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Hi, did a quick search and could find a recent thread on this and was wondering if anyone has used this? I was looking at it and they want something like 80/month. If it was legit that would be ok but I would hate to spend that kind of money and find the girls are not real...

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I never really did understand the whole difference between SA versus escorts. I think whether your seeing an escort or SA it would really need to boil down to chemistry along with a connection. On any site whether it be a dating one or escort webpage your bound to find at least one fake one.

 

 

Well I hope it works for you.

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Ya good point but if the whole site is fake then that is not cool! And yes it totally boils down to that connection I am looking for which I am always trying new ways to find! :)

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I've been on SA and have been a SD since May of 2017. This site is legit, most of the women on there are real. All of the ladies I've communicated with do not want to be compared to, referred to or treated as escorts, nor are they seeking half hour or hour meets. Seeking Arrangement is for Sugar Dating or a paid ongoing relationship, it's not a sex workers site.

 

A one month full membership is about 120/month Canadian or about 100/month on a three months membership.

 

Please refrain from using SA as an escort type site and just as in this industry, always treat them with respect. Most are doing this as a temporary source of income to pay off school debts or other debts.

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Aren't we all....lol.

 

It is what it is

 

The foundation is certainly similar but the execution is a bit different. Most of the ladies are only looking for one SD. And the meetings are more like normal dates with a gift exchange instead of feeling like business appointments. Each arrangements are different and with more room for flexibility. In the few I've been involved in, the donations were the same no matter if the date lasted a few hours or the entire weekend.

 

I'm pretty sure others lived something different. But that's the beauty of it.

 

Have a nice evening.

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In the few I've been involved in, the donations were the same no matter if the date lasted a few hours or the entire weekend.

 

Have a nice evening.

 

Very true, a few hour date would never be the same rate as a entire weekend.

 

You have a great weekend as well.

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thanks all, it sounds like it might be interesting and something very different. I think I will have to try!~

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thanks all, it sounds like it might be interesting and something very different. I think I will have to try!~

 

Like some of us already said, it's quite different and you'll see it from the first meeting. Most of the time, it's like a blind date and a bit job interview as both are testing the chemistry and see if both are comfortable together. If it's positive, it can start immediately or at the next meeting depending on your plans.

 

Hope you'll find someone great.

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I've always been curious of thhis sort of arrangement myself, but judging from the responses so far in this thread, it is certainly something quite different indeed.

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8 hours ago, Johnny Canuck said:

I've always been curious of thhis sort of arrangement myself, but judging from the responses so far in this thread, it is certainly something quite different indeed.

Think of it like having a regular companion but with a few differences. 

As mentioned by Greenteal, the first meet is to gauge chemistry. If both wish to continue the meet at that moment or at a later time it can, if one (or both) wish not to see each other again it ends there. If you both wish to continue or see each other again than an agreement/arrangement is made and like a regular companion one might have in this industry, you see each other a few times a month but for a few hours at a time, or more, and every lady has a different allowance they require for every meet or it can be based on a monthly allowance. Whatever both feel comfortable with.

 

Cheers,  

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On 7/10/2018 at 7:21 PM, WhereIRoam said:

I've been on SA and have been a SD since May of 2017. This site is legit, most of the women on there are real. All of the ladies I've communicated with do not want to be compared to, referred to or treated as escorts, nor are they seeking half hour or hour meets. Seeking Arrangement is for Sugar Dating or a paid ongoing relationship, it's not a sex workers site.

 

A one month full membership is about 120/month Canadian or about 100/month on a three months membership.

 

Please refrain from using SA as an escort type site and just as in this industry, always treat them with respect. Most are doing this as a temporary source of income to pay off school debts or other debts.

