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capitalman

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  1. The question of what is love has been debated since the beginning of mankind! It's different for everyone. I KNOW that what I experience as love other people may never get the chance to experience. What others call love maybe I call lust? Everyone is different and has different experiences. You can't judge others or what they feel.

     

    Take the social misfit who never engages other people except maybe one day he hires an escort. That might be the closest thing to love he'll ever experience. So be it...let him call it love, where we might call it lust.

     

    My comment here is this, what is wrong with developing feelings for a client or escort? What's wrong with it? Because it interferes with your business? Know the boundaries and stick to them. If you can't do that, then you shouldn't be an escort or shouldn't be a client!

     

    Feelings are good, that's why we're here. Life is about relationships...it's not about who has the most money when yo die, it's about who had the best of times during their life.

     

    I look at someone like my Dad that basically had one girl his entire life, married her, she died (my Mom) and now has a new girlfriend but that's about it. He's shy, introverted and awkward around people. Hell will freeze over before I live my life like that. I want more, I want it all. I want relationships, feelings, love, lust, sex, perversion. I want experiences...fill me up until I'm overflowing then when I die it's over. I win. That's what I want.....all of it.

     

    You should want that too. Don't be afraid of love, embrace it everywhere you can! imho ymmv :)

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  2. Interesting reading. I know this thread is about non ipad products, but I'm used to iphones and I'm looking at an ipad2. Anyone know the cheapest place to purchase one? I'll likely buy it tomorrow.


  3. Like the other guys have said, I agree it's all about the connection. If you look forward to seeing me and TELL ME THAT I'm all ears! I need attention too just like anyone else.

     

    The BEST Girlfriend Experiences are when I get some txts, or emails or PMs from an SP I like and she's genuinely interested in me and enjoys my messages back.

     

    Thing is, I know it can become a chore...so if it's a chore, don't do it. I'm sure you'll figure out who's actually coming to visit you and who just enjoys your attention.


  4. Why redefine a name? Why not just pick a new name?

     

    I don't think the term escort properly defines the ladies around here, neither does a massage attendent (MA) define what you get a massage parlour. And hobbyist sure doesn't define me! I think it's more like obsession-ist! :)

     

    BUT I do like JuliasUndies definition! :bigclap:

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  5. I give the guy credit for trying something new and taking a risk, even if he failed. He may not know it, but he learned something. Practice makes perfect.

     

    Samantha I don't really know you or what you're like, but if you like the guy and care, maybe invite him back to try again....if he invested money in his equipment I'm sure he'll want to use it.

     

    I know I've felt like a failure many times trying new things, and it's not just bdsm things I'm referring to...all aspects of life. You just have to keep trying until you get it right. If you know what you want, you have to keep that goal in sight. Help him out, give him a nudge, I know it always helps me.

     

    I remember a girl laughing at me as I tried to tie her up and she slipped out of my ropes too easily. I was so embarrassed but you know what? My knots got better.

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  6. I can't believe I'm answering this thread as MA's are not my thing....although I have done it a few times and here's my take on it....

     

    I'm enjoying the fact that I CAN'T do those other things. I'm usually pretty dominant and aggressive but in an MA situation I am laying back, enjoying the view and enjoying having things done to me. It's different and enjoyable on it's own level.

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