Auralie (retired)

So what are the girl's that aren't high end? Something different..hmm..what's the word that's the opposite of high...it's stuck on the tip of my tongue. Just a tip- watch the words you use to describe people. All the women I've had contact with are high end. When asking for something you want, be a little more specific ie. are there any girls in Winnipeg as hot as Victoria Jolie? Damn she's hot. or Are there any girls in Winnipeg as cool as Amelia? She's so cool. Just my advice.

Whoops, nope. Wrong tense. I just had to chime in because I don't like people going through others to ask personal questions. I used to have a boss that would ask me "how is XX feeling today?" or "is XX angry at me?" and I'd tell him that I can't read minds (yet! lol) and he better ask the person himself. Asking someone else about experiences, what a girl's like, etc. great. Asking someone else what a girl likes and doesn't like, what her favourite ice cream flavour is, how she's feeling that day, etc. not a good idea.

I would suggest that you ask her directly what her likes and dislikes are. I hate to break it to you, but occasionally (just occasionally) us SPs fake it and guys think we like something that we really don't.

I asked previously about favourite winter activities- always a joy in Winnipeg- so what are everyone's favourite summer activities here in Winnipeg? It's not summer yet, but I already have too many favourites that I have a hard time picking one and getting out of the house! So far I think Bird's Hill Park is close to the top...or possibly biking through Assiniboine Park then getting a pina colada milkshake at Sargent Sundaes. Just a reminder to all you handsome men- with the summer heat, I have a nice cool shower available to you when you arrive. When you make use of it I will be much happier to kiss you all over if you know what I mean... Here's a new photo to heat things up a little more (like we need more heat...)

I just wanted some advice about e-mail and phone etiquette and how the other ladies respond? On numerous occasions I received e-mails saying something like "call me" or "today? 555-5555" or "you're hot. call me". I never reply to these- mostly because I would feel like an idiot calling: him- "hello?" me- "hi, is umm..the rude guy I don't know there?" him- "speaking" me- "oh, yea, you messaged me?" him- "yea, how much?" me- "for what?" him- "how much?" me- "uuhhh...who is this?" him- "Kevin" me- "Kevin?" him- "Kevin" me- "Do I know you?" him- "Yes, I messaged you" As you can see, this could go on forever with increasing awkwardness and annoyance on my part. Do most girls call guys when they write this? I thought that they should call us? Or at least tell me their name and why they want me to call in an e-mail? Am I being difficult here to ask for some sort of introduction?

I spend a lot of time wandering around my house naked- naked is the best way to be! Hey Winnipegcub- next time you come to Winnipeg I'll look up the steps for tango! I can salsa, but naked tango sounds much sexier.

I'm with the other ladies who have posted here- 1-2 per day and 3-4 days per week. If I see more than that, it feels less enjoyable and I get stressed out, and I don't want to offer bad service to anyone just because I chose to see more people than I wanted to. Every experience should be a great one for both of us!

I understand that people who don't know of other sites, or haven't heard of all the problems, or just want to see what's happening or get free advertising use the site. All that makes sense to me. What I don't get are those guys who talk about finding a "diamond in the rough" there. I mean, they do realize that those women aren't virgins waiting for that first man to e-mail them? Women on that site see just as many people as the others, they're not waiting for discovery- they've been discovered! It's like Christopher Columbus pretending he was the first "person" in America or something.

Thanks WIT- you are a much better researcher than I! I'm having some e-mails back and forth with their admin, so hopefully it will get sorted out. I just wanted to bring it up here (I don't even know if it was a CERB guy) as a reminder to think about what info you are posting before you do it.

I realized today that there is a review about me on a website I didn't know about (*********). It must be a good one because people are linking from there to my website and while I'm very flattered- I'm a bit upset that the reviewer put my phone number up. I don't post my phone number publicly for a number of reasons, the top one being that I like to know ahead of time who is going to call me. I hate texts from strangers and mysterious phone calls at 3am like "hi, can I see you today? 555-5555" I suggest that anyone making reviews consider how much detail to add, or check with the lady first.

I get the humour in this and I appreciate the intent, but it always annoys me just a little bit when SPs and other related industry-folk are portrayed as a bit lazy, shallow people who bat their eyelashes and get money thrown at them...maybe strippers lead different lives than SPs (probably not), but I hope you guys certainly don't think it's close to reality. My phone doesn't ring every minute, I don't hang out at clubs by night and tanning salons by day, and I certainly have never, ever, ever asked a "friend" or client for money. I earn the money I make and though it's an enjoyable job (especially compared to a $10/hr customer service career), it's not easy. We don't all expect a man other than a client to pay for everything- the best thing about this job is that it gives me financial independence so I don't rely on a man to pay for stuff for me. A bit ironic, sure, but life is full of irony.

