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I have not been on very much of late and it seems as if there have been intermittent server issues. The intermittent things are the most difficult to find and fix! I have never written this before but have said it to a number of people. This site is pretty amazing and is very sophisticated in the way that it functions. It is user friendly, easy to navigate, and thanks to Mod is responsive to suggestions from our community of members. To the Mod, a good luck with the server issues and a huge thanks for the work that you do on our behalf, clients and SP's alike.

Cassie (lesiren): A recommendation. I visited Cassie a couple of weeks ago. That was my first SP ever and I had been looking for recommendations in these forums (CERB and PERB) but I have seen her ad first in BP and then I found more info in EC, and finally, after texting her, she gave me her website address where I could find her rates, services, etc. Strangely, I had more recommendations for other SPs but I really liked her pics (gotta be honest here, her face reminded me of an old girlfriend I had) so I guess I became stubbornly struck by her pics and so I wanted to convince myself that she was the one to pop my pooner-cherry (lol). I had some problems booking with her, but they were not her fault, and she seemed genuinely worried and upset at this, so we started emailing back and forth more until finally the day arrived when I actually got to see her in her apartment. She has a place near downtown, close to Broadway Ave. Easy to find and the parking is not too bad. I buzzed her and she let me in the building (nice, decent apartments) up to her place. When she opened the door I was nervous as hell, and seeing her beautiful face, I just wanted to kiss her, but I controlled myself. She wasn't wearing anything overtly seductive, and that's OK for me, I wanted to see her as an old acquaintance and not as a seductress, if you know what I mean. Small chat in her living room and then she started to the bedroom. I should have taken a drink before visiting because I really was freaking nervous. I've had some personal issues during those days and in retrospection I should have waited some time to see her, but I really wanted to just get this over with (seeing an SP) and that was my mistake. She took off her shirt revealing two beautiful, big tits (I have no idea how to measure them, but they were big) and after a while we started kissing, caressing and I went down sucking her nipples while gently playing with her pussy with my fingers. She liked it that I was being gentle, so after a while I went down to the Y and started licking her lips and sucking her clit, which she seemed to like (she was wet, and then wetter after a while). Her taste was delicious, I really like to dine there, so I probably spent quite some time doing that, and she was moaning at the end very nicely. I was hard at that point. (She did asked me to not use my fingers IN her, in case you're wondering, not a big deal for me). After that, she put me on my back and that's when my problem started. I wasn't able to keep it hard! LOL. Normally I have no problems with that, but the pause between the DATY and her turn to work on me turned on my brain in a self-conscious way that didn't help my erection. That sucked... but she did too! In a good way. She started sucking my limp dick (it was only half way limp) and soon I was hard again. Yeah, that was a BBBJ, one of the best I've had. I remember her teeth gently scratching my dick in a deliciously devious way. I'm not a "big guy", but I'm thick enough, so maybe that's why this happened, but I loved it. I could have cum in her mouth right there, but I assumed, after reading these forums, that such thing is a no-no unless you discuss it before, so I held myself until I couldn't do it anymore and asked her to put on a condom on it so I could get inside her. She did (I brought my condoms, but she used one of hers - one of those things I don't know about pooning, I guess) and that pause again (putting on the condom and deciding what position was best to use) killed me. The condom part was what I dreaded and proved to be my fall. I never used condoms at home, you know, so I'm out of practice, plus nervous, then... oh well. Extra points to Cassie for patiently trying, but it soon proved obvious that I was going to have a problem with the condom, so she focused her attention on making me cum by using her mouth and hands while I played with her beautiful tits. She really relaxed me, asked me to close my eyes, but I didn't wanted to, I wanted to see her. She's not a spinner (I love that description I've read here, it makes me laugh), but not a BBW either. When I felt like cumming I asked her to kiss me and cumming that way was awesome. I was exhausted, and she must have been to, just by using her hands and mouth so much. I was a little disappointed that I didn't got a chance to penetrate her, but who knows, maybe I'll visit her again once I get my shit together and maybe can overcome my nervousness. She cleaned me up with a wet warm towel, and chatting as if we've known each other from before, I loved that. I'm usually very talkative, but I figured I was acting a little moronic (rookie). I thanked her for everything and by that time it had been 90 minutes since I had arrived. She didn't rushed me, or hinted me that it was time to go, but I didn't wanted to overstay, so I got dressed (she offered me at that point her shower, but that would have meant overstaying and I didn't want that). Five more minutes of chatting, a very warm goodbye kiss, and I was out the door. Now, after reading my own review (which I asked her if it was OK for me to do), I feel like trying my luck one more time with her. Maybe knowing now my problems we can go around them and I can finally penetrate that beautiful, tasty, and apparently tight pussy of hers. Do I recommend her? Hell yes. Before I went to her I read all kinds of reviews, most where from "uneventful" to bad, but I also read a couple that mentioned what I nice lady she was, and those were from guys with a lot of comments in their belts, you know, regular forum users. That's what I used to convince myself to give her a chance, and I'm glad I did. As a lady, she is top notch. If I hadn't had those nervous issues that time, I'm sure I would have been 1000% satisfied. But, like I said, there's always time to try again (and if I do, I'll come back with my new tale). Please overlook that this may be my first post. I know some will be suspicious about it, but I can assure you I'm real (you can ask for my SIN, driver's license and my credit card info, if you like, lol). What I wrote may not be what all of you are looking for, but I felt that the truth should be known about Cassie, and that is that: 1. She is beautiful in person. 2. She is a very nice lady. 3. She really puts an effort when things are not going the right way. What more can someone ask? (That was a rhetorical question, ok?) Thanks for reading! P.S. I'm putting the same review in both the CERB and PERB forums because I've seen her discussed in both. Cheers!

