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Nicki has been organizing the social next week and as far as I can tell is doing a great job and I was looking forward to meeting her to thank her (personally & professionally) for her efforts, now thanks to PP, I'm going to have ulterior motives and fantasies on my mind!

Don't know whether to thank you PP or curse you!...lol

As a guy well past 40, and I use the word "generally" very liberally, I prefer women over 25 - YMMV

I once heard many years ago from a famous source and I can't remember the source, who said that men shouldn't "date" women younger than half their age plus ten years......

Musings from a single (again) guy who is into emotional maturity...(OK sensitive breasts drive me crazy as well)

I too had the lovely occasion to visit with Jasmin today and found it to be one of the most exquisite experiences I've ever had. To put this in perspective, much as can2904 offered, I have traveled quite a bit as well, including many, many trips to Thailand. She is simply a sensual, sweet, sublimely sexual person that makes you feel like a king. Her "after" pillow talk warms the soul and is accentuated by her lovely feminine laughter.

I too thoroughly encouraged her to visit again and she indicated that she will be back in June or July.

Simply a lovely, sweet and talented young lady. We visited this afternoon and it was simply divine. She said that she is thinking about a June or July visit when the weather is a little warmer - more to follow at a latter date

Definitely, definitely hot! with exclamation marks in my view! Having said that, lets qualify it a bit - 2 legged camels only, no costumes.......

Great thread, made my night!

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$@%&, I hit the send button before reading Old Dog's reply, exception is the right hand photo....lol

Weird works for me on this one, but gotta love the creativity of the question - thx!

Much as I don't like the concept of a Canadian monarchy, I will watch the British royals do their thing via highlights. Kate is definitely hot on many levels as well. I also hope Dufus (aka Charles) doesn't embarass William & Kate.

Corsets (Thank you Cathy), thongs, stockings and classicly fashioned nighties work for me big time! Oh yes and bras that open in the front.

"The thrill of victory and the agony of defeat" to use a older sports broadcasting term from the ABC Wide World of Sports days comes to mind. What I'm learning from this site that the homework capability that this site provides, saves a whole bunch of guessing - no guarantees but sure improves the odds of a warm, thought provoking incredible satisfying SAFE experience - repeat at your own risk / reward.

Musings from a guy with ecletic & sensual interests

Am going through a bit of a rough patch right now, but have always found that solitude in regular small doses is good for the soul - it has a rejuvinating effect. I find this site and the folks here in particular, very honest, introspective, articulate and like to let their collective hair hang down.

Musings from a guy who values heart felt & honest conversation (no saintly stuff thought!)

Come on folks, what is this site for? Not political surveying.....

Musings from a political junkie who loves the art of sexuality and sensitivity....

Come on folks, I know we are a community here but the common thread is not politics.

I'm a bit of a politico junkie in real life and enjoy a great debate. To be honest though, I really would rather share politcal conversations in other venues - CERB is not the platform for airing political rants / views / opinions in my humble view.

Remember, why did we log on here - To talk about a Harper / Igggy / Layton threesome - not.....

Musings from an amateur political junkie who loves the ladies...

Curling up with a good book, pour a small glass of wine, turn on the fire place, get the cat to curl alongside works for me...

Musings from a guy feeling sorry for himself....

Hey Folks,

Can we all have a group hug here and move on. There is so much more positive to focus on in our site...

Musings from a guy who wants to move upwards and onwards (like Tarzan or Superman, lol)...

Voice messages, full mail boxes, auto generated out of the area messages, full mail boxes, unanswered calls, stupid, insensitve repetitive callers are a new reality in my view - and yet,just another minor challenge to deal with in the grand scheme of things in our world.

The challenge is to market the SP / hobbyist product in the most effective manner. Hmmmm; CERB;& Escorts - Canada comes to mind, PM's, continued private call blocking and all the other measures I'm sure our experienced SP's are very familiar with.

As a hobbyist, I feel badly for the ladies but know that the leadership (& solutions) will prevail, and yes the world's oldest profession will continue to prosper, thankfully.

Thank you ladies, you all make my day more often than you know.

Musings from a techically challenged, but an eager student....

Americal Idol, is that another upcoming comic book super hero movie?

OK am being a bit of a jerk here but have never seen it (lol).

