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  3. Posted

    Thanks for sharing your Christmas story Nikki. The greatest gift I received last year was a beautiful abandoned calico cat my neighbor found in the heating vent at a senior's home she worked for early morning. My little one got into the ducts for warmth from the cold and she was very lucky to be rescued by my friend before they did their morning laundry. She's a vocal girl and if she had not meowed, she would have probably perished when the laundry machines were started. I knew the day she came to my door she found me and has been a daily blessing and my best gift ever. She gives back to me every day so that's how I see "getting." I've fed and spoiled her greatly. She was emaciated and now full, possibly a little chubby, shiny and beautiful. That puts a smile on my face I cannot explain.

     

    I'm a constant contributor to FOAP as I can only physically accommodate two cats but always try to help as much as I can in support of other animals. Just like you can sponsor a child, you can sponsor an animal through various pet organizations. If I had children on my list this year that has a love for animals, what better gift to show their friends in the New Year of their new adopted new pet.

     

    It's so very true. We do need to give to receive and what we receive back from donating our time or funds to charitable organizations and helping out our fellow people, families and animals is truly a gift that keeps giving. There's no Iphone, Ipad or whatever those gadgets are I cannot spell that will do the same.

     

    I would like to add FOAP.

     

    http://www.foap.on.ca/

  4. Posted

    To add to the old re-runs.

     

    All In The Family

     

    The Jeffersons

     

    The Incredible Hulk

     

    Golden Girls-It makes me sad though knowing they're not with us anymore. Only Betty White remains. Wonderful actors and brilliant show that really set the stage for a more relaxed ideal about middle aged women and their dating, sex lives. Blanche was a very sexy mature lady. She set my standard at a young age that women and their sexual appeal is timeless.

  6. Posted

    Thanks everyone for your thoughts in this matter. To clarify, I would be doing this privately in a case where there was a no show with no attempt to contact me and I have to send them a message to ask what the reason was? Once was with a good regular client that did admit he was just too busy and skipped. I waited for hours as I did give him the time to contact me. He figured because he see's me often I wouldn't be annoyed. He's not a member here so I feel comfortable using this example without coming across as passive aggressive. I had him add an additional nominal fee for taking the time to prepare. He paid it gladly but he would not have if I did not speak up. I had mixed feelings about it though.

     

    I've just looked into this procedure and will not be advertising it to new clients but feel it's possibly necessary at times for a client that doesn't deserve to be blacklisted, but was inconsiderate.

     

    The clients I have yet to meet and they do not show, I do not speak to again as trust needs to be established. Hoping that makes sense and not coming across as unreasonable.

     

     

     

    Erin, I have no objections to a cancellation fee just not sure how practically it could work. Chances are if I no show - I'm not likely to want to pay a monetary penalty. I'll just not communicate with the lady. If you tried to get $ in advance I'm sure it is possible but does add practical problems and not as easy as handing the lady a donation at time of meeting. I think 'blacklist' of some kind is likely the easiest but if this isn't working to curb the problem than I guess other measures are needed.

     

    Incidently, I have NEVER been a 'no show' but late by a couple hours when a flight was delayed. But had the ability to text the lady with updates. And I have been 'no showed' on 3 times by different ladies. My recourse - well I guess they are 'blacklisted' as I wouldn't call them again.

     

    Easy to say...but respect both ways goes a long way and can lead to lots of admiration and good times.

     

    Cub

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    Good points. I have blacklisted. I'm very understanding of cancellations but no shows have no good reason without an immediate rebooking with valid reasoning. I should not have to call or track them down. In this case they were never serious about seeing me to start with.

     

    You're absolutely correct. Blacklisting does get the message across and they'll soon run out of ladies willing to see them if they continue this pattern.

     

    It's the ultimate in thoughtless behavior.

     

    Realistically the only way that a cancellation fee would work is if everyone was to get together and do it..

