MsManda

Good boy 😂

Most people are actually great; I've been particularly fortunate and I grateful for my clients ❤️ We're just showing why we can't promise everything to everyone who messages, because we've learned the hard way to use ymmv

GO WASH YOUR ASS RIGHT NOW 😂

I think it's an act of protest at being told what to do lol Like they think we won't notice? Or that it'll help their experience? Idk man 😂 It's not like we WANT to have to tell em to go back to the shower 😭

I mean, that's kind of the point lol and I don't mind, it's part of being in the service industry But they should also consider the other person involved for such intimate things, if they want the best time possible We're humans, not sexbots lol

This part And it happens more than the dudes here realize, I think 😭 We're known for being a safer bet than random civvy hookups, but that also means we have to be responsible for our health and safety over everything, including men's requests sometimes A lot of guys see ymmv as a cop out, but it's there for a reason

It's just tricky because yes, things can be on the table, but no, that doesn't mean that every encounter gets every single acronym. Having a checklist doesn't allow things to flow as smoothly, and sometimes the flow doesn't hit every single acronym or request in 60 mins 🤷 She also may enjoy certain things, but not with every person.. Some people bite and my experience matters too 😭😂 Lol well I'm glad at least one person took my 💩 post to heart. Spread the good word (and those cheeks) hahhaha

Not regarding extras, but about the acronyms being offered or not Hygiene should be a given Ymmv because of hygiene etc in this industry, should be a given, not a complaint Just some noteworthy examples: I have met a man who loved to daty and it was very important to him. He booked a longer appt, but when I arrived, his breath smelled like rotting gym shoes in a way that mouthwash could certainly not fix He thought he was freshly showered etc 🤷 another shower wouldn't have helped Without giving more detail, I'm sure you can see how this made for an awkward time for all involved Many have been sent back to the shower, only to return to bed still dirty in the most necessary places, or take fake showers FAKE SHOWERS 😭 So no, we can't be expected to provide every single service to every single person who asks. I've almost totally stopped agreeing to specifics beforehand now, and stress ymmv, because I had an entire year of people either pooping my bed, or having the most severe hygiene issues I've encountered in my whole career. That ended, but it was an entire year, every city I toured, because apparently the shit comes in waves 💩😭 Y'all are worried about losing some cash on the gamble, but sps literally gamble their health and safety with every booking they accept. It's actually in the community's best interest that us sps do decline some people some things that they want We have to prioritize ourselves, just like you do ♥️

To play devils advocate myself.. 😈 We all know that massage doesn't usually carry the same ymmv risk as certain expected gfe services would need to 🤷 He said in his original post that he was denied for hygiene I don't know you @Halifaxseeker, and I'm certainly not trying to shame anyone, so I won't elaborate on why someone might be denied based on ymmv for gfe specific services, but this isn't the same as ordering a massage, or a cheeseburger lol McDonald's doesn't care about the state of your hygiene 🤷 These are higher risk/ intimate services, which is why they're ymmv at all

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This is too loaded for even me to wanna touch it 🤦 .. But.. 👀🍿

Idk.. Lyla members make up such a small portion of the overall community here, that I'd still keep an eye on them for dates, if you're interested in them 👀 I follow providers on Twitter/X who are never mentioned here on lyla, but must do well because they keep coming back 🙂

He sees us like the cops do Nhi No human involved 🤦

Thank goodness this guy doesn't dictate the norms and standards omg 🤦

And interestingly enough, they don't make true crime docs about any of the above .. But they do about what happens to sps Sounds like we're not actually asking too much considering we risk our lives to meet strange men Clearly, even if we find clients in a reputable place like this, it's doesn't mean that we'll automatically be treated with respect People tend to act more respectfully when they leave a trail vs anonymous