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As long as the reasons that brought you here remain, I don't think retirement will be weighing on your mind. Maybe guilt or finances could cause one to retire, or contemplate it, but if the reasons remain, you will likely drift back.

Hopefully one day you will be able to simply say "it's time".

Retirement = stop seeing escorts?

It seems like you are saying that seeing escorts is a bad thing.

To say guilt or finances could cause someone to stop seeing escorts implies that it is a bad thing to see an escort.

"Hopefully one day you will be able to simply say "it's time""

This statement says it all. I don't agree, I don't think I need to stop seeing escorts, I don't think it is a problem that I see escorts.

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Dude, "against" is entirely your own insertion there. Huh. It's almost as if we just did our own little Rorschach test, but with my words instead of pictures!

 

I don't see the division as remotely adversarial, it just reflects two different conceptual spaces.

You are entitled to your own reality, it does not make it right, no matter how popular it is.

It's been over a year and a half since I started this thread and have had met many more woman over the year. I have met women from very young to middle age. They offer different experiences, not because of the age, but because of their experience. Some of the young girls have had many experiences, but not life experiences. Older women have been through many life experiences, many loves, marriages children. They know what to expect from life and know that us older men want more then physical sex, we need to be held, and kissed and cuddled. With most young girls, it is just physical, and some do it just for the money. But sometimes you meet a young girl, that has had many life experiences, and they know how to please a man. In general women around 30 seem to be the most fun, still young and horny but experienced. But as always, YMMV, each girl is different and you will always be surprised. :)

Your posts/threads are very suspect. You've made many general points in your post, I'm not sure any are of a result of experience though.

You are a thread machine SomeGuy.....My answer to your question is , it depends.

It depends on the situation, it depends on the guy, it depends on the woman.

This is a question that is highly subjective.

If I were to find a "civilian" ;) that fulfilled my sexual desires and need for affection I would likely retire as well. Until such a time (if it ever comes), body and bank account willing, I will seek what I require here.

Keep your bank account stoked. You will be here a long time. What you seek can only be bought.

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It's not community in the sense of "we're special and others keep out!", but rather "knows and gets it" vs. "doesn't know and doesn't get it".

 

 

It is a community in the sense that it is us against them. You can differentiate the parties as you will.

CERB is a funny place, in many cases it seems some members here have the us against the world mentality. When I saw a thread about retirement I assumed it was about someone who was retiring after long life of employment. Not so.

I read members on CERB talking about people who do not hire escorts as "civilians"... like you're in the military? Here on CERB that statement makes sense only because it gives you a sense of "community". THEY, don't understand us.

Curiosm7 please don't take this personal, I've read your posts and you seem like a great guy, I'm glad you and your SO have come to a mutual understanding regarding your interaction with a/some MP's.

Just giving some thoughts from an "outsider".

Plus, Throne Speeches in general have a little bit of everything in them to appeal to every possible voter's interests. A lot of it turns out to be fluff that is forgotten or never acted on.

Generally speaking not worth the paper they're printed on.

As long as it is quick and easy to complete, it shouldn't be a problem.

I agree, I would be indifferent, but I wouldn't say I would jump through any hoops to see the SP.

The examples you've given wouldn't be a problem for anyone I wouldn't imagine.

This same question seems to get asked over and over. You haven't asked about anyone in particular so do some due diligence with the pictures (tineye, google image search) and search as many forums as you can for intel. Other than that it's a crapshoot.

TEFLON: Comes out so slick, clean and easy that you don't even feel it. No trace of anything on the toilet paper, you have to look in the bowl to be sure you did it.

My favorite.

I've been to places where there was a TV playing porn. The only thing it was good for was to pass the time while I waited for the lady to come back to the room.

I find it distracting (porn or just regular TV), I want all her attention on me and I want all my attention on her.

When I was a kid we had a next door neighbor who made taffy apples, it was my favorite house on the block.

what Tineye is and how to use it. It will help you out quite a lot.

Google image search is really good too.

What's next, taxi style metres?

