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It's not just BDSM that can go wrong this way: every aspect of sex (and other things in life) can collapse and tumble into that yawning chasm between expectation and practical reality. For virgins, it's sex, period: it's supposed to go wonderfully and smoothly like in all the movies, but in reality knees and elbows and things start getting in the way. You lean on her long hair and she can't lift her head. You find out you can't actually bend that way, or you're not quite coordinated enough to do THIS and THAT at the same time. It can be frustrating, disappointing, and spoiled. Even for the experienced, it happens commonly with fetishes. Like simple sex is for the virgin, a fetish is an obsession nursed for a lifetime before that moment, with little scenarios lived and re-lived countless times in the fetishist's imagination. You can bring a partner somewhat up to speed with good communication, but some parts of what a fetishist is after can remain mystifying and really, even the most caring partner is unlikely to match the detailed script and knowing ease of fantasy partners. It's something that has to be learned over time, and adapted to fit REAL people instead of fantasies. BDSM falls into the same zone as fetishes of course: it's intimacy carried out in the context of dense symbols and deep, subconscious triggers and meanings. And the solution is the same here as it is for virgins, or fetishists: take it slow, build up an understanding (for you and your partner) of how things really work, and start to adapt your expectations to match what you're learning in real life. Eventually, you build a bridge from your side outward as you acquire practical experience. And you build a bridge from the other side towards you, as you adapt your idealized expectations and incorporate some of the new and exciting real-world stuff you've learned. I think you're bang on, Samantha, that your client was too heavily invested in the other side of the chasm: how things SHOULD be, in an elaborate scenario he had fixed in his mind but wasn't equipped to act out yet. There was no line connecting that, with his present self. Some things you need to LEARN, and can't just do at the drop of a hat. You've gotta take it in little steps until the gap closes from both sides of that gulf.* I've been lucky enough to have eased gently into many of my favourite little pet fantasies, and got all the way to the deep end after a few sessions, with some talented and insightful SPs. Not so much luck through the decades when I've tried things in my "real" relationships, though. * I'm reminded of a friend who, when she had her first child, was distraught that she didn't "get" how to breast-feed the instant she first held her infant son. She figured it out of course, but it didn't happen in that dreamy, effortless perfection that she imagined it would go. This is an issue with LOTS of things besides sex. It's a problem most especially in things that are heavily charged with meaning for us, whatever those things may be.

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Or her bum, eh Cato? It is a beauty. I must chip in my fond sentiments for Michelle MA as well. I saw her several times, but in all honesty, not nearly enough (and I'm kicking myself for missed opportunities now). She was the full package: great massage, beautiful body, and wonderful personality. I always left her place feeling well taken care of and real good inside and out.

No my dear it is not, and has been up several times. If you look closely you will see it is a hand on a computer mouse. teehee Gotcha!

I have never been to a private club but I doubt very much that any place requires you to hand over your drivers license or some sort of ID to prove who you are. I suspect you get some type of member ID Card or something and I bet they have 100's of members named John Smith. Maybe I am wrong in assuming this but logic says many guys would be uncomfortable giving out legal full names for a membership to a place like this. Now I don't know for sure but I think calling (or going down to chat with) Jasime or any other club would be a better choice. Find out first hand what the policies are, how information is stored, etc... I bet it's a lot like your membership here on cerb. You have an alias (If you choose to have one) and no id is required but you are still a member.

Winning the case, in the medium term (I don't think there *is* a short term here). If that's at the SCC level, great. But even if it's won at the Ontario level and not appealed, that'd be a powerful precedent elsewhere. Assuming, of course, that it goes the right way (and given that round one already has, I'd presume that's not entirely a pipe-dream), a ruling that the marginalizing of a group of people and making it more dangerous to engage in a lawful activity is a Bad Thing, even if you don't approve of their career choices. And the ball will be very much back in the politicans' court. The question, of course, is what happens then. You seem - if I've understood you correctly - to be of the opinion that Harper will still be PM and that he'll act reasonably swiftly to simply outlaw the exchange of any sort of sexual services for money, as well as anything related to that. I agree that Harper may well still be in power by the time the SCC rules on this (assuming, of course, that it hears the case) - but he might well be looking at an election in the not-too-distant future (hopefully he won't just have won another) and probably won't want to take on a potentially divisive issue. In fact, regardless of who's in power, I don't think any politicians would want to take this on; they do tend to be a fairly spineless bunch and more concerned with not losing votes than with gaining them, which means that unless there's a broad cross-party consensus - which there isn't here, I don't think - the really hard debates, like this one, tend to get ducked entirely. This would mean that the eventual court ruling would simply be left to stand. And if Harper wants to please his base and start a real fight, he's always got abortion law to go at. So, there you go. This is, of course,, merely my own guesswork and speculation. But hell, it's interesting to speculate...

