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How are you all doing? My 25th birthday night is coming up really Soon. I am truly exited about this birthday because Soleil is making the 4 hour trip, to come out and spend my birthday night with me. She is such a nice lady. the two of us have been talking about this for awhile. Soleil, will be coming to see me on November 1st. My Actual birthday is on the 2nd, But Soleil wants to be the 1st person, to wish me a happy 25th birthday :) Isn't she the sweetest? she is so great. I have a very difficult life, and I do not get to have fun very often. Getting to see Soleil Again is going to be possibly the best birthday ever, for me She is going to be a very nice present for me :) this is going to be very special for me because, this is going to be only the 2nd time in my life, that I will be having relations. both times are going to are going to be/have been with Soleil. This is very specal to me because me haing a disability, I have a lot of special needs. With Soleil having visted me one already, she understands me and my situation, very well. with her showing so much compassion and having such a big heart, this is going to make the night spatacular. plus the fact that she is very, very good @ what she does does not hurt ether:) With her staying the whole night with me, is is great. there are several reasons for this. 1.we get to spend a nice amount of time together 2. with me not being able to walk, i have to use a lift to be transferred from my chair, to another place. i.e.-my bed. this takes time, but we will not have to rush, because we have a lot of time. this way we can enjoy ourselves to the fulliset, without any time restraints. 3. As I fall asleep that night, I can be held in her arms. This is a great feealing for me. Soleil is so nice and caring, that while we are dozing off to dreamland in each others arms, I will not have a disability, I will just be a person. Anyway, I truly lookinf forward to my upcoming birthday with Soleil. it is 2 weeks today, till our night together :)

I apologize if this seems like a bit of a hijack but I saw this thread and had to comment. I wish people who demonize this profession could read this thread. Here's a situation where undoubtedly a great guy, Big Al, is afflicted with a disability that unfortunately in our superficial world, many people cannot see past. So what happens, in steps a woman who is not only beautiful on the outside but more importantly, beautiful on the inside (this is what I tell my daughter all the time) who brings him the happiness we all deserve. While I in no way can compare my situation to Big Al's, over the past 8 years since my divorce I've faced my share of challenges and at times loneliness. During some of those times I've had the luck to spend some time with some of Winnipeg's fine SP's and if only for a short time, they made me feel like someone deserving the company of a beatiful lady. Anyway, Happy Birthday Al. I know you'll have great one and to Soleil, you are proof that angels walk amongst us. Cheers

Personally, I think "poly" is the wrong term to use to name these events, but it's a minor quibble. Additionally, since when are gangbangs or other orgies not organized, with boundaries outlined beforehand? I'm pretty sure people don't just fall into these things. Although, there was that one time.... ;) Basically the groupsex social is a meet n' greet similar to the CERB social, but it may involve persons leaving to engage in the 'party' aspect.

I've never had to do this myself but I know other ladies who have....Try and find a condo or apartment that is a sublet. There are people out there in positions where they have to get rid of their apartment quickly. Then you only have to deal with them. If they get a good vibe that you are a person of good character and have first and last month's rent, you may be in luck. You can always try looking on kijiji and search under "sublet". Another way is to find a condo owner who rents privately. They will most likely want you to sign a one year lease but if they forgo the credit check and see you're a decent person with first and last month's rent, you win. If you aren't employed elsewhere, try and get someone to vouch for you by writing a letter of employment with the company's letterhead on top. This letter is always a good tool to have when hunting for an apartment. Preferably the person writing this letter should be someone you know ( i.e. a bf, longtime regular client) and state how much you make either monthly or yearly. They should also be in a position to do this for you without any consequences on their end.. meaning not losing their job. They could own their own small business, etc. Good luck!

Give me 20 bucks and I'll give you some financial advice about hobbying :) Seriously, just like the OLGC slogan, play within your limits. If your budget only allows for one or two encounters a month then save up and make your choices wisely. Being part of this board and participating in this community is a wise investment of your time if money is not as fluid as you would like. The resources of the both the ladies and the gents here are priceless.