YFL Elite

[RobertDion 131]

The reason? It's obvious, the more out-of-town girls come in, the less money the local girls make, because the customers are then lured away. There's only so many customers, and when the market gets saturated, the local girls get less busy, less busy means less income, less income means more frustrations and jealousy and the need to drive away the competition.

[MikeyInHalifax 337]

4 hours ago, RobertDion said:

The reason? It's obvious, the more out-of-town girls come in, the less money the local girls make, because the customers are then lured away. There's only so many customers, and when the market gets saturated, the local girls get less busy, less busy means less income, less income means more frustrations and jealousy and the need to drive away the competition.

I am of the opinion that the local girls aren't  getting much traffic these days regardless of the competition. Outside those local ladies who are already deeply established I think most of us are already steering clear and looking to see new faces and better experiences 

[TonyK 207]

10 hours ago, MikeyInHalifax said:

What's the reason to do this tho? To chase the travelling girls off and keep the local clients for themselves? I would be willing to bet that those local ladies who are engaging in this behavior aren't getting many clients regardless of the presence of the travelling girl. 

In fact, are there any locals who provides gfe? I guess a few of them used to quote add-on charges for gfe. Most of them I contacted provide safe services only. That's one thing I like about YFL.

[RobertDion 131]

The definition for "GFE" is so darn broad

[TonyK 207]

9 hours ago, RobertDion said:

The definition for "GFE" is so darn broad

Haha Yea, that's true but still there are some basics right? Lol!

[AdamSandler 254]

2 hours ago, TonyK said:

Haha Yea, that's true but still there are some basics right? Lol!

Honestly not really. The idea is it is supposed to be a more sensual experience like spending time with your girlfriend but in terms of specific acts or services it's still pretty generic and different people will offer different things. I'd say there's maybe a bit of a general idea most people have with services offered but it's not a rule at all in the way of "oh she doesn't offer XYZ so she doesn't offer GFE"

[RobertDion 131]

Both SPs and Hobbyists have a different idea of what GFE "should" include is what I meant. I've never met two SPs with even close to the same definition.

[RobertDion 131]

Even google or sites that have 'official' terms of what these acronyms mean in detail keep it broad, could be this, could be that, some people define it as this, others as that, blah blah blah. SPs can make it mean whatever they want, really.

[BenDover 307]

On 7/23/2025 at 2:54 PM, TonyK said:

Maybe some of the local providers who have their own place can rent out their space for a nominal fee 🙂

oh yes i always give a hand up to my business competitors 🙄

it actually works the opposite , more than 1 travelling girl has told me the locals do fake bookings and harassment on them 

this was awhile back , not sure if it’s still that greasy 

 

 

[TonyK 207]

2 hours ago, BenDover said:

oh yes i always give a hand up to my business competitors 🙄

it actually works the opposite , more than 1 travelling girl has told me the locals do fake bookings and harassment on them 

this was awhile back , not sure if it’s still that greasy 

 

 

Why not? If a local seems to have less booking, or who does occasionally or may be taking a break, why can't they rent their space and make some bucks. 

[TonyK 207]

On 7/25/2025 at 11:01 PM, RobertDion said:

Even google or sites that have 'official' terms of what these acronyms mean in detail keep it broad, could be this, could be that, some people define it as this, others as that, blah blah blah. SPs can make it mean whatever they want, really.

That's true. But if the definition is broad, I wish they put their definition on their ad if what gfe means to them. It'd take only a few seconds to put some acronym or maybe a line. It could save them much time in longer rum from people like me who asks them first thing when I contact them. Like Ms.Melody. Her as is so descriptive so that the only question you might have to ask is her availability.

[AdamSandler 254]

1 hour ago, TonyK said:

That's true. But if the definition is broad, I wish they put their definition on their ad if what gfe means to them. It'd take only a few seconds to put some acronym or maybe a line. It could save them much time in longer rum from people like me who asks them first thing when I contact them. Like Ms.Melody. Her as is so descriptive so that the only question you might have to ask is her availability.

There's a few things though. Some don't like providing a "menu" and look down on that. They want it to be a more organic date. Others don't like to say what they provide specifically because they don't want to be locked in saying they offer something but then meeting a client they really don't want to do that with and having to make up an excuse. They're in a vulnerable position and not all clients take being refused services well. 

[RobertDion 131]

2 hours ago, TonyK said:

Why not? If a local seems to have less booking, or who does occasionally or may be taking a break, why can't they rent their space and make some bucks. 

No way, unless they've known them from previous encounters and are friends with them, I can't see them doing it, they value their privacy and want to keep others away from their clientele. 

[MsManda 25813]

1 hour ago, RobertDion said:

No way, unless they've known them from previous encounters and are friends with them, I can't see them doing it, they value their privacy and want to keep others away from their clientele. 

We value our privacy and safety above all, so sharing with people we know well and can trust, makes more sense than sharing with just anyone 

 

As some of you know, I rented out my old Incall for many years - loved the experience 🥰

That location had a number of unique factors that made that possible though. 

 

Post covid, renting isn't as easy or hassle free, and discretion just isn't as valued as it was before.. 👀

The risks are higher now for us, without adding in even more people as variables/responsibilities.

I've even seen clauses in leases worded basically just for us - to evict us, then sue, even if we don't bring legal trouble 

 

As for keeping other sps away from our clients; 🤔 the clients will 99% of the time book before they know where we are/who's space we're in lol 

it makes little to no difference (in my experience) if we're sharing a space.. The guys who know, will know, and the others really have no need to know who's space it is /who else works there, unless that's community info

 

My clients could always just book another provider outside of my location too lol most of us don't care or think about any of that..

We don't own clients, rather, many of us like to share 😈

[MsManda 25813]

4 hours ago, TonyK said:

That's true. But if the definition is broad, I wish they put their definition on their ad if what gfe means to them. It'd take only a few seconds to put some acronym or maybe a line. It could save them much time in longer rum from people like me who asks them first thing when I contact them. Like Ms.Melody. Her as is so descriptive so that the only question you might have to ask is her availability.

The more acronyms in my ad, the more problems I receive.. It doesn't actually weed anything out for us; it seems to encourage even moreeee lengthy, explicit messages that go nowhere - wasting even more of my time. 😭

And that's without me posting a phone number lol

 

Just ask for what you want, if it's that important to you ❤️

We work in customer service, we don't mind answering things that aren't explained in our ads or on our sites. 

 

You wouldn't believe - American clients usually don't even ask for explicit acts, nary an acronym in sight, and we still somehow are able to do the things and have a great time 👀

 

My offerings aren't set in stone (ymmv for hygiene etc ofc) and it's unrealistic to list all of my offerings in an ad, but still make it sound like an ad, unlike a list.

They only give us so many characters lol we need some room for other info, and personalitaaay 😂

[RobertDion 131]

good to know! 😎

[RobertDion 131]

On 6/30/2025 at 2:48 PM, AdamSandler said:

The old pics of Ashley were certainly bigger than I prefer. The new ones look better to me. Still maybe a little more curvy than I typically go for but if she's good maybe I'll take a chance and book her next time she visits.

Speaking of curvy... this gem is coming to Halifax next month 💕

https://x.com/giannav6969