Just as a general point... any information you give out is immediately beyond your control. That includes information you didn't know you'd given out. As an example or two... your ISP knows which websites you visit, and how often, and how long you spend on them. So do the companies selling advertising to those sites (which often means Google, these days). Google also knows what you're looking for. Your cellphone provider knows who you talk to, and how often, and roughly where you are. The manufacturer of your cellphone might do too. Whichever company runs your email account - probably Yahoo, Google or Microsoft, for most of us - knows a terrifying amount about you. So does Facebook, if you're like most people (and they're rolling out the email thing, too, so soon they'll have that too). Considering what you give away to very large corporations of dubious ethics on a daily basis, CMJ having your name is pretty small beer, really. Personally, my only quibble with them is that they really aren't conveniently located for me, but I guess you can't please everyone :)

Me too! sigh Additional Comments: Shhhhhh. And it peeked out of long shirts. Well ok some of them were see thru. Funny how I dress so conservatively now that Im an SP. ROTF

I was working out at the gym the other day and a woman in her 70s was sporting a camel toe through her tights. Call me a prude, but somehow it just didn't seem right! ************************************************ Here we have a male version of the camel toe.

Lead Belly ( Huddie Ledbetter) House of the Rising Sun http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbCJtxEFlSA&feature=related "It's been the ruin of many a poor boy, and God , I know I'm one. "

The Cons are working on a resolution to STOP prostitution. I approve of her STOP sign ! May there be more !

I'd be very cautious about what you read. The Sun, besides being a terrible rag not far from a tabloid, is also exceptionally conservative-bent. There are other laws that could easily deal with pimping. Decriminalization does not mean legalizing pimping.

I spent a full hour with this lovely lady last week. This was my third time with this cutie and was one of the best yet. We spent a long time kissing, we watched each other masterbate, I gave her a long massage and we did my favorite posion as well as her favorite position. She is spectacularily excusite and has the cutest butt and sexiest smile. I will see her again and again.

Yes Brandon has a Strip Club. The Keyrock. Right across from the CanadInn's in Brandon. It can be really fun. No lap dances. But you can get the dancers to sit down and have a drink from time to time.

Every once and awhile we have the chance to embark on a journey that not only leaves you breathless but instills such profound joy that one can only imagine. Such was my experience with Gabriella a woman of warmth sofistication and beauty. After trying for what seemed an eternity our rendevous was set and I with bottle of wine in hand stood at her door. I knew she was gorgeous from her pics but I wasn't prepared for what happened as she let me in. Although dressed in a stylish cooktail dress that accentuated every curve of her body it was Gaby's eyes and infectious smile that captivated my soul. The door closed and we melted into an embrace that felt so right and I had thoughts of never letting go. Our lips met and we both knew that we were in for an evening of wonder. She led me to the couch and enjoyed a medley of fruits that she had prepared along with some wine. Gazing into each others eyes conversation flowed, time flew and although we had intentions of sharing a jaccusi bath we decided to head to the bedroom in order to satisfy our sexual hunger. What transpired from here will remain between us but let me assure you that Gabriella was not only attentive to all my needs but extreemly passionate as well. She enjoyed both giving and receiving and the experience was like non other for me. It seemed like we were long lost lovers only to be reunited for a brief time. The best part is I will get to see Gaby again and again and I soo look forward to it. Gabriella thanks so much for being who you are and welcoming me into your loving arms xoxo Pat Additional Comments: Every once and awhile we have the chance to embark on a journey that not only leaves you breathless but instills such profound joy that one can only imagine. Such was my experience with Gabriella a woman of warmth sofistication and beauty. After trying for what seemed an eternity our rendevous was set and I with bottle of wine in hand stood at her door. I knew she was gorgeous from her pics but I wasn't prepared for what happened as she let me in. Although dressed in a stylish cooktail dress that accentuated every curve of her body it was Gaby's eyes and infectious smile that captivated my soul. The door closed and we melted into an embrace that felt so right and I had thoughts of never letting go. Our lips met and we both knew that we were in for an evening of wonder. She led me to the couch and enjoyed a medley of fruits that she had prepared along with some wine. Gazing into each others eyes conversation flowed, time flew and although we had intentions of sharing a jaccusi bath we decided to head to the bedroom in order to satisfy our sexual hunger. What transpired from here will remain between us but let me assure you that Gabriella was not only attentive to all my needs but extreemly passionate as well. She enjoyed both giving and receiving and the experience was like non other for me. It seemed like we were long lost lovers only to be reunited for a brief time. The best part is I will get to see Gaby again and again and I soo look forward to it. Gabriella thanks so much for being who you are and welcoming me into your loving arms xoxo Pat

Actually Im 40, and loving it.

Nowhere in the Criminal Code it is mentioned that it's a criminal act to run an agency. "Escort agency" is not a term define by law, neither escort! These words first flourished in the sex industry subculture and are now of commun use. However, if we agree that: -agency implies management -that managing implies one of the following: recruitment advertisement booking transportation promotion solicitation etc... And that -escorting implies "prostitution" and "illicit sexual intercourse" And that -prostitution equal sex in exchange of money however, as of today, there are no court consensus in regards of what sex implies in that context: a HJ, FS, BJ, licking body parts? Neither is clear what "illicit sexual intercourse" means. It means that: -A person performing one of the managment tasks mentionned above who happends to receive a financial compensation for her labour iscometting an offense in regards of Canadian prostitution laws - mainly living on the avails or keeping a bawdy house. Such as the anti-choice women -self identifying as abolitionist feminists- the law makes no difference weither you are a nice employer or a crook. You are a criminal. You are "procuring". You are exploiting. You are what we refer to in popular culture as a Pimp! So no, I don't believe opening a "Professional agency" in Nova Scotia is legit. As mention by others, it is of Federal juridiction, it does not matter where you are in Canada.