I actually get treated like an escort 90% of the time on that site and that is what lead me to retiring from sugaring... For example this one dude tried to haggle me into spending an hour with him before even meeting him saying i would be well paid for my time and when I told him "no offence but you're looking for an escort" he got mad and i answered with "I actually think you're wrong. Saying you only want to see me for an hour and saying you'll compensate me for my time implies that you're looking for a quick fuck. Plus, most of the time the men on SA use it to underpay naive girls because you lie about wanting an arrangement. There's no shame in wanting an escort but don't try to trick innocent girls into your trap, it's gross and harmful to them. I've been on this site for over two years, I know the whole setup, don't test me. If you want to find a girl who's job it is to be compensated for their time there's cheaper websites than SA btw." So yeah, I was not happy. I am an escort AND a SB but it is against the site rules to advertise services, plus I don't want to ruin it for other girls who are uniquely SBs. 

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8 hours ago, EmilieSpade said:

I actually get treated like an escort 90% of the time on that site and that is what lead me to retiring from sugaring... For example this one dude tried to haggle me into spending an hour with him before even meeting him saying i would be well paid for my time and when I told him "no offence but you're looking for an escort" he got mad and i answered with "I actually think you're wrong. Saying you only want to see me for an hour and saying you'll compensate me for my time implies that you're looking for a quick fuck. Plus, most of the time the men on SA use it to underpay naive girls because you lie about wanting an arrangement. There's no shame in wanting an escort but don't try to trick innocent girls into your trap, it's gross and harmful to them. I've been on this site for over two years, I know the whole setup, don't test me. If you want to find a girl who's job it is to be compensated for their time there's cheaper websites than SA btw." So yeah, I was not happy. I am an escort AND a SB but it is against the site rules to advertise services, plus I don't want to ruin it for other girls who are uniquely SBs. 

 

   I personally hate those websites. Those attract the wrong type of men and women and commercialize things that shouldn't be. The point is supposed to simplify communications, but in real life had more success on free dating sites and apps. No two arrangements should be the same as needs are different. The whole point is the flexibility depending on the needs, attraction and chemistry. Abuse and exploitation can happen(on both side). But if both parties are honest about their needs and what they can contribute, problems should be minimized if not inexistant.

   As for your situation with a man wanting to see you for an hour, I can see side of the argument. I understand his motive of seeing you for an hour as a kind of job interview in order to gauge the chemistry and attraction before making it a relationship. But if all of it is in the bedroom, I certainly see your point. 

 

 Have a nice day and welcome to lyla.

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I have used the site and had two great SBs. Most girls on the site are legit but I have recently abandoned using the site because I did encounter my share of crazy/flaky girls and I found that peofessional SPs provide a consideranly better overall experience.

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I'm aware some men use Sugar Dating sites for escort purposes. My experience has been good overall. I enjoy sugar dating and see my SB most weekends. When I'm seeking an SP session I book with an SP. I enjoy both experiences.

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Last time I used this kind of website I only received replies from SP's and the occasional "gold digger". 

I found more efficient ways to find what I need.

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On 8/1/2018 at 7:43 AM, Greenteal said:

 

   I personally hate those websites. Those attract the wrong type of men and women and commercialize things that shouldn't be. The point is supposed to simplify communications, but in real life had more success on free dating sites and apps. No two arrangements should be the same as needs are different. The whole point is the flexibility depending on the needs, attraction and chemistry. Abuse and exploitation can happen(on both side). But if both parties are honest about their needs and what they can contribute, problems should be minimized if not inexistant.

   As for your situation with a man wanting to see you for an hour, I can see side of the argument. I understand his motive of seeing you for an hour as a kind of job interview in order to gauge the chemistry and attraction before making it a relationship. But if all of it is in the bedroom, I certainly see your point. 

 

 Have a nice day and welcome to lyla.

He wanted to see me for an hour in his hotel, so I knew what he was talking about 

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On ‎8‎/‎4‎/‎2018 at 9:32 AM, EmilieSpade said:

He wanted to see me for an hour in his hotel, so I knew what he was talking about 

Seen that way, I get your point.

Have a nice long weekend.

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On 7/9/2018 at 1:22 PM, chechman said:

Hi, did a quick search and could find a recent thread on this and was wondering if anyone has used this? I was looking at it and they want something like 80/month. If it was legit that would be ok but I would hate to spend that kind of money and find the girls are not real...

its legit but its pretty expensive for everything

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