Don't usually get around to posting as most of the time there isn't much reason to, but I figured this one might be worth the story. Anyways, to begin my evening I ended up driving a few of my friends downtown to some pub crawl for their work. I didn't particularly want to drive home immediately so I figured why not swing by Barbs and enjoy the sights before heading home. Very glad I did. Went in, checked my coat, ordered a drink and sat down. I must have just missed her stage show as she wasn't on the floor when I arrived but fairly quickly after sitting down out walks Brooklyn from the back. Brooklyn is a very attractive woman so she caught my eye almost immediately. Now I'm a fairly shy type individual so I don't typically go ask the girls for dances unless they come to me. Luckily this time I didn't have to contemplate if I should or not as she ended up coming straight to me and asked to sit. Of course I oblige, because it would be rude not to right? Brooklyn immediately starts having a conversation with me that didn't for one moment feel forced. That is always something I enjoy versus the girls who immediately ask to go to the CR or look bored sitting. Brooklyn is an excellent conversationalist who despite my inability to form coherent sentences most the time, carried the conversation easily. After a fair bit of time she asked if I wanted a dance, and by this time I was more than happy to oblige. Now I won't go into detail on exactly what she does for her private dances but I will say this. It was the most sensual, intimate interaction I have ever had. She is the master of the tease and suffice to say the things she did were just unfair to mankind's collective libido. After an exhausting session in the CR we returned to the floor where we had a drink and we sat together talking for at least a couple hours before she had to go on stage again. Her stage show was amazing to watch, the effort she put into her moves did nothing but show her amazing gymnastic talent. I lucked out because an amazing looking woman from the crowd joined her on stage, and all I can say is what ended up happening was literally jaw dropping. What this rambling on post is meant to say is pretty much this: Go see Brooklyn at Barbs as it is worth every minute and every dollar. Side note of humour. I enjoyed the evening so much I forgot about my friends and the fact I should still have been downtown by that time, that 5 minutes after getting home I got called to go pick them up.

I know some of this has been covered here already, and I just posted this to the other board also, but I thought it could be a useful reminder here too. Knowledge is power (and health!) :) ______________ As part of some New Years resolutions, some people are thinking about their health and taking it more seriously. Well, sexual health is a very important part of that, and something that should be taken seriously all year round :) Getting tested is very important for hobbyists too! Many of the most common STI's (particularly in men) have no symptoms!! Treatment for the most common STI's is usually quite simple and effective, often with one dose of antibiotic. Left untreated can lead to serious complications. The Ottawa Sexual Health Centre is THE BEST place to go for this because this is their area of speciality and they will order all the proper testing. You need: urine samples, blood tests and throat swabs to be given a complete sexual bill of health. The Sexual Health Centre's testing is anonymous, you don't have to give your real name, and you do not need to provide a health card. There are different ways to get your results, but generally you give a phone number and if they don't call you, your tests have not shown any problems. (No news is good news!) The Sexual Health Centre has more than one location, as they offer satellite clinics throughout the city on various days of the week. Locations and hours here: http://ottawa.ca/en/residents/public...-health-centre For example, I always go to the Barrhaven clinic, I get there right when they open at 2:30, and I have never had to wait more than 10 minutes to see the nurse. If you are worried about discretion this is perfect, because they host the clinic within another regular Health Clinic (so you could be there for any number of things). To make it eve more discreet, you can go to a location in a different part of the city than where you live/work. The nurses at these clinics are very friendly, non-judgemental, knowledgeable on sexual health, and are happy to answer any questions you may have. I recommend the Ottawa Sexual Health Clinic above a regular health clinic or your family doctor, because they know all the exact testing you need and specialize in this area. For your own sake, and the benefit of the Escort/Hobbyist community, Please get tested regularly! :biggrin: Thank you!

