frenchbrute 1090 Report post Posted June 12, 2011 Ok so after reading a fellow cerbites post and not only thoroughly enjoying it but, being able to easily identify with his experience, I felt compelled to share my own and one can only wonder what is typical and what is unique of my experience..you be the judge. I will attempt to break things down by section.Ok, so I am a 29 year old guy from just outside Ottawa and recent newbie to both hobbying and CERB. Being single, a young professional and 29, I was always curious about what this type of experience had to offer and how to go about it. I have always been a rather private guy and very shy with women. Always polite and gentlemanly, but with good looking women the funniest things always seemed to happen. Given that, my schedule of work and recent relationshiop woes I decided...why not. I therefore decided to look up Ottawa area escorts....wow didn't know the hobby was so popular and how many there were just in Ottawa. The initial contact/preparations During my initial search, I came across the website of one young lady from Ottawa. She had a link on her website which said..."check my reviews on CERB"...I didn't know what that was therefore I decided to check it out. After reading some profiles, posts & conversations, I decided to make initial contact with her. Of course, never having done this before and not knowing the exact procecesses, etiquette or what have you I was veyr nervous. After we exchanged a few e-mails within one day it was looking good for a meet, but alas, because I am out-of-town...I don't own a cellphone...and my homephone is unlisted due to work...we we're unable to make arrangements. I was not disuased totally by this and tried another young lady. This time we were able to make direct contact quickly and easily. I felt funny making arrangement, almost like I was 13 again and calling a girl while hoping her dad didn't answer the phone. I was somewhat nervous and my voice cracked a bit as I gave her direction and we selected date/time. I had made a request for outcall, so I the lady asked the lady through e-mails what refreshments she enjoyed so I could have something for her when she arrived , as well I inquired wether she had any specific allergies. She seemed appreciatieve and kind of like it wasn't a typical question. After once again confirming date/time we hung up and I was stoked, this really was going to happen. Now the nervousness begins to set in...what have a gottten myself into? Alll I was worried about was...EVERY DETAIL. What do I wear? What do I get? Will she find the place? What do I say to her? Make eye contact. Do I tell her it's my first time? Plenty more questions arise as I think about her arrival. This is where funny things happen, nervousness is starting. She gave me a few options of drinks...so I buy like 5 types, she said she wasn't picky about food....so I get chocolate, candies & a veggie platter...yes a feast for two. I wanted to make sure that I didnt forget anything so I picked up..some manly products...not sure which ones she might be comfortable with so...I go to pharmacies and buy 3 different types..of course not thinking that many women bring there own. I even thought of picking up a few things for her in case she wanted to shower and freshen up at my place afterwards. I spent the balance of the day of dusting, vacuuming, washing the bathroom,getting ice, putting out food, spreading out and lighting about 30 large scented candles throughout the apartment, febrezing all the furniture...just trying to get things right....I finish about 1-hour before the agreed upon time for her to arrive. I pick out my outfit, shower, shave, slap on some cologne, then head out to the livingroom and put on some music. The phone rings....as expected she wonders which door to use...a few minutes later...I can hear high heels clic-clac on the stairs in the hallway and..ding dong...here we go.... (part 2-the meeting...to follow) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gordie 100 Report post Posted June 13, 2011 Definitely looking forward to Part Two of this one:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wendigo 687 Report post Posted June 14, 2011 Great story so far, definitely looking forward to the next part! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted June 14, 2011 If I had to do all that prep work, I'd be too tired to fuck...lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paradise Spa 24019 Report post Posted June 14, 2011 If I had to do all that prep work, I'd be too tired to fuck...lol LOL I was thinking the same thing :) Looking forward to part 2 :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Isabella Gia (Banned) 53881 Report post Posted June 15, 2011 (edited) Can't give you more rep point so I'll write the message here ... I'm glad you had a nice experience :) From what I read you did very well for a first timer. Congrats!! Edited June 15, 2011 by Isabella Gia (Banned) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuxeMulvari 65764 Report post Posted June 18, 2011 xoxoxoxoxox French :biggrin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reddog01 30280 Report post Posted June 18, 2011 Frenchbrute: I enjoyed your depiction of your first time experience. I have to admit I have gone through similar preps, and still do, to receive an SP, although it is a lot less work as I use an upscale hotel room as my base. The ladies do appreciate the extra effort. Think about adding your recommendation with a name attached to the recommendations thread http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=125 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rubs 1373 Report post Posted September 8, 2011 I wish my first experince with an Sp was a fraction of your experince. I was young and a virgin. Called a place in Dartmouth called Salt and Pepper. This was well over 20 years ago. So i'm sure they are no longer around. I had saved up all my money for months. My Parents went out for the day new they would be gone along time doing there usal Saturday thing. So I called. A lady asked if i wonted salt or pepper. I asked for salt. I was told Salt would phone me. And she did quickly. We talked and she said she was on the rag and shouldn't come out. She probably didn't like the sound of the terrified boy she was hearing. So Peper called back and offered herself. I said ok. She gave me the price plus return trip for taxi. I waited 30 min and the taxi pulls in. This tall thin blak lady came to the door. she looked old to me. So she was probably in her mid 30's lol. A fine age now. I wish i was that young now. Anyway I let her in and she sais she need the fare for the taxi. I nervously (hands shaking) start to count it out from the tight bunde of cash from my clenched hand. I couldn't get the bills seperated so I handed her the whole bundle. She sais all be right back. She walks back to the cab to pay him gets in and the Taxi leaves with her in it and all my hard earn cash. 30 min latter the phone rings Its the first lady i tooked to who said she would come out. She says the girl came back and said you hit her. We have big body gaurds who are going to come see you. I'm almost intears scared sh*tless. I say I'm only a teenager. I didn't do that she just took my money and left. I wont it back. The lady on the phone sais she will talk to the girl and will get back to me. She never did. thank god I would have paid for her not to call back. Lol how stupid was I. I never checked out a sp for over 15 years after. I'm much more careful now. But I'm always terified. Can th the SP's smell it on me lol? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gntlmn 796 Report post Posted September 10, 2011 Frenchybrute, I think if this hobby were a union shop (on our side, not the ladies' -- I know, doesn't make sense, stay with me) the union brethren would tell you to slow down cuz you're making the others look bad. BUT that's just a joke. I think if I were the SP you saw I'd be friggin' tickled by the show of appreciation towards me for the service being provided, considering some of their clients' approaches. Rubs -- lesson learned early. 15 years avoiding the hobby probably made your next positive experience in it really stand out, I'd hope. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
travelfreak 600 Report post Posted September 11, 2011 I think it is only normal to be nervous the first time. I remember taking the plunge into this business 10 years ago in Edmonton. Was stuck for work over a weekend and decided to try it. I was treated like a prince and she must have sensed the tension in the air because she was really careful and taking it slow. It all ended well and I must say she sort of changed my life forever. I have tried to get out but always seem to get the urge for excitement and never been able to stay out for more than 8 months. Well, I see it as there are many worse addictions to have. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SteevesTheKing 100 Report post Posted September 18, 2011 Very interesting and creative. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted September 19, 2011 Rubs, if that happened to me, my "cerb life" would have been very short indeed. Fortunately, there's lots of opportunities for research now, especially online. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
