they have slept with another man. For some men it's the idea of a bigger cock than theirs. For others it doesn't seem to matter.

 

My question is -- how many hobbyists find it arousing having a woman after she's had sex with another man? Does the idea excite or repulse you? Or would you rather not think about it?

 

I'm looking forward to hearing your responses :)

[Guest o**aw***out]

I would not like this, I guess there is a fear that she might say, yeah I am going home with this guy, bye!!!. Funny thing is, I would be the guy to fuck the others wife!. Double standard much!

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Well I'm one that would actually enjoy seeing my SO fucked by another man and she's been informed so. Sexually, I don't have many hangups and take a more of a if it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone do it attitude.

 

As far as having sex with her right after she's had sex with another? Sure as long as she still has the desire to do so! MMF scenarios can be super fun too. As far as her being fucked by a bigger cock sure that'd be cool too as long as he knows how to use it and gives her ultra pleasure that she might not typically get from my "normal" cock.

 

Cheers

[Toper 635]

Hi Savannah

 

Interesting question.

 

I can't say I'm all that interested in playing the Cuckold ...but being a Bull well that would have it benefits!

 

Personally I find it exciting when others find my partner attractive, as long as the attention isn't crass or too obvious.

 

Having said that, the idea of having sex with someone after they've had sex with someone else, especially if they've got cum inside or on them has always been a fantasy of mine.

 

Toper

[fiskaa 2600]

Well it certainly doesn't repulse me....I find it exciting to hear about a woman's sexual adventures recent or not and to have her while she is still very aroused from a recent encounter would most definitely be a turn on.....a MMF session would also be an exciting proposition given the right participants.

[Guest]

It's a total fantasy to be an exobishionist. I love to have someone watching while someone else is well... Something that I got out of a video is, I have experienced all of my darkest fantasies, have you? Wrong, right, I don't care because I do what's right for me. I'm sure people who do want to experience this are fine with it and that's all that matters. I guess you figured that I love, love, love this.

 

[Ice4fun 78396]

Very interesting thread topic....

 

In regards to my wife I don't think I have every thought about her having sex with someone else... She is not that sexually adventurous and as far as I know I was her first and only. Nothing about her being with someone else excites me.

 

In regards to SP'S that I have seen I think my range of interests and what excites me has been dramatically expanded. I never really thought about an SP being with someone else but now regularly think about her multiple partners or seeing how others bring her pleasure. Would I want to watch her with another man... before I would have said no now I just might say maybe. It's not a burning desire but not a turn off either. Lol

 

[Guest c**io**m7]

Called me old fashioned I guess. I would rather not think about it. MMF has been mentioned and I was recently asked by a SP to join her and her bf for pleasurable DP...I had to decline. It just isn't my thing.

[Guest]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5BMI7SsbII

 

This rants seems so appropriate for this thread right now. You may not like what other people do or may not feel comfortable with what other people do. However, those people are happy with their decisions. As long as they are happy and not hurting anyone. It is up to us to accept that these people are in our world. Different is not necessarily bad or something "they" should change but maybe something "me" or "you" should change. I think that everyone should feel comfortable and happy with the choices they choose providing they are not hurting anyone. Black/White, Straight/Gay, right/wrong, it is up to each person and their law to determine this. I think we as a society can be open to different ideas, even if they are not right for "me"/"you". ???

[Guest *l**e]

It's funny you mention this. I've noticed in the past several months a huge increase in the number of men that are hiring me to massage their wives while they watch. It's been quite a drastic rise actually.

They want to watch me massage and pleasure their wives, then they often have fun with her once I am finished my job.

Not sure what is behind this trend.

[Guest P*rry]

I'd rather not think about it.

[Guest S****r]

An expected delight has been discovered by me at our poly parties--seeing another couple next to you or in the same room, having sex--hearing their moans and noises, looking over and seeing their passion--has only served to heighten the eroticism for me. We have started referring to it as "live porn!" We all love it.

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

I agree Summer, but that's not the same as what I'm referring to. I'm talking about men who want their woman's pussy stretched out by another man prior to having intercourse with them. That thinking about a woman having had another cock inside them before theirs is a huge turn on. Etc. It isn't simply about watching :) xo

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Oh......I slightly misunderstood......I don't specifically have that "fetish" with regards to wanting her "stretched out" before I do my thing. The idea of watching her pleasured by another man excites me though.

 

Now that it's been mentioned I also have noticed an increase in guys/couples seeking this out on other posting boards herr in NL specifically.

