First attempt at the hobby - looking for advice on whether my instinct was right

[jcp pump 0]

Hey all 

Tonight was my first go at this. The communication with the sp seemed all fine, but as I approached the door to her apartment, I could distinctly here at least 3 men aguring in a different language inside just as I was about to knock. I messaged her and said I heard multiple men inside and I was leaving. All I got was "f u" back.

 

This may sound like a stupid question, but I assumed that any sp would be alone in their home or apt or hotel, but does this happen? Perhaps there were multiple sp's in the apartment? 

[DaveM2 194]

You made the right decision.

[fun4rob 88]

You absolutely made the right decision - the risks pretty much always outweigh the rewards when it comes to this activity so best to be safe than sorry if in doubt.

[Scotian169 31]

On 6/7/2025 at 10:49 PM, jcp pump said:

Hey all 

Tonight was my first go at this. The communication with the sp seemed all fine, but as I approached the door to her apartment, I could distinctly here at least 3 men aguring in a different language inside just as I was about to knock. I messaged her and said I heard multiple men inside and I was leaving. All I got was "f u" back.

 

This may sound like a stupid question, but I assumed that any sp would be alone in their home or apt or hotel, but does this happen? Perhaps there were multiple sp's in the apartment? 

Maybe a good idea to share who this was to help others avoid that situation

[happy fisherman 69 94]

There is NO stupid question! Being safe is more important

[harboursmoke 3102]

On 6/7/2025 at 10:49 PM, jcp pump said:

Hey all 

Tonight was my first go at this. The communication with the sp seemed all fine, but as I approached the door to her apartment, I could distinctly here at least 3 men aguring in a different language inside just as I was about to knock. I messaged her and said I heard multiple men inside and I was leaving. All I got was "f u" back.

 

This may sound like a stupid question, but I assumed that any sp would be alone in their home or apt or hotel, but does this happen? Perhaps there were multiple sp's in the apartment? 

 

You made the right call.