Great reality check Berlin!

Normally I'm the type of person to let things soak a bit before responding in situaltions like this (old bull vs young bull for those of you who know the "fable"). But in this instance it has been pretty clear in my simple mind.

I thoroughly enjoy this site, for a myraid of reasons - most of them thinking about the SP's, gaining insight, information and having sexual fun in general. Having said that, am totally understanding of challenging circumstances.

At the end of the day though, I booked a flight to Ottawa, am staying at a 5 star hotel to attend the CERB social on 5 May and am really looking forward to this. It is for one night and I want to have fun!

As much as I empathize with those who have challenging personal circumstances, which includes me (by the way), I am not venturing to this exciting event (my view) to be socially be responsible. I want adventure, laughter, new friends and yes Berlin's "TITTIES" (figuratively not literally).

One of the great things about this site is the ability to accomodate a diverse and eclectic range of interests and views. However, the figurative "TITTIES" work big time for me at this event.

Musings from CERBite with a little (OK, alot) of grey hair....

Short version is full disclosure by hobbyist is absolutely fair game! The last thing I want to share with a lady is her worry about the "safety"of my character while we share intimate times. If she or I is uncomfortable, the experince will likel;y be less than it could be.

I feel pretty strongly about this one by the way.

Musings from a guy that likes to hold open doors for ladies

This is my first CERB thread and mainly aimed towards the hobbyists, but please SP's please feel free to join in.

What gives you the most satisfaction (no stupid pun here) from engaging and sharing on CERB? Let's skip the obvious: contacts, business, etc. Is it the forbidden, naughty, intellectual engagement, humurous or pure fun/other reasons.

For me, it is a bit of most of the above, I love sexuality, honesty and intellect that rises from most of the threads. I really appreciate the sincerity and CERB willingness to share some of life's most challenging/sensitive and humourous moments. I've only been a memeber for a few months but value you collective wisdom immensely.

What works for you on this site and doesn't work?

Call me old fashioned and maybe uninformed. I just read bits of this thread. The costumes are great in my view once the folks have really got to know one another. However, from my old fashioned point of view, spending time looking in to the eyes, thereby offering a passage in to the soul offers the greatest opportunity to seize the cherished moment.

Oh yes, a hot bod is a no brainer.....

Musings from a guy working to late.....

This thread has stuck home a bit (a lot actually). I have been "between smokes" for many months now and am very interested in the feedback here - especially from SP`s who have an awareness, sensitivity or preference/not for hobbyists who smoke or don't. From my point of view, I don't care if an SP does or not as long as she does not have a strong smoke presence in her home and/or on her breath.

Musings from a 429 friendly, former tobacconist enthusiast - how's that for a handle?

As I understand things, this can be a competive environment, not just in Winnipeg, but across the land. Having said that, and as a CERB member and hobbyist - going classy and using CERB members (especially well established and/or referred ones) will just make your "hobbying life" easier, more prediable, fulfilling and generally more fun.

Please note that this is not a general service announcement (lol), just,

musings from a type "A" organized kind of guy....

I really enjoyed Fortunateone's informative response which put things in clear and concise terms. She should set up marketing company for MP's! Thanks,

Thanks RG! This is one of those stories that when one is feeling down or hard on themselves then all one has to do is "play" it forward

Hey Vanessa,

As a bit of grey hair (OK, alot), The following might have some influence on your feelings and outlook.

GUYS, who say these kings of things usually do so to overcome a personal sense of negative self worth, tons of insecurity, lack of self confidence and immatuity in general.

They feel that "puffing up their chest" (at someonme else's expense) in front of what they consider their peers makes them feel proud - like a peacock strutting their feathers in full bloom. The reality is that he is likely so insecure inside that the only way to make himself look good in front & gain acceptance or enhance his own percieved stauts, of what he desperately wants is at your percieved expense. Its not you, just a sad individual with not much going on in his life.

You're hot (inside & out), he knows it and wants to strut himself at your expense in front of others. Please also know that guys know that those who talk about "thier supposed conquests", embellish and embellish alot, usually directly propeoprtionate to the amount of booze in play.

Short message is for get about the jerk and move forward with confidence & enthusisam.

Musings from an older guy who once heard "its a shame youth is wasted on the young"....lol