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Looks like a Vancouver East Side resident on welfare day:)

Unless another family member used same magazine and rubber glove before and has some STD :) Just trying to scare the hell out of you LOL

Samantha, you would make a wonderful sex therapist. You are not only knowledgeable, but also care for your clients genuinely and are smart enough to see things as they are. Not trying to influence you in any direction, but just in case you want to retire, that would be an option, and that is a legitimate profession. I am convinced that there are many sex therapists out there who have no idea about male sexuality and instead of fixing the clients they screw them up more. Just an example. I sometimes listen to Dr. Laura, because I am bored and I love to talk back to her:) She is an absolute idiot when it comes to giving advise. She is convinced that all you have to do to fix your marriage and sex life with your husband (husband only, because having sex with a boyfriend is shaking up LOL) is to be nice to him, give him a hug, give him a backrub and everything will be fine. She has no idea that there are cases out there where husbands do NOT want to have a good sex life, because they need to experience something new or something kinky to be satisfied..... With other words, she has never been an sp and has NO IDEA what reality is like. I am not judging anyone, I am just saying that the issue is a lot more complex, and I feel sorry for the women who are desperately trying to seduce their husbands and blame themselves when they fail, and stupid Dr.Laura tells them they should try harder, when the truth is that the husband needs to be spanked, whipped, stepped on or eat his own cum to be happy. Poor husband can't share this with the wife without risking her contempt, and sees sp's to get what he wants. I am wondering, how would in a (pretty common) case like this a backrub help? Another thing that pisses me off is when a husband cheats and she says to the wife "you are not treating him right, buy my book on how to spoil your husband" just to make a buck. On the other hand when a woman cheats she calls her a slut and asks the husband why did he marry her? Stupid Laura, maybe he is attracted to sluts! Go figure! Life is not black and white, and some people don't fit into your artificially happy world. Anyway, when I started out with this post, I had no idea I will end up bashing Dr. Laura, but I will throw this out there and see what people think? I am a moderate feminist, meaning that I want the same rights as a man has, not more, not less. And I absolutely resent to play the subordinate role to butter up my husband to have a happy marriage. If there is buttering up, it should be mutual in my opinion. Maybe, that's why I am happily single ;)

I do believe you. I just don't understand why would I want a second one when the first one makes me feel so good. It is like having a cake. I could have three more, but for what? ;) OK, this is just me. I really do respect other people's preferences. Having worked with men makes me realize that there are all kinds. Some wants one orgasm, but there are those who want a second and a third right away. As I said, I did try it once and had three in a row. I was curious if it was possible. But I must say, I had to force myself.

Just in case you are interested in my humble opinion....;) If you want to bring a woman to orgasm, the surest way is (after of course you've played around a little or a lot) to let her do what she wants. Look at it this way: you supply the cock, she does with it what feels good to her. Let her sit on top, that is the easiest way for her to climax. Let her set the pace that she knows instinctively will get her off. If you insist on your way, all you will achieve is that she will fake it, and because she doesn't actually have a climax with you, she will have a lot of headaches;) Believe me, women know what feels good and will tell you if you listen. Just don't be a bonehead and don't insist on something, just because you've been told, saw it somewhere, or because other women achieved orgasm that way. Don't ever patronize her if you want to have a good sex life. If you insist on your way every time and you can't make her orgasm it is YOU who is at fault, not her. Where I come from we have a saying: "There are no frigid women, only clumsy men." peace :)

Congrats buggernot, Having seen so many porn movies with obvious fakes, and having heard guys describing fake orgasms they have mistaken for real, I must say, you just described the REAL one. :) Yes, when a woman gets closer to an orgasm, her body and face tenses up. Most guys mistaken this for passivity or they think they are doing something wrong and change the pace. Don't! You are just about to experience the real thing! Female orgasm is not always pretty, but it feels wonderful. You can recognize a fake by the fact that a woman has control over her facial expressions and her body is not tensed up. Of course, there is no involuntary contractions, but that, too, can be faked. I, personally, never experienced more than three, and that was 20 years ago. I am not really interested. After one orgasm I get that wonderful, peaceful feeling, where all I want is to cuddle and dream, even touching of the genital area is uncomfortable. I have for a long time thought that multi-orgasmic women are faking it, but I have seen a few videos and they looked pretty real, so I guess, it does exist. Everybody is different.

