Jabba

A relative had to have heart surgery when he was in his 70s. No choice really. Needed a valve and a stent.

He was frankly quite fearful of the procedure. He came from an age where these types of operations were a major risk. So, we talked about the fear factors just to bring them to the light of day and give them a poke.

One way to look at this objectively is that yes, it is an operation and the docs have to make surgical cuts. We didn't minimize the level of involvement nor did we ignore the days of recovery needed. My first thought would be like yours - oh, I really don't wanna do this!!

If you know the name of your surgeon, and, if you haven't already done this - research his CV online. We did just that. We did a google on my relative's surgeon. Holy smokes! Years upon years of research, papers, practice, diagnosis, surgery, post op. These cats, all of them, are a different breed of smart. Seriously, my words fall far short.

All of which may be of cold comfort to you, because you're the one who is going through this - but be assured you really are in capable hands. You will survive and you will recover. You will lead a changed life. The surgery will leave a mark in more ways than one. You will remember your hesitation and reluctance. All of that will be part of your story - but the best part is that you will have a story you can tell. You can share your experience to encourage others who will be in the same predicament. Despite the short-term grief, this I'm sure will be your good news story of 2018.

Maybe share your experience even with me. I may be headed down the same path.

While potentially a hot (but cliche - sorry) scenario, I would avoid. Keep it simple, professional & cordial. Things could get complicated if for example, you both expect concessions from each other on your services.

While enjoyable to think about - it may be just that ... "enjoyable".

Also here:

https://ottawa.kwikemarket.com/body-rubs/karmin-blonde-sexy-and-fit-the-ultimate-playmate-23

The big orange bigot has his moment in the sun.

I expect the experience is about to get more interesting.

Social interaction with women. Some men have taken on a strict protocol. U.S. Vice President Pence has given his views:

The Pence rule: "...he does not eat alone with women who are not his wife or attend an event without her if alcohol will be served."

In light of the Metoo movement, this is likely an incendiary topic. I get that infractions and abuse abounds. We're all well aware this is a sensitive topic and most everyone has a story. This thread is not about social injustice - it's more about what you think should happen. Here goes.

The Pence rule can be finessed (to a ridiculous degree) of course. Are they valid rules of engagement in all social situations. Do you Agree or Disagree with the fundamentals of his rule?

I'd like to arrange a dungeon experience with an adventurous soul - any lady have an interest or recommendation? Feel free to PM.

https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=8934

I have an account, but I don't indulge.

I tried, but too many guys are just looking to get laid and not into exploring the other stuff. It kind of pollutes the air if you know what I mean. If you do reach out to make contact with a member, you are treated with suspicion. Maybe rightly so.

I found that if you go to some of the events, you meet some nice folks. The events are a little contrived though.

One reason I don't participate anymore is that there is a very unpleasant and angry undercurrent. At times the forum serves as a podium for outright, rant style male-bashing. Continuously. An Us against Them thing. A LOT of angst among the female population, yet they still keep a presence on the site. If they're so angry and rage-filled, why do they stick around?

My nickel's worth.

Guys/Girls, join in on my debate. I found out my GF is an MA after she told me she was a waitress/barmaid. She clearly hid this from me so should I consider this cheating?

 

If I was a single guy, for sure I would enjoy the company of a young sexy MA. But I'm in a relationship with her and we live together. She is doing MA as her career choice, and while she clearly loves doing it, where do that leave me?

 

Is this cheating?

 

Join in on this post, I'm curious what the guys and girls think.

It sounds like you're bothered more by the fact she deceived you rather than her line of work. Not a very good foundation for an honest relationship. You might be asking yourself what other stuff is she lying to (or will lie to) me about.

These are the seeds of discontent. I've been there too.

This is who she is. Can you live with that?

Although, I have a feeling you've already made up your mind, overall I would say follow your heart of hearts in good judgement.

Good luck to you both.

....now that I think about it, Leaches is an interesting word.

I think I'll stick to my original use. I like the word "moist".

Hi Guys,

 

Does anyone have any info on Tessa. She has posted on BP and used to be named Amber?

 

http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/343-600-1344-o-o-lets-get-hot-o-o/81890108

 

Appreciate any feedback!

Thanks!

Using a pic from a provider(s) in Oshawa/Durham/Toronto:

Candy: https://candy.com.toronto.listcrawler.com/post/21564683/#

Halee: http://toronto.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/bbw-hailee-duos-available-squirt3r-437-370-2519-whitby/87886442

Could she be one and the same person?

I misused the word "leach" (means to moisten). In my usage, it would have meant: "These moisteners are a plague and should not be rewarded with your hard earned bucks.

Please replace with "Leech" - a blood sucking worm.

...and now back to your program.:icon_biggrin:

Not an acronym - more of a double entendre but I kind of get a sly chuckle out of beauty salons/spas offering specials on "facials".

