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I know we have heard it befor about keeping phone numbers. I would just ask to please not text out of the blue asking if I want to see you I'm sure it goes for most Cerbites. I saw a lady three weeks ago I was getting ready Friday to go away and my phone went off it was the lady asking if I wanted to stop by for some fun. I know some guys have more than one phone but no matter I don't think it is appropriate to out of the blue text looking for a date. If you cant respect our privacy how can we respect yours with a text like this it makes me feel that there is desperation in the text. When there is desperation makes me wonder for what reason. So as I said in title just a reminder to please not text unsolicated dates for me it will have me add you to the DO NOT SEE AGAIN LIST

First before I add anything, I wanted to apologize to Nicolette for the delay of getting this rec out. We were able to see each other last week, I waited until she confirmed to myself she was okay with me writing a rec. The boxes ticked off above were services that I was lucky enough to engage with Nicolette, you will notice that I checked off YMMV. She is 5'3'' and does carry her weight very well, and she has the most delicious 38 DD's. She is very much so "a voluptous sexy woman" with beautiful soft white skin, and very attractive ;) Here is a picture of Nicolette, and I can ensure she is very attractive, and everything you read in her latest ad is correct. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=28632 We chatted through pm's here on CERB first, we made an appointment prior to any of her pictures being uploaded on here, and prior to her making an announcement she was back from a 4 month break.Now what a thrill for a man to have a very responsive sexy woman, that has come back from a 4 month hiatus. We even talked on the phone prior to our meeting and she has 1 very sexy voice. Nicolette's voice could be 1 of those ladies that could sell you anything on the phone. When we first met, we got introductions out of the way, gave each other a kiss and hug hello. Nicolette was wearing high heels,black sweater and slacks, her long beautiful hair was smelling so fresh, her lips were red and pouty. We brought some refreshments to the room, she put on some really nice music,the fan in the room was blowing some chilled air around, so it was quite comfortable. We sat on the edge of the bed and started to chat, kiss, chat,kiss, chat then DFK, then some nice rubbing, feeling, deeper sensual kisses, and we both laid down on the bed still clothed and making out like teenagers. I can hear the high heels hit the floor, I can feel her getting hot, and getting very aroused, and soon she took off her pants, it was not long before we were both naked. The chilled air and fan operating made the sensual time, even more like sensual lovers as we got under the sheet and started to explore each other from head to toe. Nicolette was away from the biz for 4 months or so, and I don't know if she was sexual active during that time, but all I got to say, "WOW" was she ever very responsive:69: We ensured that both of us were completey satisfied with almost 45 minutes of foreplay, when she said "I want to feel you inside me" We made passionate love, after we were both having the "O" factor, we got to chat and stroke each other and kiss, she said "I could stay here all day and kiss you" Wow that certainly was a very nice compliment and thanks Nicolette. It was not long that I had to get dressed and head on my way. Nicolette had always intrigued myself over the time here on CERB, formerly known as Alexa Taylor (over 400 + posts) I was never able to get a chance to meet her as Alexa. Perhaps this was much better, new face for me, new name and fresh start for her and I was very pleased to be her first (I think) as the new "Nicolette Vaughn" Thanks Nicolette I will be seeing you again.

It seems there are mixed opinions on the email thing. I occasionally email a client I've seen within 1-3 days of meeting to thank them for coming by and let them know that I enjoyed their company. I guess this is unsolicited, but it has always been appreciated (to my knowledge).

I plan to add a FAQ area on Lyla for posting etiquette and I wanted to ask our seasoned members if they have anything to add before I post it. Posting etiquette (Some for clients, some for providers, some for both) 1 ) Do not discuss providers' rates (unless you are the provider or agency doing the posting) 2 ) Do not comment on a service providers rates being too expensive or cheap! 3 ) Do not discuss street walkers 4 ) Please use discretion! Do not discuss drug use, illegal activities, violent acts and anything that would bring unwanted attention to someone, some business or our community here on Lyla. If you are aware of a illegal activity taking place you should contact the police (not post it here) as posting it here brings unwanted attention to Lyla! 5 ) Do not fight or flame anyone (this includes flaming the lurkers or low post count guys and includes fighting with each other in the PM system) 6 ) Do not spread rumors! 7 ) If you have a problem with another member bring it to the attention of the mod and DO NOT post about it in public. 8 ) Do not post a provider's personal info such as addresses or share this info in a PM unless you are the provider. You risk her safety if you do this! 9 ) Do not ask for prices of providers from other members (you should ask them directly) 10 ) Before you post a recommendation for a provider you should ask her for permission and you should ask her for permission to put one of her photos on the recommendation as well. 11 ) Do not post ads to sell products on the site (free ads are for sex workers, massage spas, etc... not toys, web design, etc...) If you wish to promote a different product or service PM the mod first as we may have banners available. 12 ) Do not post links to porn sites 13 ) Do not use the site to complain about a service provider or post negative reviews! 14 ) Keep the site positive and fun! If you have an issue before posting it take a breath and think "Is it a positive contribution to the site?" if the answer is no... it's most likely not welcome! Additional Comments: If you disagree with a decision a moderator has made, you can PM one of us about it (not post publicly about it).

I had weird situations that I do not want to experience again, with people I did'nt knew... Drunk, punk, or junk, everything's out there for us... We need to protect ourselves, including refferences... Please, there's no such insult of being hung up after asking for a CERB handle... I need to know who you are, so I can feel safe and confident to offer you the best services...

been fortunate that i nor any one close to me has had the need for cheo , but i hate to think of what the people of this community would have to go through without it . how can you see the children or the pain in their parents faces as they relate their stories and not want to help .

Good point Pete! I added it above 10) Before you post a recommendation for a lady you should ask her for permission and you should ask her for permission to put one of her photos on the recommendation as well.

Saira Lauren from Candygurlz and Carmella69. Amazing legs and bum!

I may be one of the rare escorts who never asks for references. I was escorting long before the internet came into being never mind having such communities online where you could even consider this. I go completely by my gut and it has never steered me wrong.. even learned when I have a weird feeling but I was curious anyway.. that my gut was right about being dumb about accepting an appt. Know what I mean? Anyway.. newbies by all means book with me and I'll be your reference. I'm happy to give them but never require them. I see a lot of first timers.. if no-one sees them without a reference how are they supposed to get started??? Girls who are adamant about getting references have to remember that someone had to see them first :) FYI.. not to scare anyone but I had a long term regular client that indeed had an sp get jealous on him when he saw her sp roomate.. and called his wife so it does happen! I do however only accept new appts with a number I can verify.. why? because if you no-show I will keep your # in my phone so you can't pull it on me a 2nd time.

Jim, you said in your post that you were afraid to establish a relationship with a service provider for fear of affecting your career, or home life. What you need to remember, is that these women are professionals. It would not be to their advantage to interfere in your life. You would very quickly find that their client base would disappear. Further more the type of relationship is different. A relationship with an sp, while it may be affectionate (and it's nice when it is) is not and has never been intended to be permanent. I think if you enjoy the variety, then you should continue playing the field, but don't let fear stop you from repeating if you find some one you're particularly attracted to. For myself, mostly because I have special needs due to disability, if I find some one I like I tend to be a repeat client.

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I don't understand- why not provide your CERB handle? Sometimes I get phone calls that just say a phone number and nothing, or else "hi, it's *bob*, call me". I don't even know if they're calling for me, there's no way I'm going to return that message. I'm also not going to provide my address to some random guy that calls my phone. I know, of course, there's risks involved for you men, but it doesn't even come close to the risks that we SPs face so I think a little give and take is only fair.