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Phaedrus last won the day on June 30 2018

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    Welcome, random visitor! Thanks for dropping by.

    I'm just an average guy, like most of the others here, probably. But I've discovered that I can have lots of fun with lots of very hot people, so... um... that's what I'm doing here. But I guess you're the same, unless you're one of the hot people I might end up having fun with.

    A quick request to the other gentlemen here: please don't ask me whether a particular MA offers extras. I usually don't know, because I've never asked. If you're looking for mileage beyond the usual MA experience, why not go see one of our awesome SPs? That's what I do :)
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  1. Phaedrus

    SP Communication

    I know you know. Just wanted to make it clear, because unfortunately not everyone reading understands this :)
  2. To be fair, I don't think the courts are too bad on this, because by the time something comes to court you have to prove a case and you have to have things like facts and evidence. The problem lies in the realm of politics and public opinion, where facts and evidence are absolutely not required.
  3. Phaedrus

    Escort Outcalls

    You may be on to something here. I remember that horrible feeling as you go to someone's incall that you have a flashing neon sign over your head saying, "THIS GUY IS GOING TO SEE AN ESCORT!!!", and that paranoia never entirely goes away. I've learned to just ignore it and walk in like you'd go anywhere else, but it's entirely possible that it might ruin the experience for people to the extent that they're only comfortable in their own space.
  4. Phaedrus

    Antique cell

    Maybe time for an upgrade. I was forced to upgrade my antique flip-phone that I use for this recently... an advantage of this is that I always used to hate texting with it, but now I might be able to :)
  5. Phaedrus

    SP Communication

    Um... no. If you decide that you want to bail because you think it's a scam or something, that's one thing - but if you decide to cancel because you're not in the mood, you owe her a cancellation fee. As for the main point of this thread: if I'm asked to text for location the night before, I'll do that, but I'd expect a response the night before too. The provider sets the schedule for these things, and having done so she has a responsibility to keep to it. If she can't do that... well, some folks might be OK with it, but I wouldn't be.
  6. I suspect they aren't trying to make a case. In this case the journalist probably wants a quick-and-easy here-is-a-controversy story, which means getting a minimum few facts together and pulling in a quote or two. But they're limited by space so each person quoted gets two or three sentences, which isn't really sufficient to explain things properly.
  7. Phaedrus

    SP Communication

    I don't think so. If she asked you to text the evening before for directions, I'd have expected to get them the same evening. Or at least a reply. 9pm isn't unduly late.
  8. Phaedrus

    SP Communication

    As long as you're certain that you followed the booking procedure she gave you, I'd just forget her and move on. No need to throw good money after bad. There are plenty of other providers out there. But make sure you did do what you were supposed to, because otherwise it's your own fault :)
  9. Phaedrus

    Escort Outcalls

    Some people might not think it through. Some might just not understand that it's a big deal. Some people might consider the risk acceptable, compared to the certainty of having to pay for a hotel room or something. And some people might consider the risk to be part of the fun. Irrespective of the reasons, this is one of the many things that providers need to be careful about.
  10. I see no good reason to do so, unless your new partner might find out about it via other means and you'd look bad for not having been up-front about it. As you say, a lot of people may react badly. But really... we're all adults here. You can take it for granted at our time of life that your new partner will have a past of some sort and will have done stuff with other people before you came along. What difference does it make that there was an envelope with money in it somewhere in the room at the time?
  11. Phaedrus

    How to ask about services

    Contacting a SP is a good way to go for this. Or if you see someone advertizing as a "hybrid MA" then that's probably also what you're looking for. There are a few people who are independent who do, but if you want more than MA service you'll be paying more than MA rates.
  12. I'm not sure when that point would be, though. Even if the relationship is over, a vengeful ex can do a lot to make life unpleasant. Why risk it?
  13. Phaedrus

    LeoList Reviews?

    Seems like pretty standard stuff to me. I'd expect most sites where you can post stuff to have something like this in the TOS... not that I can recall ever reading one in that much depth...
  14. Phaedrus

    LeoList Reviews?

    I'm not a lawyer, but you guys might want to talk to one. If they're using your name when they have no right to it, that sounds bad to me.
  15. Phaedrus

    Rates Lash Back

    Yup. Charge whatever you want. You decide what your rates are... nobody else. Given that you've increased your rates by a significant amount, I'm not entirely surprised that some of your existing clients may have gone. They may have just seen the new rates and not know you'd be OK with grandfathering them in at the old one, if they never asked; even if you put that in your ads, people are sometimes terrible at reading. It also puts you into a different ballpark, and clients who are in that zone might not know you're there too, yet, and so it may take a while for them to see your ads and get you on their radar - so things may pick up again as that happens and new clients arrive. Also: you may be seeing fewer clients, but are you making less money? If you double your prices and see half as many people then you'd have the same income and more time for the rest of your life. And if a rate increase get rid of some of the tire-kickers and time-wasters, that's a win too.