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It's been way too long since I had the chance to put my hands all over your body!! i hate being Lonely on Fridays and need some fine gentleman to help excite my night and Life!!! And of Course.... Every man deserves a night to be pampered and incredibly teased :P Don't you think? Turn off the noise of your everyday life and step into my fantasy room of sensual and sexy play... My massage is tailored to what you enjoy...I love to share my sexy energy when i massage Intimate..erotic...nude..reverse... body slides with a sweet girl next door type you can relax into...or maybe you want a pretty girl to tell you what to do and crawl at her feet...I wouldn't mind that either :P Friday Night 7pm to 11pm Please Text 613 859 8463 Located in Bells Corners xoxoxoxoxoxo Please feel free to message and say Hi! Cheers and all the best YOurs Truly

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Sorry, I have DISABLED SOME FEATURES AS I FIGURE OUT WHAT IS CAUSING THE SITE TO RUN SO SLOW... It may be a plugin (added code) so I have shut them all down (except for some essential ones) and I am going to let the site run for a few hours without any... then slowly turn them back on till I see a problem.

Be careful what you wish for Jimmy. All sp's are exclusive. Remember, they get to choose who they see. Yes, everyone has bills to pay, but women in this industry generally and cerb in particular, don't have to see just anybody. While they offer a girlfriend experience, as one woman said to me she's hoping for a boyfriend experience too! So what does that mean? It starts with respect, being considerate, very, very clean and hopefully there's some chemistry (personal and sexual) that allows you to both click. This is why most women choose to see older men. It doesn't start with how much money you have to spend or how young and good looking you are. As for rates, despite all the discussion this topic can generate, most of the women charge within a similar price range per hour give or take $50-100. The primary difference you'll see with respect to pricing is whether a minimum amount of time is specified. Some will allow half hour appointments while others require a minimum 2-3 hours. Yes, the 2-3 hour appointment costs more, but is generally similar with respect to hourly rate. Why the minimum? There can be a variety of reasons. Some women have other sources of income and this approach works best for their schedules and financial needs. Others prefer sufficient time to make a more personal connection. It can be a difficult business and this is how it works best for some women. In other cases the woman may have a graduate degree, be well travelled or multilingual and is therefore able to easily maneuver through the subtleties of various social and business functions. You're paying for that service as well. If you're curious you can see advertisements and reviews for these women in larger cities such as Toronto or Vancouver. My advise is similar to other posters. Choose someone that you think you're attracted to and that you think you might click with. Forget about "the most expensive and exclusive". You're not choosing different models of cars or designers ("Tell me who's the Lamborghini or Armani of service providers"). It's more personal for both of you than that and remember, you're part of the equation, so you should bring something to the table in addition to money. Good luck.

Should think of coming to Ottawa, we have the longest outdoor skating rink ;) and many ice sculptures to look at, and of course beaver tails too ;) Happy New Year Serena! Hope you find a place in Halifax to skate.

I thought I'd start a thread with some FYI's for the gentlemen...Ladies and gents alike, please add in some thoughts/experiences as well! 1. You cannot just jump right in and jam on. If you're scared to warm up the oven with your fingers (or a toy), forget about baking your bread in there. 2. Lube goes a long way. No, your spit is not enough. 3. I don't care if you're only 5 inches long, you also happen to be 4 inches wide! NOT GONNA HAPPEN! 4. You're right, I can't get pregnant that way. But I can come across an array of STDs and other infections. JIMMY UP! I know most of you will see the above info as "DUH, isn't all of that obvious?" It is not obvious to all. I've had to "educate" a number of people recently which is what inspired this thread. Many people seem very intrigued by the topic, but know nothing about it whatsoever. Hope we get a nice discussion going on here and we can all maybe learn a little something!

I prefer a one-hour session, which is why I don't advertise less. For massage, I find less than an hour is hard to accommodate, especially with a shared shower. I am happy to accommodate a shorter session for folks I have already met, but I find that often in the getting-to-know-one-another stage, an hour is just enough time to acquaint each other and get a full session in. ;)

A two to three hour session for me would include: kissing, petting, generally making out.. 10 minutes or so.. go down on the girl... 15 minutes or so.. fuck and blow my load ... 1.5 minutes or so.. fall asleep ... 90 minutes or so.. wake up, take a piss, grab a shower.. 10 minutes or so.. have a sandwich and a beer.. 15 minutes or so.. watch some sports highlights and get a blowjob.. 10 minutes or so.. kill some time chatting with my girl.. 20 minutes or so.. I'm a fun date...

I'm an MA but I don't like where this thread is headed in regards to publicly asking SP's if they would do "extra" because you're either special, a repeat client or give gifts and cash donations to try to persuade. This is a sense of entitlement if you ask me. This is YMMV and kept private between the provider and client. I have stopped seeing clients that have thought like this due to the discomfort.