Jade-S (Retired)

Peachy how are you at swinging on the pole? :icon_biggrin: Dim lights, good beat. You're dancing only for him... Its hot, sexy and the travel poles are fairly inexpensive. And easy to put up and take down. And as for clothes anything you have works they come off anyway during, or after ;)

Sadly, Sophia no! but next time I do I will make sure I take one or two! lol

I've been known to be used as a fruit buffet table a time or two. Use your belly button or...emh! for dipping! Or just licking...hahah

Haha! Sophia isnt that the most awkward moment! LOL

Isnt it odd that always we do what just comes naturally without much thought until someone gives us pause to give it thought. Im a lefty, l lean to my left for a hug, but tilt my head to the right for a kiss. And during my head tilting re-enactment I tried tilting to the left and not only did it feel unatural. I gave myself a kink in my neck! LOL :lol:

I've not laughed so much in weeks as I did reading this thread! Thank you! I needed that :)

I have to tell you all. Ive read and reread this thread many times. Absorbing everyones input, thoughts and equally valued opinions. Each of which I am truly grateful for. As each one is thought provoking, in a very positive way. Sophia reminded me what a great service we provide. It is a really good feeling to see the smile on someones face when he feels hes been cherished if only for a short time, our hope is that the smile remains long after. Carrie reminded me that people that love me, respect me, will also love me enough to respect my choices even when they dont agree with them. Wrinkledintime reminded me that one our greatest gifts is an open mind. Backrubman reminded me to believe in myself and why I do what I do. Piano reminded me that no matter what service industry your in? You are almost always going to have to listen to someone complain. And truth be told...I'd much rather it be a friend...than a client! lol DukeSSk thank you for your promise to show each lady your respect. We may be an SP but we still have emotions. Respect goes a long way. Gentleman11 reminded me that each day I will learn something new, about someone or something. Erotilix thank you for valuing and recognising our side. Loopie...you made me LOL literally! thank you for reminding me that some people are just assholes, I'm not going to change them! .still chuckle when I read it :icon_lol: Mrnice2 Thank you for reminding me to remain true to myself and to be grateful for an incredible gift. Your insight is...incredible. Samantha thank you for reminding me for reminding me that whatever fears, judgements she has, are truly about herself and not me. Nicholette thank you for the reminder that it is what I think of me, ultimately, that matters. MrGreen thank you for reminding me to let go. I wouldnt normally thank each person personally, but I wanted each of you to know that with your thoughts, your voice, it impacts. Even the smallest word of encouragement and support goes incredibly far. More than the gifts of something I've gained from each of you, you've also given me a glimpse of each of your personalities Each unique. Which is truly what this thread is about. Individuality and choices, respecting each one, having an open mind and being willing to learn from someone else. So thank you for taking the time to encourage, support, teach and share a bit of yourselves as well. CERB and its members are truly remarkable Sincerly, Jade xoxo

I am, as you know new to CERB and I have to say the gentlemen here, are exactly that. This community is a place where even new, you feel welcomed and accepted. Insight, humour and a great deal of care are provided. We are encouraged and treated with dignity respect and that Gentleman is what makes you Gentlemen. Thank you for that. Jade xoxo P.S. The ladies of CERB are superb in their own right. Thank you to them as well

Sophia... Thank you so much for the reminder.... I truly enjoy what I do, for the reasons you stated plus many more. So it's nice to be reminded of the positive side of what we do. Not often do I give the negative any thought until someones judgement is so critically handed to me. Hearing the words spoken from a stranger, in a news article or even the portrayal of the industry in movies or on TV. Unjustified, it riles me to be steroetyped. So it is sometimes hard to hear, but hearing them from a friend? Hurtful that even when your personality is known, the judgement is the same. There is still the sterotype and somehow in that space of time in someones eyes, you've become less. How what I do? Suddenly changes who I am. I suppose thats what made it so difficult, yesterday. I am by nature not a critical person, and I stick to the old addage of "Live and Let Live" I don' t beleive that one choice is right for everyone. I dont expect that my choices are choices that everyone would make. I knew, and know even now that there will likely never be a day when this profession is seen as just that, a profession. We will always judged by someone who believes they have a higher moral standard. An SP lives with this every day. So do numerous other people. For many different reasons. Discrimination is everywhere. Maybe for now all we can hope for is acceptance and understanding it would be a good place to start. As they say...One whisper added to 1000 others becomes a roar of discontent. This is my whisper......

