big AL

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Hey There, For most people it is very hard to get out, when it is this cold. Being confined to a power wheelchair, it is pretty much impossible for me to get out. this can be very hard on the mind. In the spring/ summer, I can go out a visit,ect. Thank goodness, for the internet, and TV. I have to try and keep myself busy, so I don't loose my mind,lol. Anyway, stay warm & safe, people

Thank you.. I will be sure to check in more, and let you know How I am doing...

Thank yo all for your knid words. You are all very kind :)

Hey there, About 2 weeks ago, I got to spend the most magical nights with the Amazing Soleil. she came here for my birthday night. We enjoyed some great conversation 1st. even though we had not seen each other in a long while, it was like we just picked up where we left off from last time. she is such a caring person. she took care of all my needs throughout the night. she is so kind she even brought this device, which made it easier for me to get into different postions. Then she put on this truly jaw dropping out fit. then we moved to the bedroom. everything was so much fun :) Soleil, is coming to see me in the furture again, and I can hardly wait :)

Today is the day that I get to spend my birthday night with the wonderful Soleil :) I am so excited :-D

Happy B-day Pistol Pete :)

A truly heart warming gesture, Amazing....................:)

Congratulations

Having Cereberal Palsy, and never having had relations before, the 1st time, I was with an SP, I made sure that I did some extra streches, before she came to see me. I was not sure how my body/muscles was going to react, to the stuff that we did together, but my ecerising did help A lot...... I am going to be sure to do some extra streching, before my next upcoming SP Visit.

Very, VERY erotic. You shoud write erotic novels........ nicely done..

I know as a disabled male in a wheelchair, I would be in favor of Legalized prrostition! Additional Comments: I know in some Europian countries were prostuition is legal, the government pays for disabled people to have someone come visit them and have relations with them, once a month. It would be nice if the Cannadian government would follow suite. Especally if you are disabled and, are on a fixed income.............. Additional Comments: just my opinion.............

Thank you all so much for your very kind words. It truly amazes me how nice and understanding all of you are :) Please Everyone, I am no hero. I am just a person who lives my life to the best of my Ability. thanks so much for your very heart warming words.

thanks so much for your kind words. It means a lot to me :) Additional Comments: Aww, you are so nice for saying That I am sweet, yes, it is Alex. I am also so very happ that Soleil and I are friendsy She is So nice and one of a kind :) Additional Comments: After I get into my bed from my chair, I need a lot of helping moving around, and getting into different postions. I can only move my body a very little bit on my own. This does not bother Soleil in the least, she pulls/pushes me around the bed until I/us are Comfortable. This can be difficult to do at times, but she does this with a smile :) This upcoming 2nd time together, should be a little easier, because we know each other better. Thanks for listening........

How are you all doing? My 25th birthday night is coming up really Soon. I am truly exited about this birthday because Soleil is making the 4 hour trip, to come out and spend my birthday night with me. She is such a nice lady. the two of us have been talking about this for awhile. Soleil, will be coming to see me on November 1st. My Actual birthday is on the 2nd, But Soleil wants to be the 1st person, to wish me a happy 25th birthday :) Isn't she the sweetest? she is so great. I have a very difficult life, and I do not get to have fun very often. Getting to see Soleil Again is going to be possibly the best birthday ever, for me She is going to be a very nice present for me :) this is going to be very special for me because, this is going to be only the 2nd time in my life, that I will be having relations. both times are going to are going to be/have been with Soleil. This is very specal to me because me haing a disability, I have a lot of special needs. With Soleil having visted me one already, she understands me and my situation, very well. with her showing so much compassion and having such a big heart, this is going to make the night spatacular. plus the fact that she is very, very good @ what she does does not hurt ether:) With her staying the whole night with me, is is great. there are several reasons for this. 1.we get to spend a nice amount of time together 2. with me not being able to walk, i have to use a lift to be transferred from my chair, to another place. i.e.-my bed. this takes time, but we will not have to rush, because we have a lot of time. this way we can enjoy ourselves to the fulliset, without any time restraints. 3. As I fall asleep that night, I can be held in her arms. This is a great feealing for me. Soleil is so nice and caring, that while we are dozing off to dreamland in each others arms, I will not have a disability, I will just be a person. Anyway, I truly lookinf forward to my upcoming birthday with Soleil. it is 2 weeks today, till our night together :)

well said.........

in my situation with my disability, I do not have many friends. it is hard for me to get out, and meet people. also, I do have a slight speech inpariment which makes it hard to understand me, at times. coming on cerb, makes me feel welcome. After getting the chance to meet Soleil, face to face, she has become a very close friend, to me. She is very caring, and takes the time to listen to my voice, when we talk with each other. after being with her, we have continued to talk, almost on a dailey basies. She understands me, and I find so great that we are able to talk on a personal level with her. it is a lot more then just the naughty stuff that we had done together, when she came and saw me awhile back, she is a true "friend" Thank you Soleil!!! All of you people here on cerb, are great as well.............

thank you for the kind words

Happy Birthday, Soleil. Enjoy your day.............

hey there, I am pretty much in the same situation as masterowls. I am also in a wheelchair. it is very hard for me to travel. when I had got together with a wonderful sp, she travlled 4 hours one-way, to be with me. she was truly wonderful, to me. she is coming back to be with me on my birthday, and I cannot wait. I am truly hourned that she is in my life. know her has really opened up my life.........

thx man......

thank you everyone for your ideas. they really helped..........

my mobility is not that could and I cannot put a condom on myself........ what kind of personal care are you going into?

Hello Everyone, I am a 24 year old male who is confined to a wheelchair for life. there is something I would like to discuss with you all. You See, I work with homecare staff throughout my day. Having the urge to maturbate during the day is something that I go through daily. However, I cannot pull my pants down myself, and I thinking asking my staff to help me do this would be a bit much and very embrassing. If I do it with my pants on, again everyone can tell. Even if my staff did pull my pants down for me, then they would have to help me clean up, and that would trul make me blush. I am able to pleassure myself when I am in bed, but another problem I have here is the trail of sicky white evidece left on the sheets in the morning. when my staff come to get me up in the morning, my staff can tell what I have been doing. this is a very dificult thing for me to deal with. Have only had the chance to have sex one time in my life so far(thx to an wonderful kind hearted sp, I might add) we will be getting together in November... the urge to pleassure myself during the day has increased. it is hard and very frusterating for me to wait till I go to bed. to pleassure myself. I watch porn during the day, but have to wait till bed for the porn to come in to use, so to speak,lol. Even if I don't watch porn, I still get horny. Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining or nothing ,life is life. I am just wondering if any of you have any suggestions for me on how to deal with this some what delicit situation. if you have any questions or comments about this feel free to PM me. thanks, Big AL Additional Comments: the title is supposed to say 'your thoughts' sorry for the spelling error

I updated my profile, hope this helps?