Sensibilities around nudity in a massage salon

[RobX 2084]

The title of this thread will make a bit more sense once I explain. The motivation for this thread comes from two very recent massage session experiences of mine.

 

I recently had a massage session by an indy masseuse at an appartment she shares with other indys, who use the appartment as an incall massage location. After the massage we switched rooms so that we could take a shower together in the larger walk-in shower. This room had previously been used by one of the other MPAs who had just finished a session, and who still in the nude. The timing of the switch was a bit off so we caught a glimpse of each other in the nude, and she ran into one of the bathrooms. Under most circumstances this would be normal behavior. But in this case I could book an appointment with her next week, and we would both be in the nude together. Or I could have already seen her previously. Was her reaction normal expected behavior that has to do with sensibilities around nudity in front of strangers, or was it rather silly given the circumstances?

 

I also had a similar experience more recently in a massage salon. I had booked an appointment with an MPA. When I got to the salon, the receptionist explained that the MPA had not arrived yet, and was stuck in traffic. She brought me to the room. I took a shower and waited for the MPA in the nude. Soon there was a knock on the door. I thought it was the MPA, but when the door opened it was the receptionist who had come to explain that the MPA had called and would be a few minutes more. I instinctly tried to cover up a bit, but I was not really embarassed. It would be a bit silly to be embarassed for being nude in an erotic massage salon! However, after the session, when I left the receptionist was not at the front desk as usual, and I let myself out. This has never happened before.

 

Now I'm left wondering. Was she embarassed by the situation? Does she think that I was embarrased? I'm not sure what to think now? And the previous experience I mentioned above makes me think that maybe this is a bigger deal than I realize. Or maybe I'm overthinking it. Maybe the receptionist was just busy elsewhere and couldn't see me out as she normally does. Should I email her about it, or just pretend it never happened?

 

Any ideas?

[BarrhavenWoody 10776]

Doesn't seem like a big deal to me. I wouldn't bother emailing her. No sense in making an big issue out of a "little thing". lol

[roamingguy 300291]

Agreed, nothing to fret over. If the receptionist is embarassed by nudity, she's in the wrong line of work

Move on like nothing happened, because really, nothing did

RG

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I don't really have much to add, but this is why I prefer working alone. Heck, in between appointments I cook my lunch in the nude!

 

Seriously though, in the first instance I think you did nothing wrong. It would be nice if the ladies could coordinate better so there is no bumping into others.

 

For the second, I don't really know how MP's work but I prefer my gentlemen to undress when I indicate it's time. I have some gents try to undress for my lapdance which does not work for me because it restricts how close I can get.

[PistolPete 61421]

Heck' date=' in between appointments I cook my lunch in the nude!

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Now that would be a great sight to see, I take it you would be naked BUT in high heels too :)

[Kubrickfan 12836]

Doesn't seem like a big deal to me. I wouldn't bother emailing her. No sense in making an big issue out of a "little thing". lol

 

Agreed ... but no comment on the "little thing" issue (smile). Sounds like she was just showing natural modesty.

[mikkismitty 197]

Sounds like a mix up on both cases....not to be concerned. They weren't running away crying or laughing were they(as they would for sure in my case) (said humorously laughing at myself).

[jughead 45]

Well if they did not complain right thenand there and ask you to leave and never come back then i would say that you have nothing to worry about. The only concern i would have would be seeing another client nude not something I would want to see, but to each his own.

[rickkm 328]

It could be that the receptionist did not know that the massage salon was erotic!!

[J Galt 337]

I don't really have much to add' date=' but this is why I prefer working alone. Heck, in between appointments I cook my lunch in the nude!

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You know, some of us might like that lunch included.

[manitoba 2758]

.....Heck' date=' in between appointments I cook my lunch in the nude!

 

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Do not fry bacon in the nude.

 

Trust me on this one.

 

Mb

[Secret XTC 100]

Hilarious!

[April Dawn 12207]

Its funny because I LOVE bacon, almost in a horrible crippling addiction way and I had a conversation with a friend at the bar about nude bacon cooking. He showed me scars from grease splatters all over his chest. I guess he didn't learn that the first time!

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[whiteman 14028]

I think it's good that people still feel embarrassed being in the nude. If we weren't embarrassed by it anymore then this entire industry would come to a screeching halt. :icon_redface:

[RobX 2084]

I think it's good that people still feel embarrassed being in the nude. If we weren't embarrassed by it anymore then this entire industry would come to a screeching halt. :icon_redface:

 

I"m not sure I follow you. Swingers probably don't feel embarrassed about being in the nude, and they certainly enjoy sex. And nudists probably get as excited about having sex as much as everyone else.

 

One of the aspects of erotic massage that is different from seeing escorts is that when you first meet the masseuse, you are in the nude - either you're still in the shower when she enters the room, or you are drying yourself off, or are sitting or lying on the massage table in the nude. At that point in time, you are feeling a lot of things, but embarrassment is NOT one of them. And the fact that you do not feel embarrassment certainly does not diminish the experience you are about to have.

 

I really don't think it makes any sense for a potential client or masseuse to be embarassed about being in the nude in front the person you could be sharing an erotic massage experience with the next day.

 

However, it is different matter entirely to find yourself nude in front of the receptionist, precisely because this is not at all an expected behavior.

[whiteman 14028]

I"m not sure I follow you. Swingers probably don't feel embarrassed about being in the nude, and they certainly enjoy sex. And nudists probably get as excited about having sex as much as everyone else.

I'm sure both types got embarrassed when they first started out. It gets less and less with time, but neither would be caught dead nude in non-appropriate circumstances, i.e. outside the nude beach or the swingers club.

One of the aspects of erotic massage that is different from seeing escorts is that when you first meet the masseuse, you are in the nude - either you're still in the shower when she enters the room, or you are drying yourself off, or are sitting or lying on the massage table in the nude. At that point in time, you are feeling a lot of things, but embarrassment is NOT one of them. And the fact that you do not feel embarrassment certainly does not diminish the experience you are about to have.

 

I really don't think it makes any sense to be for a potential client or masseuse to be embarassed about being in the nude in front the person you could be sharing an erotic massage experience with the next day.

 

However, it is different matter entirely to find yourself nude in front of the receptionist, precisely because this is not at all an expected behavior.

Which comes down to the non-appropriate situation remark I talked about, up above. But it's still a bit embarrassing when seeing a new masseuse for the first time. Once you have known each other a while, it's another matter.

[Apex2006 1071]

I don't really have much to add' date=' but this is why I prefer working alone. Heck, in between appointments I cook my lunch in the nude!

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I hope you are not frying something!!!!!

 

lol