Chanel Monroe 150 Report post Posted June 13, 2014 hello ladies & gents, I'm new to the business, and before this my sex life was very mundane. Please don't be mistaken, I do have a high sex drive. I'm 20 years old, and still haven't had an orgasm/climax. Does anyone have any tips or tricks, that can help me?? I feel like I'm missing out !! I hope this isn't too much information, but I've squirted a bunch of times. I was told that squirting and climaxing are not the same thing. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted June 14, 2014 hello ladies & gents, I'm new to the business, and before this my sex life was very mundane. Please don't be mistaken, I do have a high sex drive. I'm 20 years old, and still haven't had an orgasm/climax. Does anyone have any tips or tricks, that can help me?? I feel like I'm missing out !! Chanel, I would start with a lot of physical self exploration alone (when you are in a relaxed mood and feeling horny ;)). Learn to know your body and what excites you the most (soft or hard, slow or fast touches (clitorial and/or vaginal and/or anal) and the different combinations), etc... Just let yourself go (mentally and physically) and enjoy the moment. You might not be able to orgasm at first but I bet practice makes perfect ;) It will be that much easier when sharing intimate moments wih a partner and guiding him towards your pleasure. Good luck and have fun :) 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *l**e Report post Posted June 14, 2014 I agree completely. It is very difficult for a man to help a woman to orgasm if the woman doesn't know what works for her. Practice makes perfect...practice is also super fun, by the way!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinister 170 Report post Posted June 28, 2014 Sounds like a challenge to me ;) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **oo**e Report post Posted June 29, 2014 Try a We-vibe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jafo105 39057 Report post Posted June 29, 2014 Have you tried a Magic Bullet vibrator for your clit? OR Have you tried running water on your private parts in the bath tub? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FunValerie 8573 Report post Posted June 29, 2014 Vibrators are truly a woman's best friend. Vibrators are at your service 24/7. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweet Emily J 172062 Report post Posted June 29, 2014 I agree that self-exploration is the way to go! :) Here is my favourite sex-positive website, which has lots of great reading material about this exact issue, (and every other sexual topic under the sun): http://dodsonandross.com/topic/how-orgasm. I've linked you to a specific section called "How to Orgasm" filled with tonnes of info for people just like you who are in search of the ever-elusive orgasm. This is definitely an obstacle that you can overcome! Have fun! ;) :aol_diddle: 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest D***el B***e Report post Posted July 9, 2014 Have you tried Daniel Boone? ... lol lol sorry I couldn't resist! lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted July 9, 2014 Great suggestions. I think water pressure using a hand held shower head works great. You can drain your water tank having fun. Keep exploring. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
luvsyofap 215 Report post Posted July 10, 2014 One thing to have is a lot of patience. You're not going to get right the first time, but eventually you will get an orgasm. Most likely when you least expect it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BootyLoving 2441 Report post Posted July 14, 2014 This thread demands an update! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest k *** t***n Report post Posted July 14, 2014 Ooh when I first started pleasuring myself I had never even heard of lubricant...id always just lick my fingers lmao! So id definitely recommend some lubrication/baby oil, and a lot of rubbing and grinding. I cant get off unless I rub my clit. Imagine the most amazing fantasy, the thoughts that ran through your head with a first kiss or the crush you had as a little girl, the secret things you always wanted someone to do to you... Sometimes id try too hard when I was younger and would just get frustrated. To battle that id put my ipod on and listen to some really nice tunes, it took my mind off the fear of not getting to go and I was able to :) Also sometimes watching some good pornos can be fun too its human nature to get turned on by others sexual play I find and it always helped me :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
toklat77 4616 Report post Posted July 14, 2014 One of the best ways for a woman to orgasm in my opinion is to have her pussy slowly and gently licked by an experienced tongue! It has been one of my greatest pleasures to lick a woman's pussy and bring her to orgasm when she has never had one before! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ATasteOfEve Report post Posted July 16, 2014 Invest in a Magic Wand. Available at your nearest sex shop. You won't be sorry ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gurney 100 Report post Posted July 19, 2014 Hum, first post here, I don't know much but, she said she was able to squirt. So ladies, when you squirt, don't you have an orgasm ? regards Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aragorn 100 Report post Posted June 20, 2015 lubricant is awesome; toys can be fun as well.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