     

    However, I don't think that is going to happen and as a result it may alienate you and actually might turn off potential clients and cost you even greater losses long term.

     

    I totally get you, and we get no shows and last min cancellations too. It is really unfortunately part of the Ottawa scene. Totally sux, and if someone is a no show, or if we have to call the client to find out that he cant make it, we blacklist them.. Eventually if more ppl would do this I think the message would get across these guys.

  9. Posted

    I'm just wondering what the other ladies and gents thoughts are of implemented "no show" cancellation fee for the next apt. if the client does not rebook as soon as he's able? I've had a few no show's and am always willing to book again promptly after a cancellation if a rain check is made and the client had a valid reason. I'm very reasonable and understand life comes up. The reason I ask this, is I had one no show in particular that had a valid reason and let me know after I messaged him asking what happened. He had an good explanation. I offered this person a rain check and have yet to hear back. There was plenty of opportunity to rebook. As a result, if he possibly contacts me again months down the line it would be nice to have him make up the time I put in getting ready for the apt. I think there's still an absence of consideration when it comes to the matter of how much time we prepare to see our clients. It's not just the apt. time.

     

    Thoughts please? This in no way implies a fee if I have to cancel. In fact, when I have had to for a valid reason, I take a percentage off my rain check offer after I apologize profusely. I know it's implemented with a few travelling ladies as last minute cancellations and no shows are a very different thing in their situation.

     

    Thanks.

     

    E

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  10. Posted

    Thanks Megan. I think I may just be the only Indy here out West. I feel so far from the action. Are there any others? CMJ and Paradise are west as well but MP establishments.

     

    This thread should be moved to the massage area. I'm curious to see if there's other reco's for my area. It's lonely out here. :)

  11. Posted

    Update:

     

    I did ask MOD about this one particular thread as it was bumped up twice in less than one week with chit chat after several new reco's were made for other ladies. MOD agreed that it looked fishy but he can't do anything about it unless it's solicitation. The first time I brought this up, the provider was adding to her own reco. That is not allowed and was removed. I'm not a chronic complainer. This is the second time I have contacted MOD in this regard since I started here as it just didn't seem right to bump this thread back up after several other reco's were already made and the discussion for the other ladies was good. The timing was suspicious if you ask me? I do my part to make sure things are fair to us all but this one is now out of my hands.

     

    Let's do get back to those great recommendations. I'm the first one to recommend another lady as well and hoping it's kept happy for all of us.

     

    I agree wholeheartedly with Erin, Isabella and stevecurious. Its seems some members including Elite are bumping up a girl by adding little chit chat just as Erin first said.

  12. Posted

    I agree with the other advice given. All providers are different so asking the lady who interests you privately is the way to approach this. Sessions offered will range from therapeutic to a GFE style massage within those limits. Do your homework and you'll be able to tailor your questions specific to the lady you are interested in. There's lots here to look up. The massage and reco threads should help, as well as the advertisements.

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    This is my last thought in regards to your need to argue here. I wouldn't like to see this thread closed as a result and did mention in my last reply that these comments are attention seeking and should be ignored. You've got my attention for the last time so definitely fed you my attention for lunch.

     

    I don't think Skinflute refers to his comment "the lady in question" as the same meaning you have expressed in this thread. I still don't think it excuses your comments or behaviour so please just let it go. You've said enough for me at least.

     

    Much thanks to the positive Gents that have made my time as an MA special. Please don't ever change that.

     

    That was my point. Thank you! I was being trashed in a manner that was inconsistent with what people thought I intended. I wasn't trying to insult anyone. I too have given gifts/tips but only if have excellent rapport with my have MPAs.

  14. Posted · Edited by Sensual Erin
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    I'm an MA but I don't like where this thread is headed in regards to publicly asking SP's if they would do "extra" because you're either special, a repeat client or give gifts and cash donations to try to persuade. This is a sense of entitlement if you ask me. This is YMMV and kept private between the provider and client. I have stopped seeing clients that have thought like this due to the discomfort.