Thanks WIT! You were an excellent "test subject" and I'm very glad I got a chance to meet the original, famous (or should it be infamous?) POTM. p.s. I was telling a friend about the life cycle of a lobster and felt very intelligent.

Thanks Mike! I wish I was here on your next stop over...hopefully your next visit will be soon.

Fascinating discussion. I have mixed feelings overall, but wanted to ask the men then, what would you do if you found out your SO was having a purely sexual relationship with another man? Just curious.

I agree with what has been said above. For me, I'm always nervous (though excited...but mostly nervous) meeting a new person so I really enjoy feeling calm and confident knowing who's coming. I see a select few people because of my busy schedule so I only see a person a second (or more) time if I enjoy my time with them. Also, there's something to be said for getting to know a person's body and how to please them. It's wonderful to find a secret pleasure spot, to know where a person is ticklish or sensitive, and to make plans for 'next dates' together. Isn't that what GFE is all about?

I wasn't quite so lucky...the youngest was 21 (actually the youngest man I've ever had sex with, nevermind a client). He went well over time, gossiped about other SPs, kept asking that I take the condom off, and then a week later asked me for a discount to come see me again. However, I have seen other young men (though not quite so young) that were fantastic gentlemen so I wouldn't consider making any sweeping judgements about ages because of that one experience.

I'm pretty sure there have been some discussions/questions/information about her on here before, look at some past posts and you may find information.

Do you ever feel like a secret agent? I like how others talked about it like being "in the closet" too. For me personally, I have understanding friends and family who I know would love me anyway. But I also know that they would worry about me, feel guilty like they should have helped me or stopped me, and..well..it would just break my mother's heart. So I don't feel like it's worth sharing it with anyone. Since I'm independent and don't have girls in a studio or agency to talk with, I'm very lucky to have a good friend who's also in the business so we can chat and vent and help each other out. It's one of those things that I don't think anyone can truly understand unless they're doing it too, even if they're not going to judge.

It's definitely a fine balance between being too nasty/cutesy at inappropriate times. My pet peeve (maybe I'm weird) is the term 'boobies'. Especially in the middle of sex- I mean, we're too adults engaged in some exceptionally adult activities, 'boobies' sounds like something a 12 year old boy would giggle about.

This thread makes me very grateful to be living here in Winnipeg- I think that it's only been twice that SPs haven't got back to me about a reference. Being new and uncertain, I have to say that the support (even just quick e-mail replies) I've received here has been amazing. So thanks Winnipeg- more proof that we have some of the nicest women in the country (and many great women who visit here of course)

I don't know that it would be a good idea to have a "safe" list on the SP only side because 1) it would be an easily abused feature and create even more work for the mod 2) not all girls have access to the SP area- I don't advertise on EC or have any friends that do, so I cannot access it. This is the same for many people I'm sure. It's an interesting thread that has come up a few times, I know references are the thing I hate most because I don't hear from 1/2 the guys after I ask for them. But I have had guys use an SP as a reference, then I ask that SP and she doesn't know the guy- makes me glad I check.

Sometimes I think that love, lust, or whatever you call it, it doesn't really matter- what matters is the practicality of a future that would make both people happy. I really don't mean for that to sound cold- but I've thought about it a lot as of late (and just a disclaimer, I DO change my mind on a regular basis in my philosophical stances, so think of everything I say as a "hmm, maybe?" rather than a fact). Was it really love if we adored a person for a short time and then it's gone? Sure, why not? Who says love has to last forever? Just because a relationship cannot be, does not make it any less than what it was. Love and lust to me are distinct- I love my family. I lust for David Mitchell. But in relationships with men for me they are also inseparable. Does it matter if what I'm feeling is a little of both? Not really. What matters, in the end, is the intertwined future of both of you.

The futon's in bed form, although I have found that some interesting positions are better facilitated on a couch.... So it's basically a low bed, with sheets (that I wash after each client BNI55, I'm pretty certain, and hoping, that this is standard practice!) and a pillow etc. It's just low and in my living room. I didn't realize most people use beds though, I may reconsider.

As some of you may know, I work from my living room on a deluxe, surprisingly comfortable though starting to become slightly squeeky, futon. I think it's great, but maybe there are other opinions? So my question (ok, two questions) this month is (are): What do you like in an incall location? Do many SPs use their beds for work or is a futon common?

You're right Smartguy- there are tons of new ads up on EC and lots of ridiculously hot visiting ladies- a great time to be in the Peg for sure. As for the lack of responses, can't think of why. Lots of Winnipeg indies seem to be students and it's a busy time of year, that's my only guess. Or maybe they wanted to go somewhere sunny and dry for a couple weeks.