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Lurkers lurking everywhere!
bewlayb replied to backrubman's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I agree with WIT's opening comment: "[let them] enjoy or use Cerb and its resources in any way they feel comfortable." In real life I am a "less is more" kind of guy when it comes to conversation. Unless I'm breaking a rule, why should I change my natural interactive tendencies just to participate on this board? By the same token I quietly tolerate/respect our more verbose and active members, who, admittedly from time-to-time, I wish said less or contributed more of substance. Why can't I expect the same courtesy for my preferred level of participation? -
Any SP or MP that are okay with younger client
bewlayb replied to hardhitter92's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Massage
I think the ladies above hit the nails on the head. Concerns over discretion and attitude prevail. From a strictly massage perspective, I have spoken to several MAs about this topic over the years. Two main reasons are usually given: #1: They wish to avoid awkward encounters with someone from their (direct or indirect) social circle (present or future). Apparently, it's bad enough having to deal with the occasional appointment with a former school teacher. lol #2: Younger clients, more often than older clients, tend to push the limits of the service boundary... i.e. try to get as much mileage as possible. I've heard it expressed as an attitude of entitlement - because they are young and good-looking the attendant should want to do more with them. A corollary is, as a cohort, young clients tend to tip lighter for services rendered. Granted, #1 is more of a concern for younger MAs; while #2 is more commonly expressed by all and is a respect issue. I remember my first foray into the hobby, being told by an SP on the phone that she only saw older clients, and that at 35 I was too young. Meaning: Brace yourself. You might have to deal with age discrimination for a few years to come. Often I wish I still had that problem. Unfortunately there's little you can do about your age, so it may create some hobby barriers for you. However, when you do meet up with someone, you can do yourself and your cohort a favor by being a gentleman and treating the lady with respect, regardless of her age. -
Aha! So you did follow through and go see Lily. I did too yesterday, only I forgot to ask about Mila. I get that way ( :confused: ) when a woman has me wrapped around her finger. :twisted:
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Mila and Lily related! Now that makes sense to me. I miss Mila's sweet personality (and spectacular breasts), but never encountered her prostate skills. As for Lily... well, she has slipped me a delicate digit once or twice. Perhaps it's time again.
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I hope you're right. But it is disconcerting that Maya's album no longer shows on either the Paradise or Angel's profile.
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Such a sweet goodbye. All the best!
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Haven't yet, but I would love to see a fit woman (for real) in white yoga pants. I suspect it would have to be in private because I know I couldn't keep myself from staring.
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Michelle who or where?
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I see she's still popping on this website, so for those interested in finding out what she now offers and where, you might try sending her a PM.
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Cristy, I don't think I'm going to be much help because I don't really have a preference for what an SP wears. Part of the allure for me is anticipating what she might be wearing (or not wearing). To me, it says a lot about her personality and her mood at that time. I've had ladies looking gorgeous greeting me in their robe, jean skirt, torn jeans, a little black number, a summer dress, a bikini, and naked. And for each one of these my first impression was sexy, sexy, sexy, sexy, sexy, sexy and sexy. It's all sexy to me. It's all good. Surprise me.
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I think their suspension ends next week. Meanwhile, you'll have to make-do with the individual posts by the ladies.
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Bad Life decision to join cerb
bewlayb replied to dunn2010's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
The real discussion going on here is, "What did he say?" and "What did he mean by what he said?" Only the OP knows for sure... and he's not here. I'm not questioning the authenticity of the OP, but I do take exception to his dropping a "bomb" and then leaving the room. The reason so much is being read into his message is because he's not here to clarify his hurried message or resolve our misreading of it. When you're in such a rush to get out of town, keep your controversial thoughts to yourself, say a pleasant goodbye to everyone (if you must say something), and quietly move on.