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  15. Posted

    Jessica mentioned this idea as well. Do get the verification form your provider as not everyone drinks and a bottle of wine given to a non drinker can be awkward. What an original thought with the oysters. :) I've never had a Gent bring me oysters.

     

    I have enjoyed a bottle here and there with a client that stays over an hour. Whether we drink or not, remember it's the season where the police are cracking down more on drinking and driving so just make sure you have enough time with your provider so you don't leave over the limit. It doesn't take much these days.

     

    Gift certificates are great! I received one from La Senza last year and it was very much appreciated.

     

    Money is a easy way out, but it's not very creative.

    A bottle of wine is nice. Once, after I verified with the SP, I brought some fresh oysters and a bottle of white wine, and we shared.

     

    A gift certificate is also very appreciated. Specially during this Christmas time.

  17. Posted

    I complete agree with you. This is a thoughtful thread and there's always a negative apple or two that will pour their rain all over us. :) He's on ignore here so pay no attention.

     

    I suggest you pay attention to this particular ladies interests. I've received gifts from computer monitors, computer speakers, to a new shower handle. Money can be cold so just pay attention to her needs and you may just find yourself picking up something very personable for her. My gifts were not always flowers, perfume or things the guys think we may like because we're females. ;) Hope that helps but may take a little effort on your part to dig in on her most wanted list.

     

    This thread really wasn't meant to be a flame war lol. I was asking a question and got my answer, now are there any suggestions on gifts? Or just typical flower and what not... Cash just has no thought put into them lol

  18. Posted

    You're obviously now just trying to cause trouble, attention seeking or stirring the pot twice? What is your point exactly? You got our attention on the first comment. Please keep your poor attitude for other places that thrive on possible slander and gossip. There's another site for that and it's not here.

     

     

    Don't shoot the messenger. I wasn't trying to say that it is true for all MPAs or SPs but it happens more often than you would like to think...but its a fantasy right?
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  21. Posted

    I like how this thread lightened up. It's all in good fun and nobody was harmed or any packages revealed. Now here's a package! Sorry guys but in honor of the "best of."

     

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    I'm now craving gummy worms. :)

  24. Posted

    I agree. I've been a recent study in the Art of Conflict and communicating effectively. Understanding what the other is trying to say and accepting others opinions whether they agree with you or not, is not argumentative. It's actually the opposite and we can bicker effectively. It's human communication. I don't think the Christmas Spirit is what should encourage us to communicate effectively? Especially when we're a cultural community. I do celebrate and love this time of year but it doesn't have any impact on how I conduct myself or what I stand up for.

     

    I think everyone has learned something here communicating in this forum. However, I will always express myself whether it's agreed upon or not and from what I have seen, we're not too bad around here. As long as we are not attacking, it's bound to happen. I've seen very few threads of this nature and I don't think they're enough to raise an awareness. They're few and far between. Tempers will flare anywhere whether here, at the Office or now in the malls with the holiday hustle and bustle. It's how we understand others opinions even though not our own, not take things personally, be respectful and just not open a thread that may bring out an emotional reaction. Anger is the worst emotion to make us look silly or pulling tantrums when our opinions are not in agreement with the masses. Sometimes stepping away and coming back is what's needed for perspective and calming the storm.

     

    As Cat said on another touchy thread. Go eat some gummy bears and relaxxxxxxx......

     

    There's no changing this and if we did, well, this place wouldn't be fun or expressive now would it? We're all originals and express our personalities differently. As humans, our flaws are what make us perfect.

     

    Happy Holidays everyone!

     

    I agree with you Pete. I've seen a lot of threads go bad in the last year or so for no good reason. I really hope people make an effort to understand others points of view and exercise tolerance if those views are different than their own.

     

    Lets keep things positive in the CERB family tradition.

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