What's the meter start at :)

I think you're out of luck. It seems you like the Asian ladies since you keep trying with so little success so I'm wondering what it is that you're disappointed with in your encounters? I've only seen a couple ladies from VIPOTG but in both cases they were young, attractive and I enjoyed myself.

I really miss Jasmin Thai :sad:

The most beautiful SP I have ever been with.

Called today, they said she'll be back around Christmas.

 

 

Good, so no body should complain then when the provider turn the TV to sports channel to watch the hockey game. It is time for money.

Well actually guys do complain about this, but what can a client do? A client has a couple of options, leave and get nothing out of the encounter or accept it and get what you can out of the encounter.

This is called gambling and we are not licensed by the government to run private casinos.

It is somewhat of a gamble, for both parties, with an encounter. That's why I always suggest to newbies to do as much research as possible before an encounter. There is no guarantee when you see a provider that it will be a mutually satisfying situation, hence, it is a gamble.

"Time for Money" Exactly! It's what the game is all about.

 

Peace

MG

You pays your money and you takes your chances, period. No contract.

Has anyone been here lately? If so do you know if Coco still works there?

The one you elude too and I'll quote you again here (copy/pasted)

 

"I always thought that the general consensus was that all men were dogs and would do what ever they needed to to get laid"

 

For me and other gentlemen seeing companions is much more than just about sex. It is the emotional connection, conversation, sharing time together, sometimes even friendships developed. This lifestyle is about mutual respect and mutually beneficial. For me it has nothing to do with being a dog or doing whatever to get laid.

But your posts I'm guessing are reflective of what society's stereotype of a client are. Frankly it's hard to destigmatize clients when there is one hobbiest here through his posts perpetuating that same stigma.

And frankly I resent being painted by the same brush

It's interesting that you need to use my words to describe your version of the "stigmatized stereotype of a client".

The statement that "all men are dogs" was not originated by me. It is a statement that is commonly used by women (and not denied by many men). I'm surprised by your reaction to it, I really am.

I understand individuals saying that people who are close to them would be surprised that they see escorts, but I do not believe in this day and age that people stereotype the type of man who see escorts, they realize that men of all types see escorts. Rich, poor, beautiful, ugly, married, single, gay, straight.

There isn't a stereotype of a man that sees escorts, I think you are underestimating the general public.

And me, if I told people I know that I see professional companions, they would look at me shocked, because I don't fit the stigmatized stereotype of a client.

What is your definition of the "stigmatized stereotype of a client"?

I think the thing I'd say to try to address the stigma is EXACTLY what Nathalie did so wisely in her first post: "these are the very same guys you know in your own life, and there's nothing wrong with them. It's not the clients (or SPs) that are faulty; it's your own ideas about sex and sex work."

I don't have any data to support my opinion, it's just that, my opinion. I believe that today, people in general have a broader view of the type of man that visits sex workers, ie, the everyman.

Yes there will always be people who sterotype (or are naive) but I honestly believe that most people realize that the type of man that visits prostitutes is your neighbor, your co-worker, your brother.

That consensus you elude too is part of the reason there is stigmatization. While sex is part of an encounter, for many gentlemen, we appreciate and value the connection, companionship, escape and sometimes friendships the ladies provide. Professional companions are much more than providers of sex, which is why the ladies are so special

If sex is part of the encounter then I don't know how you can say "men wanting to get laid" is part of the reason for the stigmatization. Sex is part of the encounter.

I realize there are many people who's view of a "client" is a fat sweaty guy driving down a dimly lit street looking for a prostitute, all I'm saying is that with all the media coverage of celebrities, politicians and athletes private lives there is a broader view of the type of man that hires an escort.

I'm not so sure that clients are that stigmatized. With all the high profile politicians, athletes and entertainers being caught with prostitutes I always thought that the general consensus was that all men were dogs and would do what ever they needed to to get laid.

So far doesn't seem like anyone has confused razor bumps with STI.

I have had a similar problem, for whatever reason some links do not work for me. When I try to post a picture in a thread sometimes I have to try 4 or 5 times before I get a picture that works.