I dont often get upset (or try not to) at the stereotyping and demoralization in comments regarding SP's. As have some (all)of you, we've heard them all. Druggies, abused chilhood, ect ect.... The comments, the disgust in their faces, their tone. So very frustrating not to not say "look at me, am I any of those things!?" To explain: I was having a long overdue lunch with a friend. It went from nice to worse in the space of a heartbeat. The subject of Escorts/courtesans (my words, hers were much less polite)came up. And she went off. Full tangent rant. How SP's are nothing but common tramps that can't be bothered to do an honest days work. (btw I have a "real" job) but lay on their backs. All because they (we)need a fix, have daddy issues or think they are nothing more than a piece of meat and have no self-worth. I was absolutely horrified and absolutely furious. And well me being me...decided to say to her (as I've a smart mouth on occasion) I need a new duo partner are you interested? LOL She didnt find the comment nearly as amusing as I did. and...she went on to say that if I had even considered becoming an SP she would never speak to me again (short version ) I'ts quite something to realise in that space of that heartbeat who you ARE would and could be diminished to what you do, in someones eyes due to their own narrowmindedness. and that you would be tossed away despite all you had done. All in all, it was the comment of self-worth that got to me the most. and infuriated me, mostly the injustice of the comment. Its because of my strength, determination, and self-worth that I can do what I do. Because of my self-worth that I beleive I deserve more for my family and myself than living off a system or making $10 dollars an hour. (waitressing, and honestly you get exploited far more as a server than you do being an SP) I have the opportunity to truly enjoy my encounters and spend many wonderful hours with truly intriguing gentleman who often teach me about places, things that I know nothing of. In return for the services I provide Im shown by my clients my worth to them by being treated with dignity and respect. (not so being a waitress) Her life is not perfection, she tolerates far more from her husband than I would from a client I've just met. But its not for me to judge. It's her life, her choice. Still, it made me wonder at the end of our conversation, who had more self-worth, her? or me? Im sorry, I dont even know if this made any sense at all! lol Jade xo

Just a few things about me..... One of my favourite things is the way it feels when slipping in between clean cool sheets with freshly shaved and lotioned legs. I love lilacs. I love driving a sled, dirtbike or quadrunner and often ditch my helmet in the bush. (I know not safe!) haha I speed...ALL the time! Im forever losing my keys. House keys, car keys you name it.? I lose them. I rarely watch TV, but when I have time I love movies. I love the silence, in fact crave it. (which is probably why I dont watch Tv) lol Fall is my favourite time of year. I always trust my intuition. I spend time reflecting and improving myself, as often as I can on the inside because I think we can learn something new about ourselves everyday. And, sometimes I ramble...see above :)

I've been sitting here, reading some of the thought provoking threads regarding ettiquete, whether it be from an initial email, pm, initial meet and greet or an encounter. And one thing continually strikes me. In this service regarding intimacy, why is it some dont recognise the mind body connection? From the very first it begins with nothing more than a thought. Who is she? What does she look like? Will I find a gratifying experience? The excitment in a reply, the nervousness that comes with an initial encounter. Us ladies are no different. Our (my) hope is to seduce, enchant, charm, tease, entice and please you, not only your body but your mind as well. It shows. In the surroundings, the preparation, from the scent I'm wearing to the lingerie I've chosen. All to engage your senses. Sight, smell, sound, and then comes in the ability to have a thought provoking conversation. Now touch, once again, only a thought to begin with, I want to touch (her/him) here, or there. Ect you get the drift...lol I see no rush to reduce the pleasure that can be brought in an encounter from not taking the time to think about what will bring more pleasure. Even "that feels so good", is the mind only enhancing that pleasure. I may not kiss you during an encounter, but it wont stop me from hovering my mouth a half inch from yours asking you only to think about how much you want to.... We often want most what we cant have! lol Our minds are the biggest sex organ in our body. Why not utilize it to its fullest potential? Just my two cents :)