[kmwq 5477]

Doesn't do anything for me. Don't think about it and no desire to live it.

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

The recent volume of porn productions along the category of "cuckolding" is quite different to the responses we are getting thus far. To my understanding porn companies work for profit and the only motive is "demand = profit".

 

This is one of the questions where I don't think that one could get "reflective" answers for in an open forum for variety of reasons.

[Guest]

An expected delight has been discovered by me at our poly parties--seeing another couple next to you or in the same room, having sex--hearing their moans and noises, looking over and seeing their passion--has only served to heighten the eroticism for me. We have started referring to it as "live porn!" We all love it.

 

This is a great description. That's how I feel about this too. This just gets me hot thinking about it. I love watching, playing, touching, being watched. All of these things as a whole is why I like this kind of fun. It's about heightening the senses, touch, sight smell. I feel it's like a ffm duo except a little different. It's so much fun to explore.

 

I agree Summer, but that's not the same as what I'm referring to. I'm talking about men who want their woman's pussy stretched out by another man prior to having intercourse with them. That thinking about a woman having had another cock inside them before theirs is a huge turn on. Etc. It isn't simply about watching :) xo

 

I guess I miss understood you too Savannah. I thought you were talking about more of a mmf type of situation and not specifically the stretching of the vagina?

 

I can't imagine the vagina being terribly stretched after another man has been in it but I can be wrong. I guess it could be about the stretching of the calamahouchi but I always thought this situation was about so much more.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

It could be a function of men just not genuinely understanding a ladies tender parts. Although a lady might be able to accommodate more when she's been properly warmed up it's not a matter of stretching anything just relaxing it. Those parts are very resilient stretch wise.

 

Hey, whatever gets your motor running and if thats the idea that your woman might be stretched loose by a massive cock before you play with her then.....giddy up.

[Guest S****r]

calamahouchi??

Lol

 

Yes I misunderstood, too.

I once had a client tell me that he had hoped I had been with other guys before him that same day cause he loved the idea of going in after other guys. Maybe this is something similar. Though he didn't make reference to stretching out.

 

"This is a great description. That's how I feel about this too. This just gets me hot thinking about it. I love watching, playing, touching, being watched. All of these things as a whole is why I like this kind of fun. It's about heightening the senses, touch, sight smell. I feel it's like a ffm duo except a little different. It's so much fun to explore.

 

Peachy, maybe you should join one of our parties sometime!

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

hotwife

A married woman she has sexual relations with other men, with the husbands approval. Usually while the husband watches or joins.

"Mary is a hotwife, not only does she look great, but she loves to screw other men."

 

cuckold

A submissive husband with a wife who takes on alpha-male lovers whereby the wife's sexual pleasures become the husband's vicarious sexual pleasures and experiences.

"The cuckold husband developed an erection as his imagination ran wild with sexual thoughts during the preparation of drinks for his wife and her new lover."

 

Add this to the plethora of "share my wife" porns, or porn about men cleaning creampies from their wifes pussy, and there's obviously something to this fetish :)

 

I find it interesting, and was merely curious how it may apply in the world of escorting. Whether clients enjoyed thinking about an escort having been with other men, or if they'd rather be first, or rather not think about it at all... Etc. :)

[theliquor (Lost but not fo 50595]

Having been involved in a couple of the early poly parties here in Ottawa, I found it very hot to be involved with a lady after a Mumford session, even hotter after a FFm session !

Everyone has senses that are so heightened, a little lick is responded to with a moan or a squirt!

Awesome! Always count me in!

[Guest P**aq]

I have to say in all honesty that it's not for me. But for those of you turned on by it, all the power to you :)

[Guest]

Well, as far as having a cuckold fantasy in escorting, yes, I think it can be done. I don't think it can be as invasive as porn for example: cleaning some guys cum from the escorts vagaina(creampie). As an escorts health is priority and having sex without condoms is not an option.

 

I still see you asking about an experience as a whole and not specifically the stretching of the vagina. The stretching of the vagina can possible be part of the experience or can even be the reason why some want to try this experience. However, I think it's just a variable rather that a whole part of something.

 

Here's a great article.

 

From what I understand the vagina can be in a relaxed state during sex. So I can understand "stretched" in that type of sense. Having another man get his woman "wet", excited, or "stretched" for him.

 

With that being said, I think the people take part in these type of scenarios for various reasons. I'm interested to read what the men have to say about this.