I am new to this hobby but I realized right away that I may risk money and being disappointed because she does not look like the pictures but the SP risks their safety. So if you can't deal with them looking out for themselves you may not be ready for this hobby. BTW I have had 2 encounters, the first was not like her picture (older) but still had a decent time and the 2nd looked better than her pictures so I feel I have broken even so far. Just remember these ladies have chosen to let us have access to them but respect their right to protect themselves.