kih 458 Report post Posted June 12, 2008 Now I have a question that partly contradicts point 2) above. Married or other women once they've had a child, to me, look quite unattractive, like a deflated paper bag. The wrinkles/sagging never go on the most beautiful part of their body, no matter how pretty they are in face or figure overall. I've seen this in beautiful girls of just 19, and can't quite believe it. Is this something that "mommies" never tell their sons and daughters, one of the ugly facts of life no one ever speaks about because the implications are so negative? I don't know about that and would have to think it depends on the individual woman's metabolism. I know some pretty fine looking Mom's !!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shypilot 113 Report post Posted June 12, 2008 So far I think every one who has piped in on this side topic has brought up very valid points of view. It clearly is an important issue no matter what your perspective is. That being said the question still boils down to how should an SP respond to the situation Cat raised in the first place. In the end those of us with wives who are seeing SP's for whatever reason, should always take great care in how we handle things. The ladies on this board like Cat deserve our respect since they put so much trust in us and treat us so well. It is a responsibility to them and the wives to make sure things are kept discreet for the SP's as well as ourselves. An ounce of prevention goes a long way... Gees I can't believe I just said that I sound like my old man.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
loneskater 25635 Report post Posted June 12, 2008 Some very good posts here, but three "small" details are missing: 2) the wife, or most wives' feelings, if they knew about a so-called "hobby", after bearing their husbands' children, etc., among a million and other things. Try 12 hours of child birth, and now he does this?? Now I have a question that partly contradicts point 2) above. Married or other women once they've had a child, to me, look quite unattractive, like a deflated paper bag. The wrinkles/sagging never go on the most beautiful part of their body, no matter how pretty they are in face or figure overall. I've seen this in beautiful girls of just 19, and can't quite believe it. Is this something that "mommies" never tell their sons and daughters, one of the ugly facts of life no one ever speaks about because the implications are so negative? That said, the posts were very revealing, indeed. Thanks all round! I do have wringles and sagging in the wrong places but then I don't remember giving birth. Now It is true that child birth changes a woman's body but age also does. Althought you can't generalize because our system/glands react differently in many cases the problem has some to do with lack of exercise. I have seen many women that you would not be able to tell they ever had children. Listen to the news, it is a fact that we do not exercise enought and that is both men and women. So as thought there are exceptions the looks of women is not directly related to child birth. I call it the "I caught a husband/wife syndrome". Now that I am married and not on the prowl I don't have to worry as much about my physique. One last point there are women who actually looks better and more beautiful after child birth. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest troy71 Report post Posted June 12, 2008 Sorry for hijacking the thread off the topic and also I did not meant offend anyone. It's just sometime I look at the 40 year old guys cruising around on Harlie's or Corvettes or other fancy cars, and you see the 20 something hotties all going gaga over them especially in the strip clubs were a single 20 something can't get a girl unless he trips one cause they are all clamoring to be with the 40 year olds??? Maybe when I am 40 I will get it, but for now I just wish that I could find Mrs. wright that is all I was trying to say I am jealous of you guys with wives. Plus maybe I am too honest by I tell any prospective date that I surf porn and I go to strip clubs and I might higher out for sex if the right circumstances happen, that way I make no promises I can't keep, of course this strategy has gotten me to were I am today, jealous of you guys! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted June 12, 2008 Well Troy, I am on wife number three and the interesting thing is that wife #2 took me for what I was, but left me for a better liar! So I think the idea is a good one, just be prepared to swim a lot a water to find that fish. And those 40 year olds at the strip club, nothing to be intimidated by, you will get there with age too! I know this 40 year old would rather be at the NAC or a senators game than a strip club (oh and there will be beautiful ladies at least the one I am with)! Back to the topic at hand, I think that it is important to leave a plausible explanation for any of you activity, including alibis for where you were, buddies to call if your cell phone mysteriously is not getting answered, reasons for your behavior reduces the snoop response. Then on to the notion that ladies get ugly when they have children or get old, I have been with many many MILF's even GILF's, there are some incredible ladies that have also achieved child birth, right here acclaimed night after night on this board. I can't believe you said that! I don't want to name names but one of the sexiest SP's out there with a flat tummy and great ass has 4 children! The lady who started this thread is not that young however she has a very beautiful body, and I like to be naked with it whenever I can! Gees this thread is getting all kinds of twist and turns! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted June 12, 2008 Well Troy, I am on wife number three and the interesting thing is that wife #2 took me for what I was, but left me for a better liar! So I think the idea is a good one, just be prepared to swim a lot a water to find that fish. And those 40 year olds at the strip club, nothing to be intimidated by, you will get there with age too! I know this 40 year old would rather be at the NAC or a senators game than a strip club (oh and there will be beautiful ladies at least the one I am with)! Back to the topic at hand, I think that it is important to leave a plausible explanation for any of you activity, including alibis for where you were, buddies to call if your cell phone mysteriously is not getting answered, reasons for your behavior reduces the snoop response. Then on to the notion that ladies get ugly when they have children or get old, I have been with many many MILF's even GILF's, there are some incredible ladies that have also achieved child birth, right here acclaimed night after night on this board. I can't believe you said that! I don't want to name names but one of the sexiest SP's out there with a flat tummy and great ass has 4 children! The lady who started this thread is not that young however she has a very beautiful body, and I like to be naked with it whenever I can! Gees this thread is getting all kinds of twist and turns! Well said dumppy....a lot of SPS and a lot of dancers are moms...most single mom's trying to feed their kids...they don't look like deflated bags or they wouldn't be bringing home the bacon...that was a gross generalization that does an injustice to some of the most beautiful women I know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shypilot 113 Report post Posted June 12, 2008 Well Troy, .... Then on to the notion that ladies get ugly when they have children or get old, I have been with many many MILF's even GILF's, there are some incredible ladies that have also achieved child birth, right here acclaimed night after night on this board. I can't believe you said that! I don't want to name names but one of the sexiest SP's out there with a flat tummy and great ass has 4 children! The lady who started this thread is not that young however she has a very beautiful body, and I like to be naked with it whenever I can! Gees this thread is getting all kinds of twist and turns! I agree with you whole heartedly dummpy. Some of the most beautiful woman I have met over these short 40+ years are mothers but like all things in life there is bound to be variety of all kinds it is the nature of people men and woman. Just a note to Troy you truly have nothing to be jealous about; marriage should be and usually is taken very seriously but some people pay a very high emotional price because of things out of their control. When you see these 40 somethings driving around, a lot of them are trying to compensate for the miserable state they have gotten themselves into. Trying to relive their imaginary youth. True I an sure they have fun but in the end they still have the issues that got them there in the first place. Don't be jealous be yourself I don't know how old you are but it sounds like you have plenty of time ahead to get as screwed up as most of us. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
