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  4. Posted

    I don't have a lot of experience with female condoms. However I had a willing participant in my little "experiment". So, here's my "findings" lol...

     

    1. LUBE LUBE LUBE! As was previously mentioned, because it blocks the woman from self lubricating, lube is absolutely crucial, and the more the better. I found that it felt far better for BOTH involved if there was a sufficient amount of lube applied!

     

    2. I found it easy to insert! And remember, if you don't get it in deep enough on your own, your partner can push it there when he gets inside :)

     

    3. I still had vaginal orgasms, so my ability to do so wasn't hindered by the female condom.

     

    4. My partner found it as CLOSE to bareback as he had ever felt... except we had protection!

     

    5. We tried it in VARIOUS positions... missionary, doggy, cowgirl -- all were successful!

     

    6. Yes, the look is different - and it's just - different. But it's also a matter of getting used to it. Imagine if all we saw in porn was female condoms? No one would question it!

     

    All in all, I am now a huge supporter and will use them when and if a client requests them! They are also INCREDIBLE For duos, as there isn't a need for changing condoms between partners! ALSO would be wonderful for clients who may struggle with maintaining an erection :)

     

    Try it!!! You might just like it :)

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  6. Posted

    As a new member I have just studied this thread from start to finish with an absolute fascination. It offered an amazing insight from a group of very honest individuals.

     

     

     

    My question is in the area of how taxes are paid or not?

     

     

     

    Since many SP's consider their activities as a business or sole proprietorship, so therefore an income/expense statement is prepared compiled with supporting documents as a basis for a annual federal tax filing. Once filed the CRA will usually request tax prepayments for the current fiscal year based on the previous year net income. All sorts of questions from compiling a revenue journal to allowable expenses. How about line items for "good will" and "depreciation"?

     

     

     

    There is also the question of how or if GST is reported and paid?

     

     

     

    My simple mind is also pondering the area of a CRA audit. I'm having trouble picturing an auditor showing up at your door. They say " We are from the CRA and we are here to help"

     

     

     

    I chuckle when I think of the "ins and outs" of the above questions.

     

     

     

    Any comments are welcome.

     

     

    Would you ask someone who runs a computer shop these questions? What about a restaurant owner? Hair salon?

     

    No? That's cause it's none of your business.

     

    Just like now.

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  12. Posted

    Isabella, I probably shouldn't speak for others, but at a guess I'd say it's not that they don't care about a provider's safety, but that the thinking is if they were having sex with their wives it would likely be unprotected sex and so the risk of transmission would simply be so much greater.

     

    So safety and considerations of a provider's health is of course important, but where it's probably hard to explain to a spouse why you suddenly think they need to use condoms all the time, using protection with a provider is a given.

     

     

    Just so you're aware, this concern is valid for SP's too!!! :)

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  13. Posted

    There is no such thing as "condom shock".

     

    There are several types of condom allergies, either to latex or spermicide -- thankfully there are alternatives that address both of these issues. Safe sex practices are available to everyone, regardless of allergies.

     

    Additionally, if "condom shock" means losing an erection when you put one on, then that's something that could be addressed by means of a female condom.

     

    There are options. Good luck and be safe.

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  14. Posted · Edited by Miss S. Lane
    Hit post too soon!! Lol

    I think bartering can be a very slippery slope and one that needs to be approached with the utmost sensitivity for the SP. I am very uncomfortable with bartering because it has a tendency to set a precedence. IF the SP is the one to suggest it, as others have said, and it is on her terms (but beneficial for both) then it can work.

     

    That being said, I prefer to avoid it. I've been burned in the past, and I did stop seeing a client who tried to use bartering as a negotiation tool.

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  15. Posted

    Is it considered outing to refer to people's different handles on various forums?

     

     

     

    Example - if a SP is 'Jane' on cerb and 'funnylady' on t*rb.

     

     

    In this instance, MsSarah, "outing" refers to an SPs working identity being linked with her personal one, and her being "outed" as a sex worker in her personal life.

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  16. Posted

    Mmmkay and eh isn't upspeaking!!! It's ending a thought or sentence with a question. He's talking about tone. Read his examples out loud raising the tone of your voice at every ?

     

    I agree, it's infuriating!

  18. Posted

    Further to what Malika said, I have endometriosis and struggled with heavy, prolonged bleeding. After BCP failed, and an IUD also failed... I bled for THREE MONTHS STRAIGHT!!! I bought my fair share of soft cups and worked anyway. It was no big deal. Should I have stayed home for three months with no income?

     

    Thankfully I had an ablation and it was the best decision I ever made. No. More. Period. Lol

     

    This is a normal part of life!!!

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  19. Posted

    I am a firm believer in authenticity vs mechanics. I certainly enjoy "certain services", however I MUCH prefer to arrange a date and have things unfold organically. Usually the conversation, the laughter and closeness builds an intimate tension that spills over into erotic sensuality. But it's natural, not pre-planned.

     

    Just my opinion (and not bad since I haven't had coffee yet lol)

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  25. Posted

    Ok -- there are a few things that jumped out at me as I read this thread, both the OP post and the comments.

     

    1. A woman needs to disclose when it's that time of the month? That seems awfully private, and extreme.

     

    2. Women in this industry REGULARLY, and SUCCESSFULLY, work through their period with things such as sponges or soft cups. It happens ALL the time.

     

    3. How mortified this poor woman must have felt by the completely immature way you reacted. Clearly the sponge became dislodged. And you know what? Menstruation is a fact of life. She didn't know that happened, or mean for it to. She's likely worked through her period COUNTLESS times with no issue.

     

    4. Asking women to not work during their period is ridiculous.

     

    5. Taking the donation and insulting her further by leaving $40?!!?!! It was an unfortunate incident that wasn't planned. It was dealt with poorly by you, and that poor woman wasn't given a chance to correct the situation -- and then ALSO had to lose out on her pay for that booking? Complete and utter disrespect.

     

    SO much wrong with this!!!!!!

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