I seriously think people would look great with green or blue hair and I am right This is Angelina Jolie I just googled. I think it looks very good on her. If you think about it, brown toned hair, like everybody has, is boring compared to this. (I hope you don't mind I put other woman's picture in your thread, but I can see you have other threads about yourself, and this one is about colored hair. lol)

I personally think it is great! I've always wondered why can't people have green or blue hair... Maybe you shouldn't cover it up. It makes you unique. Show us more pics ! :)

haha, that was funny :)

See? And you are a strong guy, and there aren't too many female serial killers LOL I am sure some girls don't see the dangers of letting new clients tie them up. Again, I am not talking about professionals.

It's true. I have seen many Asian rich kids.

Well, I have heard of one dominatrix who has been killed by a client in Europe, but I have also heard of people who had been killed in car accidents.... I was not talking about professionals, but girls on CL who advertise like that. Let's hope they know what they are doing. I personally would never let a stranger tie me up. Just the thought scares me :(

The best thing you can do is to keep track of the bad phone calls and the minute you hang up, block them! I know for a fact that jerks will call you repeatedly if you won't. Rogers let's you block 100 numbers, Telus 12, including anonymous callers. I have mentioned before, but it can't be emphasized enough, GET YOURSELF A CAMERA and direct it at the entrance, so you have a picture of every guy in case you need it. Don't rely on the security camera of the building. It will make the bad guys think twice before they hurt you. Believe me, first thing they will do is to make sure they can get away with hurting you, and if they see the camera they know they can't. Invest in a dummy camera in the beginning, works just as well as a deterrent. But get a good one as soon as you can afford it. It is cheaper than a funeral :)

I never heard of this guy, but I am sure you are right. LE doesn't give a damn unless they have formed a vice squad just for this and have been told what to do. The issue is too hot for them to handle. The fact that he is still operating proves that I am right. Looks like he has a sure-fire method to scam the girls, but for God's sakes, having car-dates with strangers without having some protection, like a gun in your purse, or a pimp writing down his licence plate and making mince-meat out of him if he hurts his girl, is playing russian roulette. The phone number verification eliminates many bad seeds, although you are right, not all of them. I used to take anonymous calls, but since I had a few perverted calls, I don't anymore. If you want to see me, find a way to give me a phone number. Otherwise, feel free to see someone who is less careful.

What freaks me out is reading ads like "tie me up", "pull my hair". Open invitation to sadists and serial killers :(

Well, I like to believe that they are no competition for me either, but what do I do when they copy my ad almost word-by-word or even steal my name? Because that happened a few months ago. A Chinese girl whose name was previously Donna started calling herself Anita and said that she was mature. She offered exactly the same service as I do, although she is a full-service sp. Clear attempt to steal my business.

Sorry Capitalman, I didn't mean to shoot you:) I just wanted to tell you how annoying unfair competition can be.

Sorry Capitalman, it is not good for all of us. We, here in Vancouver are experiencing a flood of foreign girls, mainly Asians who undercut everybody, advertise all day long using multiple accounts, using fake pictures, (place the same girl with different pictures and same pic for different girls), are willing to do anything for peanuts (or are forced to do so by their traffickers or pimps) lie openly, every one of them is a professional masseuse, even if she says she is 19 years old, fresh from China. It is not good for us who have built our businesses for years by providing honest, good work, and it is not good for the clients who go there and expect a good massage and all they are getting is a few strokes before they are offered sex. Clients keep complaining to me about those places. One of them said he went to a place that advertised non-sexual massages. (They also flood the therapeutic massage section) They offered him sex and when he declined they told him not to go back again. The guy is a decent customer of mine, not a jerk. NO, unfair competition is BAD for all of us!

Thanks anyway Ulix, It is the thought that counts:)

Welcome Candi:) Same here in Vancouver in the Erotic Massage business. Ever since the economics started getting worse every desperate housewife decided to get in the massage business.

Thanks Cato, You are our last hope:) If it weren't for you, all we could do is cyber sex on this board LOL

Exactly:) I like to talk about it, but at the same time I have to be careful.

I know Samantha, we have quite a few Vancouver girls here lately. Let's hope the Mod is right and the guys will follow :) Otherwise we are just advertising for ourselves LOL

Just bumping the thread to see if there are any more MEN here from Vancouver? :wink:

That sounds sexist ;) (kidding)