Warped88

Having to make too many decisions about too many things, and none of them trivial, when all you want--need-- is to relax and catch your breath for a little while.

 

Ah, well. Such is life....

Who traveled in and out my door

I'm glad they came along

I dedicate this song

To all the girls I've loved before

To all the girls I once caressed

And may I say I've held the best

For helping me to grow

I owe a lot I know

To all the girls I've loved before

It's silly, but sometimes when I'm reading about the business and the experiences of hobbiests, this song keeps popping into my head.

 

Never thought I'd be quoting Julio Iglesias and Willie Nelson. I'm starting to live up to my username now....crap. :p

I'm not the type to make clothing requests, but there are couple that "get me going"...

 

As has already been mentioned, great fitting jeans and T are awesome.

 

And, panties with a white men's dress shirt. Grrrrrrrrrrr. ;)

 

EDIT: Dorinda has a good example of the dress shirt in here. Love it!

Well, to try to answer the original post...

 

I have a feeling that most of the active posters have some sort of avatar. The other members who, for whatever reason, don't actively participate in threads/posts often (or at all), probably feel no need or desire. They're here to get info and post the odd question here and there...so, I kinda get why they wouldn't bother.

 

My avatar is just something silly I found online while trying to figure out what I should use. Works for me. ;)

....But body art is personal, and no one should pressure someone into wearing a tattoo, nor should someone sit in judgement of those have tattoos....

 

This is exactly how I feel.

 

I'm not a fan of Tattoos, personally. Small(ish) ones on certain parts of the body, yes, I actually find attractive and sexy on a woman. But, more heavily tattooed isn't generally something I like personally. But, I've grown to appreciate them more lately, if that makes sense.

 

But, as RG said, Tattoos are very personal and just one part of the whole of a person. So to judge someone based on body art, or fail to see other beauty beyond is something I'm careful not to do.

In my sometimes wordy way, I was going to type up a detailed recommendation for Katie, but instead decided that I'd spare you all. :)

 

What Snic wrote above me is accurate.

 

I had the chance to see her recently and completely enjoyed the experience. She takes great care to provide you with an awesome atmosphere (Candles, music, clean location) and an enjoyable time. I found her to be genuinely concerned that you're getting what you need from her, and a very friendly, smart woman.

 

I'm glad we finally met and I'll be repeating.

 

'nuff said. :)

 

EDIT: A Link to her profile here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=91397

You won't know until you try it, so go ahead. :)

 

But from personal experience, doesn't do a thing for me.

I've not seriously considered this question from the provider's point of view. So, every reason stated here makes absolute sense.

 

Just from my point of view as a client, I'm typically shy upon first contact and asking for rates is something still new and a little uncomfortable for me. That said, I have no issues if someone doesn't do so.: You know, I gotta be a man sometimes and just ask. ;)

 

However, simply because of my nature, I'm VERY appreciative of those who do and even more appreciative of those who take the time to maintain a great website. It makes first contact much smoother. So, thanks. :)

 

Anyway....

Happy Birthday!!!

I agree with Angela and RG.

 

There's obviously a connection there and a level of trust that comes along with that.

 

Don't let the business side of things cloud the human, compassionate side. If this is her main, or important, source of income, and she's ill and unable to work, I'm sure she's extremely appreciative.

Is it a sign of a complete lack of class that my first thought of a response was, "If I farted."?

 

Anyway...I would cross if:

 

1) You were there, Cristy. (I kinda feel I need to say that as, you know, it's your thread. But, I would. At the proper "Walk" signal, though. Safety first, and all).

 

2)To see a puppy or friendly Dog.

 

3) At scent of some awesome food and needing to find out where it's coming from.

 

4) To help someone in need.

 

5) Because, like mount Everest, it was there.

 

6) Saw an Electronics/gadget/computer store.

Very interesting responses from the ladies (and gents). Much appreciated.

 

I've often wondered what a provider would consider a regular. Me, I'll only be able to partake every couple of months or so. Maybe less, maybe more. So, to me, that's regular. I guess the definition will vary for each person.

 

As for repeating or exploring, It's going to be a mixture of both for me. The first SP I ever visited, which was a couple of months ago now (I think), I've already seen 3 times (but, that frequency will be slowing down, as I said), but there are at least a dozen more that I'd love to meet.

 

Anyway, great thread. :)

They can leave me a message as often as they like as it's no bother and always nice. :)

 

That said, I wouldn't expect it every time as I have a bad habit of visiting profiles quite often: you know, aimlessly bouncing around clicking here and there. Some of you probably think I'm stalking ya. LOL.

