LittleDirtyBirdy 410 Report post Posted March 31, 2016 And really I am super nervous about breaking the law and the fact that I am not a traditionally beautiful body type. Any advice or friendly words to help me feel less nervous? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MGSP 1590 Report post Posted April 2, 2016 Voluptuous women with all the curves in the right places possess a universal beauty. Just be yourself and enjoy the ride. You'll be fine. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted April 2, 2016 First of all - welcome. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. It is the beauty within that set everyone apart. Not everyone has the same likes or dislikes, so a size 2 might set some over the edge, others might say they enjoy a fuller figure. Some enjoy someone who is in their early 20's while others enjoy a more mature woman. So, don't ever look at yourself and compare yourself to the "traditonal mainstream" look. That is not what makes someone beautiful - it is their ability to see their own natural beauty and emphasize that. As for "breaking the law", I'm not really sure what you are referring to. Unless you are underaged, being forced by someone else, involved in drugs - you are not breaking the law. So, you might want to do some research on this industry, find out what the actual law says, and go from there. One thing I might suggest is to either work with a mentor or a cooperative to help you find your niche. I started in this industry through an agency, so was able to gain some valuable insight into it. I was lucky in that I found someone who was able to help mentor me and give me valuable knowledge and education. I'm still learning. Look into organizations like POWER - they are set up to help providers. Harm reduction, education, knowledge. Everything you need to understand. If you have any questions, don't ever hesitate to send me a pm. I feel that it is important to pay it forward the guidance I received to those that are starting out. Good luck! 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blacklabdog 3049 Report post Posted April 3, 2016 the FAQ might help a bit: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_sprules Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LittleDirtyBirdy 410 Report post Posted April 7, 2016 Thank you, @Meaghan McLeod. I figured out the laws and legal stuff from the stickies here so I feel more comfortable about that. I am still having a hard time being bigger than the average escort here. Guys like thick and not fat it seems. Lots of people start chatting with me only to eventually lose interest or they never commit to specifics. But I am still going to keep trying to get established in everything. This is something I really love and really want to keep doing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted April 7, 2016 Thank you, @Meaghan McLeod. I figured out the laws and legal stuff from the stickies here so I feel more comfortable about that. I am still having a hard time being bigger than the average escort here. Guys like thick and not fat it seems. Lots of people start chatting with me only to eventually lose interest or they never commit to specifics. But I am still going to keep trying to get established in everything. This is something I really love and really want to keep doing. As someone who is very voluptuous and has been a bigger size than I am now in the past, you need to have more confidence in yourself because if you don't, no one else will either. The more you speak of yourself in a positive manner, you will attract the clients who appreciate you for you first and foremost and your body type. Whatever the vibe you put out is the vibe you will attract back. Men who come to visit can be nervous and if you are nervous or not feeling confident, they will sense that and maybe decide not to stay. While no one is perfect, we are all unique and beautiful in our own way. Use your good qualities and build upon those. If you have a pretty face, use that to your advantage and whatever else. Dont focus or speak about lack or you wish you were different. If there is something you don't like about yourself, change it because you want to. Not because men in this business don't think you are slim enough. I lost a lot of weight in the last 9 months but I did it for myself and did it the right way. I don't pay attention to negative people and I don't read the garbage some of these men write about women. Ignorance is bliss. When you are confident, men will appreciate your inner and outer beauty. 12 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bully 383 Report post Posted April 8, 2016 Eloquent mentoring words from Meaghan. Just a comment on your choice. As women comes in all shapes and sizes so do mens' tastes. I for one find a confident sensual attitude more important to a meeting. Good Luck on your journey. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aeris 489 Report post Posted May 12, 2016 Hey welcome! I'm also a lady on the bigger side and I am new as well! I love my body and embrace everything about it! There is always going to be a guy looking for your type ! And those are the best kinds! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SQFoster 160 Report post Posted May 31, 2016 You are targeting more of a niche market but I'd say locally that market is rather under served. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ElissaMarie 4310 Report post Posted May 31, 2016 There's no traditionally beautiful body type ... Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder but mostly beauty is in your eye ... You are beautiful and you should know it and believe it EVERY.SINGLE.DAY ... Always!!! And really I am super nervous about breaking the law and the fact that I am not a traditionally beautiful body type. Any advice or friendly words to help me feel less nervous? Thank you, @Meaghan McLeod. I figured out the laws and legal stuff from the stickies here so I feel more comfortable about that. I am still having a hard time being bigger than the average escort here. Guys like thick and not fat it seems. Lots of people start chatting with me only to eventually lose interest or they never commit to specifics. But I am still going to keep trying to get established in everything. This is something I really love and really want to keep doing. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tonyb 1028 Report post Posted June 15, 2016 It's nice to see you here, Little Dirty Birdy. Your website is very cool and I look forward to meeting with you sometime when I'm in town. Over the years I've had the pleasure to spend time with some wonderful SSBBW's. You provide a niche service, but that doesn't mean that it doesn't have great value to some. Be true to yourself, enjoy the journey, and never feel bad about who you are. Some of us think you are amazing. 8-) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashley Ann 75247 Report post Posted June 15, 2016 Just be your beautiful self. That's what I do - and from one curvaceous lady to another..... I do just fine on this site and have met with plenty of nice men who LOVE my shape and size. Xo 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
adamdeaverit 140 Report post Posted June 22, 2016 As a fan of a larger lady i'm happy to see you here and can't wait to find time spend with you. Women like you are hard to find in this industry and would love the opportunity to treat you like the beautiful woman you are, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