Before I'm reminded yes, I know I need to grow up.

I am curious. I am a very honest and respectful person. If I make an appointment I keep it or if it's not working I honor the committed appointment duration. But I am curious as to how to deal with fake pictures when meeting in person initially. I want to jus discontinue immediately but I don't like hurt feelings, but I feel like it's disrespecting me at the same time. Anyone have any thoughts?

I have no polite words to describe these low-lifes who pose and lure and cheat nice fellas like you. These leaches are a plague and should not be rewarded with your hard earned bucks.

I recommend you turn and walk away with a huge, guilt-free smile on your face.

Before you arrange an appointment, try doing a google or Tineye image search, or a search on the number.

Look for inconsistencies of pics or numbers or names used between postings.

Check out Lyla and other sites for reviews or comments.

Poll other members here asking if anyone has any recommendations.

I would say the OP and the companion have it figured-out well enough. The relationship seems to work for both of them. Nice.

Very important question...

What is your toy of choice?

I lean toward the kink side of life, so I tend to go for those items that give unusual sensations. Doesn't have to be ouchie either - just, different.

I would like the recommendations to stay the same for comments(positive) but maybe add a quick survey (ratings 1-10) to rate very objective things such as: was everyone on time,have discussed arrangement matched the delivered service, would you repeat, etc. these results can be made into 1 chart showing the average. This would give a bit more info while doing some research.

 

The objective survey could work both ways...clients rate the ladies and ladies can rate the clients. I think this would just lead to excellent quality members in the long run...kinda like ebay where sellers and buyers rate each other and your feedback score becomes your reputation for future transactions.

Edited post - factually incorrect.

Nothing to see here.

I remember walking into a club last year whose business is massages (MA club) , and there was a session going on between a client (dom) and the lady (sub). There was a bunch of people watching them, they wisked me away and I did not see the act or their faces at all, but it was an interesting way to enter a club. When I left after my 1 hr MA session it was still going on as I left there was this naked women plastered against the wall, so that I could not see her. I left the club, nutty night.

I've been a Dominatrix for the past 10yrs and I honestly don't have a clue what to make of the previous paragraph or what D/s role play and a Dominant ..client no less. were doing in a massage club. Scratching my head while lmao. A topic for another day would be the misconceptions about what an authentic professional Dominatrix/Sir really does and does not do with a client....and where they do it I guess ! :spank:

It sounds like blowinsmoke was sharing an experience that responded to the context of your original post. He witnessed an alternative service that just so happened to have occurred at a MP. IMO - that fits into combo (MA was subbing to a bit of discipline play while maybe offering MA service as the finale). I don't think there was any Dominatrix service in this case - but maybe I'm a little confused about your confusion?

Your experience sounds a little perplexing.

On face value, I don't think you have anything to worry about. What she gonna do?... take everyone's name & number and report them? The cops don't have time for nut jobs.

On a more serious note, it could be someone trolling for an extortion opportunity.

You did the right thing by denying her cash & posting the scenario here to give everyone a heads-up. Good on you. Don't give scammers a break.

Highly suspect "canned" Ad verbiage usually used by pimped-out fakers.

"1000% real or free"

"Available all day/night"

The Cowboys Diary is littered with faker Ads that use text that's almost identical.

Google & check out other Ads associated with the phone number. Do a photo search on the ads. They look nothing like the lady shown in your link. Also, some of the photos (from the Googled number) are from a provider in Calgary & elsewhere .... uses different names too.

If it were me, I would give this one a miss.

I'm trying to flip the page on the past year.

I want to have nice things to say about 2016. Really, I do. Frankly, I just want to bury the damn year and forget it ever happened. Press the reset button figuratively.

I'm probably tempting the fates to say that nothing really nasty happened to me personally in 2016. I haven't lost any family members (mercifully). Not arrested for anything (I'm a good Jabba - sort of). Job doesn't suck too much. Ummm, what else?

I can probably set my goals:

I could do better financially I suppose.

Do more hobbying maybe.

Lose a little weight - goes without saying. Christmas is BRUTAL!

Aside from goal setting, what positive forecasts should I expect in 2017?...anyone?

For God's sake, don't mention the "T" word if you can help it.

I'm happy to say that while Mod is on a well deserved vacation, I will be stepping in to temp.

As my first act of Moderation, I hereby authorize two scoops of ice cream for breakfast. Bon Appetit.

Have a relaxing vacation Mod & staff. Don't worry. Old Jabba has everything well in hand (jk btw).

I agree with the OP - 420 friendly is definitely not a selling point for me.

There are many SPs who don't want customers high on drugs or booze. It kind of confuses me as to why an SP would actively advertise to invite anyone under the influence. Have I got things wrong?

I think Cowboy Kenny is familiar with this one.

Avoid

Disappointed we can't discuss anything interesting or meaningful.

I was going to show a tear-face, but I think all the emoticons are disabled.