 

I try not to bother the ladies too much while still socializing, but it's impossible to bother me (as far as this topic is concerned,anway lol). :)

I think there's a demand, and a place, for everything from 15 minutes to a week away on vacation.

 

What matters is who is comfortable, and willing, to offer the service and which clients will be good clients no matter the time, or service, involved.

 

I would never want an extended weekend stay with a lady as it's just not something I'm interested in, but I get why some do and think it's great. Although I don't think 15 minutes would be for me, I can see the appeal.

 

Forgetting about all the logistics (time management etc.) behind the possible option, if the same level of respect is present as with the more commonly accepted options, why the hell not. :)

Well, I didn't expect to drive home last night on snow covered, slick roads. LOL...like I said, just gotta laugh now.

 

It's all good, though. Made a decision last week that was effectively a U-turn in my life. Scary, but needed. So, exciting times ahead for this annoying boy from Moncton.

 

Enjoy your Friday and your Weekend. :)

Hard to believe there's another snow fall warning out for parts of northern NB. I mean, really, you can't help but laugh now. ;)

 

While not as good as what Sophia had in Cuba, it's been nice to have some warm weather and watching the snow disappear. I'm more than ready for summer to "bring it on".

 

Hope everyone is havin' a good week. :)

This is kinda weird, but...

 

A couple of weeks ago I had a privacy scare in which I believed someone in my personal life outside of CERB found out about my activity here. Needless to say, that freaked the hell out of me. So, probably over reacting in a panic, I deleted everything I could on my profile and went dark.

 

Anyway, as it turns out, the panic was for nothing and everything is cool. So, now I'm "rebuilding" my profile etc. With that said, sorry for the confusion I might cause by sending out friend requests again shortly.

 

Thanks. :)

My fantasies are pretty tame which, like itsnotme above, is probably from my lack of experience--only being with a handful of woman in long term relationships.

 

The encounter would start with one of several ladies here I'd love to meet. Most I feel are way out of my league and better worshiped from afar, but that's ok.

 

Now for the tame part: I just want something really slow and sensuous. Some candles, soft music, massage, maybe a hot tub. I wanna be seduced and pampered.

 

There. Tame. :)

I have an eclectic taste in music. Today, it's some old stuff.

 

Told my system to pick and play at random. Right now: Say it ain't so, Joe by Dakota Station. Peeking at the playlist, I see coming up:

 

1) Sammy Davis Jr

2) Sarah Vaughn

3) Billie Holiday

4) Nat King Cole

5) Billy Eckstine

 

So, yeah. Some oldies. :)

Waking up (still...late, late night) with coffee and surfing my various online haunts.

I've been using Lastpass for years with no complaints.

 

Their Android version wasn't the best, but I believe they've recently made some nice improvements which may make it worth a look.

 

No issues with it on Windows (8.1 and RT) and the various browsers.

Well, well. Lookatdat...

 

The sun is out (mostly), the temperature is above zero, and the snow is melting.

 

Let's hope this becomes the rule rather than the exception. :)

 

Have a great day, everyone...

Happy birthday, RG :)

 

May you enjoy it.

I've read other threads on this topic, and followed along thus far with this one, as it's an interesting topic to me personally as I have a wife of 15 years, and I'm now part of this world in which we all partake.

 

As many have said, and to which I agree, there are as many reasons as there are hobbyists, I think. And these reasons are why I find the topic interesting. Why? Because I haven't figured my reasons out as of yet.

 

I actually find it a bit surreal that I'm here. While I've lurked here since 2009, it was more out of curiosity than desire to become involved. Then, a little over month ago, something compelled me to make my first post. Not long after that, I had my first encounter. From first post to first encounter happened so fast that I was at a loss for thought on my drive home following it...

 

...And I still am. I know there's something important to be found in answering my own questions. Something that I desperately need to know. But until I find the reason, or reasons, all I know is that I have no guilt in doing what I've done and I feel compelled to continue.

 

Who knows, once I figure it out I may drop off the grid entirely, or maybe the opposite.

 

Anyway...an interesting topic indeed.

Hey, Wrecker.

 

You'd be better served by looking through the advertisements and announcements here to see who may be available.

 

And, then, the recommendations here.

 

Have a look at any websites, profiles, posts, etc, of the the ladies as well. If one of the lovely ladies here interests you, reach out to them (by whatever means they prefer). :)

 

There's always backpage as well. However, I'd highly recommend you search here first for any ladies on backpage that interest you before making any decisions.

 

Asking, "Who is available" will not get you very far without much more information on your part. :)

 

Good luck...